Male bosses and female subordinates, this is a very common state of "men and women are not tired of working together". Chen, who was called "Super" in the first half of his life, has a happy family and a successful career, but he has never played the game of "true love" with his subordinates. In the end, his wife and children separated, and their reputation was notorious and their career was turbulent; Xiao Sanling, who worked hard to get ahead, finally lost her job and became a woman who was once looked down upon and asked for money. When people arrive at the base, there will be a bright future! Such high-cost "true love" is not affordable for everyone.
Are single men and women lucky? The relationship between Tang Jing and his congratulatory letter should be regarded as consistent with what modern people often say: "Three views are consistent+evenly matched". Unfortunately, I didn't see the imaginary "sweet love" in this TV series at all. More is suspicion and misunderstanding. Check whether your heart is as big as Tang Jingqiang's, and then decide whether you want to fall in love.
You must realize these two facts:
There was a plot in the first half of my life: Lingling framed Luo Zijun and almost lost her job. The situation reversed and Tang Jing became Lingling's boss. The first thing to do is to let Iris Lin be laid off.
The workplace is like a battlefield. Although there is some truth in this sentence, there is absolutely no intention of attacking others. Instead, we should be alert and rational like the battlefield, so as to ensure that we can do our job well and pass every assessment perfectly. Don't throw bombs at people easily, unless you are sure of your ability, don't be afraid of the other side's counterattack. Because the earth is round, the bomb you throw may eventually roll back to your feet.
So, in the workplace, you need to keep:
Tang Jing's working style in this play is admirable. Luo Zijun, her best friend, never gave up her job or neglected her job when her marriage was frustrated or she had emotional conflict with He Han because of her work. Although she will use her power to sweep out the mistress who ruined her best friend's marriage, she knows very well that doing so will not have any impact on her work. This is the main reason why she can be in an invincible position at work and rise all the way like hanging up.
Every employee in the company has his own mission. Perfecting the work at hand is the basic accomplishment of people in the workplace. Because of personal factors, the work can't go smoothly. This is a very unprofessional work attitude, which will appear very incompetent. Incompetent people will eventually be eliminated, which of course runs counter to promotion and salary increase.
Your attitude towards work should be:
In his first job, Luo Zijun couldn't let go of his previous identity as "Mrs. Chen" and habitually brought his subjective consciousness into his work, which led to unhappiness with customers and unemployment. Later, after He Han's advice and my own deep thought, I realized that I can only think about my work performance in the face of my ex-husband, and I can learn Lingling's working methods without distractions.
From the moment you join a new company, whether you are an ordinary employee or a high-paid executive, you are just a "new employee" to the company and all employees. What you need to do is to be familiar with business knowledge first, and then observe and understand the work habits of your leaders or subordinates. When you master business skills and smoothly integrate into the company's personnel relations, you will have room to display your talents and hand over satisfactory answers in employee appraisal and performance appraisal. Otherwise, you are likely to pack up and leave before the probation period.
Sober tell yourself:
"Work is just a part of life", you know, it is this part that determines the gap between your quality of life and others. Everyone who is new to the workplace has his own private life after work. In order to make his private life more in line with his own standards, he is more motivated to work hard.
I hope that whether you are a "goblin" who just entered the workplace or an "old goblin" who has worked for many years, you can step by step, step by step, and walk to the ideal height of the pyramid as gracefully and nobly as the queen.
From now on, you must do:
Set yourself a goal: to be comfortable at work and feel petty after work.