I thought I was strong enough to stick to it, but I didn't expect to get weaker and weaker recently, often feel dizzy, and then sweat. Today, I almost fell down after cooking and spent a long time holding the wall, but I didn't have the money or time to check it. My only son in my life is Tianshuo, and he often sleeps in bed all night at night. My parents are in poor health and are still working hard for Tianshuo and the treatment fee. I must insist. The picture shows my father (right) doing odd jobs at the construction site.
My name is Hou Peng, and I am 36 years old. I come from the countryside of Jiangjia Town, Zhaodong City, Heilongjiang Province. I am a real farmer. /kloc-I went to Harbin to learn to cook when I was 0/5 years old, and then I learned to repair cars. In 2006, she was introduced to marry Shao Mouna, one year younger than Lincun. In 2007, after my son Tianshuo was born, I stayed at home farming and my wife took care of the children at home. Although life is tight, three generations are still very happy together. The picture shows me doing electric welding at the construction site.
Maybe it's because I'm busy all year round and don't have much time to spend with my wife. She began to get tired of this life. 20 12 July, my wife suddenly disappeared, and I didn't answer the phone. She sued for divorce because of emotional discord. But shortly after our divorce, she proposed to remarry, and we remarried for the sake of having a complete family for our children. Unexpectedly, just four months later, she clamored for a divorce again, completely ending our marriage. Divorce with the same person twice in four months is really hasty in retrospect. The picture shows the son during hospitalization.
Because my parents are old, I took Tianshuo to work in Shandong after the divorce, and we didn't go home until he went to primary school. After Tianshuo went to primary school, I rented a garage near the school to take care of him. Tian Shuo, who goes to work on the construction site during the day and takes remedial classes after work. In June of 20 15, Tianshuo suddenly turned pale and weak, so I quickly sent him to the local county hospital. After the doctor checked, he was transferred to a higher hospital. Tianshuo was finally diagnosed as aplastic anemia in a hospital in Harbin. The doctor said that only transplantation can cure it, and the cost is hundreds of thousands. The picture shows the days during the treatment.
Because there is no money for transplantation, children can only choose to take medicine and blood transfusion to maintain their lives. In this way, Tianshuo spends more than 3000 yuan a month for treatment, and my father and I use him for work. In 20 17 years, Tianshuo became seriously ill and had no choice but to transplant. In order to save my son, I had to borrow money from my relatives and friends, sublet 20 mu of land at home, and borrow money from some platforms to collect storage fees for my children. The picture shows the nurse giving Tianshuo an injection during the treatment.
1October 3, 20 17, 10, Tianshuo entered the warehouse. All the other children have a parent in the warehouse, only Tianshuo is not with them. At that time, my father was cooking and washing clothes for Tianshuo outside, and I was working outside to earn money. I can't stop working because Tianshuo has spent a lot of money on medical care and living expenses. In the meantime, my ex-wife has just reorganized her family. When I was pumping bone marrow from my child, she came to the hospital to cook for the child for a few days and gave me 50 thousand yuan, which made me very grateful. The picture shows me carrying Tianshuo back to the rental house from the hospital.
After Tianshuo left the library, it was followed by all kinds of crowding out. The child was hospitalized for more than four months, spent more than 800 thousand, and was heavily in debt. I really can't afford to continue to treat my children. With the Chinese New Year coming, he said to me day by day, "Dad, I want to go home for the Chinese New Year. I am afraid I can't wait for the next Spring Festival. " Looking at the child crying and begging me, although the doctor did not approve of leaving the hospital now, in order to satisfy my son's wish, I finally took Tianshuo home. The picture shows me taking care of my son in a rented house.
During the period after returning to China, Tianshuo checked on time and his physical condition was relatively stable, which once gave me hope. Although I have hundreds of thousands of foreign debts, it is worthwhile as long as the children can get better. Due to special reasons after the Spring Festival this year, Tianshuo has not been able to review on time. In July this year, Tianshuo's left hemiplegia was stiff and his swallowing function was also problematic. The picture shows me taking care of my son in a rented house.
I quickly took the child to the hospital for examination. The doctor said that the child's brain was severely rejected, so I had to borrow money again to let Tianshuo live in the hospital. After a month of treatment, the child's life was saved, but due to brain injury, his memory was particularly poor. He forgets what he just said and did in the blink of an eye, and sometimes even I can't remember. He only said "Mom". The picture shows me working at the construction site.
The doctor said that Tianshuo can slowly recover his memory, but it will take a long time. If I get about 7,000 yuan for medicine and reexamination every month today, my pockets will be empty long ago, and I can't insist on treatment any more. My only way is to work to earn money, but this is a drop in the bucket. My father is also making money for Tianshuo, and my mother can't take care of Tianshuo when she is sick, so every time I go out to do odd jobs, I always leave Tianshuo alone in the rental house and lock the door, for fear that he will forget how to go home when he goes out alone. Every time I come back, I can't help crying when I see my son staring at the window and shouting "Mom".