In everyone's eyes, it seems that such a rule has been established. Sometimes the man can't bear it, and even if the woman has love, she will eventually be defeated by reality. Recently, Chen Hui and Bowen also had conflicts over the house and the wedding.
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Six months ago, Bowen tried his best to propose to Chen Hui. That day, Chen Hui and her best friend were eating out. Suddenly the restaurant became dark. Then she saw Bowen coming out slowly, with flowers in his hand.
Chen Hui couldn't remember what the blog post said because she was moved, but she remembered the sentence "Will you marry me?"
She agreed and then her parents met. Chen Hui's parents and Bowen's parents have struggled all their lives, and both sides have good conditions. Don't say that you are particularly rich, but it is still possible to buy a house and a car for your child and have a glamorous wedding.
The parents of both sides met and had a good talk. When Bowen's mother was eating, she kept praising Chen Hui. Between the lines, she liked Chen Hui. I think normal things have gone wrong recently.
Bowen told Chen Hui: "Hui Hui, my mother wants your family to hold a wedding, because our family is going to buy a house in full, so the economic pressure is relatively high." Besides, my mother wants to save the bride price. She thinks that buying a house in full reduces our pressure. You should look at other aspects. "
Chen Hui can feel the embarrassment of Bowen, but she thinks her future mother-in-law is not suitable. She said to the blog post: "Our family didn't ask you to buy a house in full, and there are many families who buy a house in full. I haven't seen anyone who won't give the bride price because he bought a house. Even the wedding is held by the woman. If your mother does this, what will others think of me and our family? "
After listening to Hui Hui, Bowen was silent for a while and said to her, "I'll go back and persuade my mother."
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Chen Hui also told her parents about it. Chen Hui's mother felt that her family would never have anything to do with the Bowen family. It's really basic to get married and have a house and a car now.
If not, they can live in the old house, but Bowen's parents said that the wedding should be held at home without a bride price, which is a bit unreasonable.
I wanted to call Bowen's mother to ask, but I finally put up with it. My daughter and Bowen have a good relationship, and we can't ruin our two children because of this. But after careful consideration, she finally felt that the bride price must be given, and it is not impossible to hold a wedding at home, but the house must have her daughter's name.
Chen Hui thought her mother's idea was right, and then the blog post over there called and said, "Hui Hui, the bride price is given, you can give it to 6600, but the wedding still has to be held at your house, and I can't persuade my mother."
Chen Hui said to Bowen, "Don't worry, I will communicate with my mother. Don't worry. "
Chen Hui asked her mother-in-law to meet, and her mother-in-law agreed. When she met her mother-in-law, she directly said that the economic pressure of buying a house at home was great. Hui Hui should be reasonable and bear the cost of the wedding.
Hui Hui said, "Well, on one condition, the house must be half of mine and notarized at the notary office. If you agree, we will do it. "
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The future mother-in-law said to Chen Hui, "That daughter-in-law, you are too sophisticated. The whole house can cost us 2 million yuan, and the wedding can cost up to 200 thousand. You will be small and wide. "
Chen Hui replied, "Well, since the house has nothing to do with me, I must pay for the wedding in full. Doesn't that mean that a girl of mine will spend money to marry your son? "
My mother-in-law was obviously unhappy when she heard this. She felt that the house was bought by her own family and should be used as her son's pre-marital property. If Hui Hui doesn't agree, the wedding can't be held. Anyway, her son has no shortage of girlfriends.
Seeing her mother-in-law's attitude, Chen Hui knew that she could not talk any more. She said, "Since you are so persistent, it doesn't matter whether I marry Bowen or not. It is estimated that there will be no good life after marriage. "
Bowen's mother had no problem with the result, but Bowen couldn't sit still. He told Chen Hui that her name would be written in the house and that his mother should give some face at the wedding. He should do so first. When he is rich, he should pay more attention to his parents-in-law.
Chen Hui said to him, "No, as long as you remember your feelings for me now. Our family will hold a wedding, but you have to add my name to the house. "
Many times, wedding gifts and houses are needed, not for women's money, but for men's sincerity. If the man gives a bride price, the woman also pays a dowry; The man buys a house, and the woman sometimes marries a car.
Respect in feelings is mutual. Now it's obvious that Bowen's mother doesn't like this daughter-in-law, and anyone else will feel uncomfortable. Because of Bowen's true love for Chen Hui, he also made his own efforts for Chen Hui. Otherwise, the two of them will just break up.
As a mother, Bowen's mother should think more about her son than just her own thoughts. After all, children have to deal with things by themselves when they are older. Where can parents always worry about him?