I met two people, both smart, but the results were different.
One is my better colleague in the company. I asked him to get together that weekend. He's very upset. I guess there must be something on his mind. Ask, really something. He said: "I made a mistake at work and felt very sad." I asked, "Did the leader criticize?" He said, "The leader didn't criticize me." I said, "No criticism is good. What's so sad? " He said: "It is precisely because I have not been criticized that I feel uneasy and sorry. It's worse than being criticized I have to find a way to make up for the loss, and there will be no more mistakes in the future. "
It turned out that the leader gave him a job, and he didn't want to make mistakes and cause losses. He thought the leader would criticize him. But instead of criticizing, the leader comforted and encouraged him. He felt very sorry for the company and the leaders, determined to work hard and repay the trust of the leaders wholeheartedly. Since then, his work momentum has been maintained very well, and his work achievements have been constantly affirmed by the company leaders.
The other is my good friend (police coordinator) when I worked in the traffic police force. I haven't heard from him for a long time, but I suddenly heard from him recently. Because I often make mistakes in my work, I have been dismissed by my original unit and have since disappeared. I remember when I saw him last year, he was still gloating. Ask him why he is happy. He said: "I screwed up a job and the leader didn't criticize me." I advised him, "I shouldn't be so happy when I screwed up my work." He said: "If the leader doesn't care, you don't care." I said, "I'm afraid it's not that the leader doesn't care, but that the leader doesn't care about you?" It will be bad after a long time. Lead you carefully. He said, "No, our leader doesn't dare. He still needs me. Besides, there are people on it, haha. As I expected, I ended the conversation with "caution". In less than a year, I got the above news.
If you make a mistake, you can correct it yourself without criticism from the leader, and take the mistake as an alarm to remind yourself not to make mistakes at all times. In this way, mistakes will stay away from you, and such people are smart. If you make a mistake and the leader doesn't criticize you, you will gloat and not repent. It is inevitable to make mistakes again. This kind of person is lucky and thinks he is smart. However, if you are so smart, you will miss others and yourself sooner or later.