Recently, Bian Xiao saw a hot topic from netizens: "Netizen asked: I am 30 years old, with no house, no car, no deposit and no wife, and my monthly salary is about 3,000 yuan. Is my life ruined? "
This is indeed a very realistic problem. In today's social environment, people are becoming more and more realistic. Without money, a house and a car, you may not even have a girlfriend, let alone get married.
Many people began to compromise their lives for their houses. Men earn a lot of money to buy a house and get a wife, while women regard the house as a measure of men's success.
Looking back at that year, we just graduated from school with great ambition and left home to fight for a career. It can be seen that many years have passed and we are in our early thirties. There is still no house in the area. My classmates and friends in my hometown all have houses, cars and children, and we are still living by renting a house. Think about your parents at home. I'm getting old. What is filial piety? So I can only keep reminding myself to work hard and struggle.
The reason why I choose to work hard outside is because I don't want to be mediocre and don't want to be a frog in the well. However, most people who work hard outside have failed, and they are faced with more cruel life pressure, not to mention buying a car or a house. Many times, they don't take the bus with two yuan, but rather wait for half an hour and take the bus with 1.
Thirty is the most embarrassing generation. In the 1960s and 1970s, we didn't meet opportunities everywhere. As the post-80s generation, we are the only generation of only children. We have to shoulder the responsibility of supporting four old people, and there is no chance to work hard for our father after 90.
Many people may say that this is not an excuse for not working hard enough, but for those who are poor and not rich second generation, it is really not easy to buy a house and a car in a good city at the age of 30. Having no house or car at the age of 30 is a failure, but it is only a temporary failure, not to mention a failure in life. Some people may look down on others and laugh at you, but the pressure of failure, ridicule and contempt must be turned into.
Everyone thinks that a 30-year-old without a house or a car is a failed life. How to understand it? In the comments section below, communicate with each other.