1, a whole hour: one of the consultations? Consultation time? It usually takes only fifty minutes, but you can get a whole hour's experience by arriving ten minutes in advance. Take a break in these ten minutes, concentrate and prepare for the upcoming consultation.
2. Forget time: The more you pay attention to time in the consultation process, the slower you will find that time passes. Maybe when you have asked all the prepared questions, you will find that the time is only half past, or even shorter. Forget the time. If you really don't know what to say, grasping a certain point in the visitor's answer (which can be related to the visitor's question) may have unexpected gains.
3. Make consultation a part of life: For a consultant, it is by no means the tens of minutes you need to consult in the consulting room. In the process of communicating with others, when watching TV movies, only you have your own heart, so think about each other's psychology. The more you see, the more you know, and naturally you have something to say in the face of visitors.
4. Keep a diary: reflect on your consultation by keeping a diary. Whether you feel good or not, you can write it down. You can also write down your weekly observations about yourself and others. You don't need a special formal diary, it's just a place to record your thoughts and feelings.
5. Habitual affairs are preferred: it is recommended that you solve all problems related to fees, schedules and confidentiality at the beginning of consultation. Nothing is more embarrassing than spending three minutes discussing expenses and looking at the calendar after a profound emotional breakthrough. Let's finish the work at the beginning of the negotiation.
6. What do I want? How do I feel? These are two basic questions, which can help visitors avoid difficulties. If you really think there is anything else you can communicate with visitors or do for them, you might as well ask them these two questions, and you may find a topic.
7. What do you want? Sometimes people avoid talking about certain issues, because they think they are inappropriate, especially because some counselors find it difficult to talk about some sexual problems because of their experiences, but this is a very important point that often appears in emotional counseling. As long as it doesn't violate the professional ethics of consultants, ask what you want to know, otherwise it will largely refuse to enter the hearts of visitors.
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