China's view of love is distorted and genetic variation, and money and chemicals are considered by marriage.
I think the concept of love in the whole world should be the same, that is, finding the person you love the most, two people living together every day, having children and daughters, and enjoying family happiness at home. However, China's economy is unique, and China's love view is distorted, with gene mutation.
More notably, it is distorted by money and chemicals. In fact, there is a historical period in both the East and the West: women ensure their daily life through their marriage. Therefore, Marxism once said that married life is to change direction. In Yi Shu's Love in a Fallen City, Liu Yuan said to Bai Liusu, "Basically, you think marriage is a long-term prostitution."
However, with the development trend of social development and the increasing influence of women, this view of love is out of date. But the popular value in China is that "it is better to marry well than to do well". Many women still regard marrying a man as a long-term meal ticket.
According to the truth, western countries are money societies and also pursue perfect material conditions. But if foreign women really wants money, he will find a SUGARDADDY as a mistress for two years, and it is not easy to achieve this goal by getting married. Besides, you have to have a house and a car before everyone can get married.
We China people always have a drift mentality. We think everyone around us is married, because I'm getting married, too. To put it bluntly, it means "what to do when I get old". _ What should I do if I have a marriage partner? Often blind date!
Why is blind date always strange? Both of them have basic feelings, both of which are utilitarian, and feelings have become pure shit. It's inconvenient to distinguish each other according to good looks or money. Of course, it is very likely that there will be love at first sight, but the probability is too small.
The person you are looking for is not the one you love, but the one who is suitable for marriage, so don't be influenced by great happiness in your daily life. Two people are in love, and I will be happy to see you every day, especially when I go home. This is the driving force for my happy life.
Just getting married means living with my partner, so I may not want to put my time and energy into my home, or give up or even enjoy my daily life for a better home.
Conversely, once Europeans get married, they will love their families very much. Because marriage is a positive choice for them, I can do it alone. I want to have children and enjoy the true feelings at home.
Everyone's aesthetic view of all social development is superficial, leaving only looks.
Europeans are very self-identified, and their concepts of democracy, freedom and democratization are earlier than others. Especially after World War II, there is a kind of thinking all over Europe. How can there be a catastrophe like World War II? This is authoritarian realism. Your country is not free, and all kinds of problems eventually led to such an unfortunate war.
After the war, Europe was very casual, even more casual than Britain. There were security checks on trains. A while ago, there was a shooting incident on the train to Paris, France. Because no one checked, the murderer put the shotgun on the train at will, which led to a vicious terrorist incident.
Many netizens discussed that if there were security checks, it would not be easy to have this terrorist incident. This is really unfortunate, but the randomness reflected by unsafe inspection is not wrong. If we act casually, it will not be easy for us to find a government department like the German Nazis to send millions of people to death camps.
This randomness can penetrate into everyone's daily life and ideological work. Whether or not I want to get married, or when I think I will get married, is my own choice. Public opinion is not easy for me to panic, saying that I am not filial and wondering if I am a disabled person or a left-behind person at any level.
Europeans' self-identity is also reflected in their clear understanding of who they like. It's hard to say which ones my sister group likes. I want to find one like that, and I won't say that this girl likes her because she wants me to take it out in front of my brothers.
Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook, is always hacked by netizens, saying that he married an ugly wife. Deer bump into emotions and emotional counselors. Can't he marry a beautiful wife? Unlikely! I read Zuckerberg's biography and wrote that Victoria's secret female model was seen getting into Zuckerberg's car. Zuckerberg later told People: "These female models are very hot, but they are as smart as their girlfriends." From here, we can know what Zuckerberg's aesthetic view of women is and what he pays more attention to.
Of course, many wealthy businessmen in Europe and America have also found a 20-year-old girl who is not easy to look good. But Britain is not a social development based solely on looks. Female stars in Hollywood are all beautiful women, but the most popular ones are personality beauties, or we can get rid of good words. They are all personality female stars.
For example, Jennifer Oliver, a little girl in 1992, was called ugly by fans just after she played The Hunger Games, but she did very well. Now she is a smash hit and won the Oscar for Best Supporting Actress. Everyone looks charming.
Jennifer Brock is definitely not a beauty, but her style can prevail in America. In 2009, at the age of 45, she made two films, Weakness and Fake Marriage, both of which were blockbusters. You can't imagine that a 45-year-old actress in our country can make such a big movie.