If you want to be a counselor, you must like psychology. Chinese cramming education leads to passive learning, passive work and passive life. It's easy to forget what you really need or even know what you want. Confusion is a common feature of many students and recent graduates. Lu Yao said: Only the passion of first love and the will of religion can achieve a certain cause. If you want to be a psychological counselor or do other industries, you have to do it with your love if you want to do it well. You don't need external supervision, you have unlimited motivation inside. Encourage yourself to overcome difficulties and achieve your goals step by step.
You can learn the basic knowledge of psychology first, as well as other knowledge such as philosophy, history and literature, because if you want to do a good job, you must sharpen your knife first. It is also very important to learn philosophy, history, culture and other knowledge by comparing the advantages and disadvantages of theoretical schools and schools, and to study psychological problems and subjective and objective reasons from different angles to avoid the limitations of knowledge and thought. Personally, I have studied Marxist philosophy and Wang Yangming's theory of mind, which gives me a different perspective to understand psychology. If you only learn one subject and don't know the others, then your vision is limited. This means that if you only have a hammer, you will treat all problems as nails.
We also need to better understand self-awareness, which is the only way to understand others. Many people who have had psychological problems such as anxiety and depression can better understand those who have the same psychological problems and have * * * sounds. Many people study psychology and know a lot of theories, but they often feel superficial because they don't have proper emotional experience, so we need to experience a lot of things and emotions, and then constantly analyze the causes of these emotional and psychological problems, find out the reasons, and then try to solve these problems and collect personal experience.