After settling down, Wang Zijian once sold a chicken blood room.
Mr. Ji divorced his ex-wife, remarried and had a little daughter, but his ex-wife just didn't allow him to sell the house, even though it was clearly stated that it was Mr. Ji's property at the time of divorce.
Ex-wife's behavior is very strange. She ran home to kill chickens, making it look like a murder scene, scaring off buyers one by one.
Later, Wang Zijian found the crux of the problem.
In fact, the ex-wife felt wronged for her son. Mr. Ji divorced and devoted himself to taking care of his little daughter. So, what about the eldest son? Doesn't he deserve his father's love?
It is suggested that Mr. Ji give one-third of the house price to his eldest son as the down payment for getting married and buying a house in the future.
A child who grew up in a single-parent family just wants to know whether his father still loves him after he was sentenced to his mother. Once he feels love, he is actually very satisfied. It's never money he's after.
Between people, mutual affection is the most important, but money is the external performance.
This sentence is really easy to poke. Many divorced people can no longer sit together well. In fact, it is not because there is no love between them. Marriage is always free. Adults have long known that we all have the right to choose.
Angry, not because you don't love me, but because you don't love children.
The netizen said that during the epidemic, he and his children were in the hardest hit areas, but his ex-husband didn't make a phone call or even cared at all. He really feels wronged for his children.
In the future, why should I come back to be a father to my children? The best thing is never to admit it.
02
Between Fang and Pan Guiyu, although they are mother and daughter, Pan Guiyu's meanness is really unprecedented.
When Grandpa Fang died, Pan Guiyu didn't tell him, but took this opportunity to extort money desperately. Grandpa Fang is dead, and Pan Guiyu is still asking for medical expenses. She wants to force her daughter to death.
Fang Rujin was furious, saying that this family has nothing to do with her anymore.
But then Fang Jiadong came and found Pan Guiyu seriously ill. Fang drove hundreds of kilometers back, but he still gave 20 thousand yuan. Even Pan Guiyu was forgiven when he died.
Many netizens asked, why, did you really believe her story:
Before, I didn't want to flood the house. I just wanted to make some noise. Someone helped me raise my children.
I blackmailed Fang Rujin for so much money, all for this family. Not a penny was spent on Pan Guiyu. But even so, should she be forgiven?
I think, in fact, the real reason is not these at all, but three points:
One is what Xu Wenchang said, blood relationship can never be changed. Who are you and where are you from? You don't deny it, you deny it. How can you change it?
Second, the room is like brocade and cordial. She and Pan Guiyu are not alone. The hardships she has suffered over the years have given her a broader pattern. Pan Guiyu's world is the small courtyard, that is, the house building, but the beautiful world of the house is the big Shanghai, which is the new world of the old house.
Third, Fang has always longed for maternal love. She was indignant. In fact, it has never been a question of money, but "How could you do this to me?" Why can't you love me a little?
Therefore, when Pan Guiyu is willing to give a little love, even a little at the end of his life, he can't bear to refuse. Because of this, she is also a person loved by her mother.
There is an essential difference between being loved and not being loved.
03
Xu Wenchang was born with a silver spoon in his mouth, and his father Xu Youdao took them to eat and travel all over Shanghai. He has always been a rich and powerful noble family.
However, 15 years old, my father cheated on me and married a new lover. My mother got depressed and finally committed suicide by jumping off a building. In fact, from then on, Xu Wenchang's psychology was also unhealthy.
Therefore, Xu Wenchang was carried away by blood. Every time I see blood, it reminds him of the moment when his mother jumped off the building, and he can't get rid of it.
Xu Wenchang will never miss his birthday. On his birthday, he presented a bunch of flowers to his mother and went to the cemetery for a night. Xu Wenchang must have seen her mother's tears too much, so she was wronged. He wants to get something back for her and get back at her.
After all these years, I refused to talk to Xu Youdao. In fact, it's all resentment and anger. Why not love us?
However, when Xu Wenchang suggested that the room be like brocade, it was actually his self-healing. When people leave, resentment fades, hatred makes people tired, and love is what people long for.
Xu Wenchang wants to start a business and discusses with his brothers how to raise enough start-up funds.
Qin Tao said: You have strength. You can ask your father, not to mention three or five million' 350 million'. He can have it, too Besides, your father gave you the first bucket of gold when you started your business.
Xu Wenchang said that my first bucket of gold was the payment for writing Dream Back to Shilifu. However, that was Xu Youdao's secret collusion. Which publishing house signed up for 300 thousand copies? Unsold books have been piled up everywhere.
Xu Wenchang did feel love. It turns out that dad has always loved him.
Those endless snacks when I was a child, every dish my father taught him, and the Buddha jumps over the wall that Xu Wenchang can still make.
Therefore, when Xu Youdao made a Buddha jump over the wall again, those dusty love and longing rolled back again, so the father and son made up.
04
From Mr. Ji, Pan Guiyu and Xu Youdao, in fact, every forgiveness is not because it is worth it, not because it is right or wrong, but because of the desire for love.
Longing for love is our eternal need.
Love well and feel love well. In love and being loved, we will become stronger, happier and happier.
Do you think so?