In the first case, you are really busy, busy starting a business, busy working, busy studying, and only have a small part of time to chat. Of course, you can pay more attention to the girl's circle of friends, see what she is doing at ordinary times, and compare the situation a little.
In the second case, you are usually quite free. Obviously, you can reply every few minutes, but why do you want to do this? Because I think this person's conditions are really average, I finally chose to reply out of courtesy.
If you are worried that you belong to this situation, then you should try to improve yourself first, and then optimize your circle of friends to make her look at you with new eyes.
In the third case, I don't play social software at all, and I get used to it for a few minutes before replying to anyone.
In fact, no matter what the situation is, you have time to analyze her reaction. You might as well honestly spend your time on reading and learning, improve yourself, then record your wonderful life in a circle of friends, make her feel that you are still brilliant, and then chat with her, so that the success rate of catching up with her will be even greater.
Of course, when chasing her, the chat steps are also exquisite.
You are divided into two stages, the familiar stage and the ambiguous stage.
The familiarization stage is to let girls know more about you and whether you are suitable for being a boyfriend, such as whether you are humorous, considerate and can bring her value and happiness.
When you gradually let her get to know you fully, whether she will be attracted to you or not, you have raised the success rate of chasing her to the highest.
Then, you interact with her and become a boyfriend directly, and the sister knows what's going on. If she likes you, she will naturally tease your rhythm. Of course, special circumstances are not ruled out. Although she likes you very much, she is duplicitous because of her reserved habit. In the face of this situation, you just need to keep the rhythm, because she will be with you sooner or later.
If you can't seduce her in the end, put yourself in her shoes. Would you prefer to date and chat with a girl who is better than yourself or has similar conditions to yourself? After all, dating and chatting with such a girl can bring you a better life experience.
After you figure it out, you can improve yourself and come back to seduce her after the promotion.
But if you don't feel that you need to spend so much time improving yourself, then you should go after the girls who value you.
That's what socializing is all about. You can get as much value as you can provide.
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