Is it appropriate to add the name of the man's parents when the husband's family has not paid the house? Buying a house now is really not cheap. Even in third-and fourth-tier cities, it must be at least 1 10,000 or even more than 2 million square meters. This money is undoubtedly a huge economic pressure for young people who just go to work, so most young people will get family support when they buy a house.
However, everyone's family economic situation is different. Among the young people who work hard in the city, some young people have to rely entirely on their own efforts and then buy a house through their own efforts. Then the problem is coming. Is it appropriate to add parents' names to the room card?
The man's parents didn't give a penny. Should they add their names? I think we need to look at this problem from two aspects:
1, if the money for buying a house is paid by the man himself, then whose name should be added should be decided by the man. Maybe the man just wanted to express his gratitude to his parents. Before he got married, the woman had no right to interfere. After all, it was his own business.
2. If the woman also paid for this house, and the young couple bought the property, then whose name must be decided by the investor, not a person. If the man forcibly adds his parents' names, the woman will definitely get angry.
Why does Phoenix Man need to add his parents' names when buying a house? If your relationship is mature and you have reached the stage of talking about marriage and buying a house, you should consider each other's feelings. Whether the man personally invests in buying a house or both men and women jointly invest in buying a house, you should carefully add your parents' names.
In the woman's view, adding parents' names is nothing more than finding a way out for the future marriage crisis and dividing property. This is a sign of scheming, or at least a lack of confidence in the current feelings.
But for the Phoenix man who works hard in the city, adding his parents' names, on the one hand, can make his parents feel his son's filial piety, on the other hand, it is indeed an extra guarantee for his hard-earned property, but this is obviously unacceptable to the woman.
So it's normal for girls to refuse and break up. I don't think most girls can accept this embarrassment. It's not easy for Phoenix Man to work hard in the city, but sometimes it's simple. Don't turn your feelings into benefits in advance, or even find a good way out, otherwise it will be really difficult to get a sincere heart.