Because of people's laziness, I didn't start writing until I saw a book recommended by a friend recently, which described in detail the "inhuman life" of doctors. I couldn't help but want to write down my medical experience with Shi.
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Stone weighed 7 Jin when he was born, and he was a big fat man. Frankly speaking, he looks better than me, his skin is whiter than me, his eyes are bigger than me, and his whole facial features are more correct than me. This is the * * * nature of mothers all over the world, and it is always good for their children.
When Stone was 9 months old, I took him to Tianjin Maternal and Child Health Hospital for routine physical examination. It was a very common thing, but it changed the whole life track of me and Stone.
I still remember early in the morning, stones were put on the crib for inspection. A middle-aged female doctor in her forties came over with a pen-shaped detector in her hand and looked at the stone's eyes carefully. Stone felt uncomfortable and began to cry. The female doctor said, "There is something wrong with the child's eyes. I don't see any problem. I suggest you go to a regular hospital to check it out. " Hearing this, my heart sank.
Stone eyes began to shed tears four months ago and have been to several hospitals for examination. The doctor said nothing, but the eyelashes are long and may shed tears. It is recommended to remove long eyelashes when they are relatively large. Now the doctor's words make my scalp numb and my nerves tense.
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Decisively take a taxi to Tianjin Eye Hospital. Because I didn't know what subject to hang, I went to the information desk and asked the staff. An old lady at the information desk suggested that I hang the number of Director Mu.
Rushed to the clinic on the second floor and hung the number with a stone. Si Tong was crying badly. In desperation, I knocked on the door of Dr. Mu's office and went in to say hello to him and explain the situation.
Dr. Mu is a gray-haired old man with an amiable face, which gives people a gentle and kind feeling.
Hearing the cause and effect, Dr. Mu said directly to the patient on the side without hesitation: "Wait a minute, I will give this baby a simple examination first."
He asked me to put the stone close to him, stroking the stone's eyelids with one hand, and then opening it quickly, and watching it carefully with a small flashlight in the other hand. Si Tong cried even harder and kept struggling.
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Surgery? How could such a terrible word fall on a small stone? It's unbelievable.
I think this is a normal reaction of normal patients or their families to a serious illness.
First doubt, then anger. Why did this disaster happen to me? Complain about the injustice of fate. Then I began to reflect on myself. Did I commit a crime and get what I deserved? Finally, accept it and face it frankly.
Of course, there are also some people who don't take this last step, live in pain and resentment, give up on themselves, complain about others, and even retaliate against society.
I belong to ordinary people, so I started the initial road of doubt. However, it is such a problem that may invisibly increase the hardships and pains in the treatment process.
I thanked the doctor, said to go home and discuss it, and then quit the clinic.
On the elevator downstairs, I dialed Stone's father's phone in a panic with trembling hands. At this time, I can no longer restrain the sad tears and let them flow freely on my cheeks.
We rushed to the children's hospital non-stop and reported an ophthalmologist, a middle-aged male doctor in his forties. Wearing a mirror for inspection on my head explained my purpose and said that the child had some problems with his eyes. He let the child lie in the crib for examination.
I don't know whether to be happy or sad when I hear this. Eye hospitals allow immediate surgery, and children's hospitals allow surgery to promote growth. The two key diagnosis results are very different. What should we do about our family?
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When I got home, I called my mother and told her about the child's illness. I asked her if she could find an acquaintance of Uncle Nanjing to help the child make a final diagnosis. When my mother heard this, she was very angry and said angrily, "See a doctor if you see a doctor. What does it matter! " "
I cried in grievance. If it wasn't for the sake of the children's less suffering and the children's future, why would I want to bother others?
Mother didn't know the situation at that time, so naturally she couldn't understand this help. She has always insisted on the idea of not causing trouble to anyone.
Stone's father comes from the countryside. He is withdrawn and has no friends, so he is desperate and anxious.
I was forced to run around, but I had the cheek to contact anyone who thought I could help, looking for college classmates, colleagues and cousins I hadn't seen for twenty years.
My friend is great. My college classmates contacted a doctor in an eye center, and my cousin contacted an ophthalmologist in Beijing Tongren Hospital. The two families were arranged on the same day. Because Tongren Hospital is famous for ophthalmology, I naturally chose my colleagues and stood up my college classmates, feeling very guilty.
Call an old classmate to apologize. The students all understand and don't blame. Let me treat my children with peace of mind. Thank you very much for your selfless help.
A friend in need is a true friend!
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I bought a ticket to Beijing and bumped all the way to Tongren Hospital. The crowd was dazzling. I made an appointment with a doctor according to my cousin's instructions, and the doctor directly examined the stones. After a while,
Just before our inspection, I heard a Shanxi man say that he had been waiting in line for registration for a month.
Unfortunately, the doctor turned us down.
When I left the doctor's office, I called my cousin. Cousin said: "As long as you mention the name of a teacher in the Ministry of Health, you can say that he recommended you." Go straight back and report the name of the teacher of the Ministry of Health to the doctor just now, and the doctor will decisively give us the number.
When we went to find a new doctor, we were surprised to find that the doctor had no patients at all, and there was a long queue of medical records of the doctors next to him. We don't have to be picky here. Go straight to the doctor.
The so-called UBM examination is an ultrasound biomicroscopy examination, and the child needs general anesthesia.
The doctor didn't want to continue to communicate with us at all, so we left with discretion.
I went to the UBM inspection port and found that this inspection was scheduled for half a month later. At this moment, it was the first time that I deeply realized the difficulty of seeing a doctor for ordinary people in China. (unfinished, to be continued)