It is acceptable for a man to find someone he really likes, even if she is a virgin. ...
For women, a divorced man is mature in many ways, because his experience will inevitably become his experience or wealth in dealing with feelings, so that he can clearly know what he should and should not do to his future girlfriend or next wife, and strive to go on as long as he loves.
You should face up to your child's problems, don't run away, don't contradict them.