First, intellectual enlightenment
The first key of intellectual enlightenment is language input.
Because people think in language, the clarity of language is positively related to the clarity of thinking. In fact, the specific operation is very simple to implement, which is nothing more than talking to children and taking them into reading and reciting as soon as possible.
This work should start from the moment the child is born. Weak babies don't seem to understand the language, and some parents seldom talk to their children. This is a missed opportunity. The correct way is to talk to your child about everything from the first month of his life.
For example, when feeding, say, "Is the baby hungry? Mom is breastfeeding you now. " In the process of breast-feeding, you can also say something casually, such as "Oh, you peed yesterday, your mother's clothes are wet, and today you didn't pee, so it's clean", and so on, dressing, sleeping, sunbathing and so on. , can be the content of the speech.
Language communication between infants and adults has two functions, one is to stimulate brain development, and the other is to stimulate psychological development. If there is a lack of language communication in the early stage, children's intellectual development level and emotional development level will have problems. For example, the "wolf child" has never been stimulated by human language since childhood, and his intelligence has been permanently damaged. Even if he returns to normal human society, it is impossible to return to the intelligence level of normal people, and his life span is relatively short. Life expectancy and IQ are positively correlated, which has been confirmed by research and social experience.
It should be noted that the purpose of talking to children is to communicate, not too deliberately, so as not to become nagging and noisy. Sometimes I don't want to talk about it, otherwise I will feel bored after a long time, and my child can understand my mother's emotions. Emotional communication is also a part of enlightenment education. It's no good talking to children in children's language all the time, but occasionally expressing interest in children's language. At the same time, pay attention to the peace of tone and avoid exaggeration of tone and expression.
Second, emotional enlightenment.
The first key to emotional enlightenment is to have more contact with children.
At present, the phenomenon of "left-behind children" in rural areas and "foster children" in cities in China leads to children's learning difficulties and psychological obstacles, and the reasons are the same as "orphanage phenomenon".
Of course, it doesn't mean that parents take care of their children themselves, and children will definitely get a good enlightenment education. On the other hand, the essence of education is not who will do it, but how to do it.
Especially before the age of 3, if the mother and the child communicate less and the content of communication is simple, and the child grows up in a state of poor emotional and intellectual activities, then the child's IQ will be low and his behavior will be prone to deviation.
Cultivate children's interest in reading as soon as possible
Cultivating children's interest in reading is the best and simplest way to develop children's intelligence, so that children's intelligence is not only the growth of addition, but the growth of multiplication.
Recite mother tongue classics as soon as possible.
Language input, recitation is also a very important part, it is an energy reserve. Children should be allowed to recite mother tongue classics as soon as possible, which is also applicable to children in other countries. As early as possible, the classic language and culture will be input into the brain as pure as white paper, and these things will be transformed into the cultural wealth of children sooner or later. Children's brains are first occupied by good things, and then they encounter bad things and naturally disdain to accept them. Childhood is the golden age of memory. Grasping this period and letting children recite some classic works in their mother tongue is not only an intellectual education, but also a personality cultivation.
Cultivate children's habit of loving sports
As I said before, I don't approve of reciting children's songs, which is relative to reciting ancient poems. I'm worried that some parents think that children don't know ancient poems, but only recite children's songs. When you meet good children's songs, you can of course read them to your children. Children's songs are also very popular with children because of their colloquialism, popularity and interest. I remember listening to some folk nursery rhymes my mother said when I was a child. I believe those nursery rhymes are very enlightening to me, and I will remember them all my life. When my daughter Yuan Yuan was a child, I often read to her.
In the process of enlightenment education, the mentality needs peace, three points of education and seven points of waiting. Children don't process information in the same way as we do, so adults don't have to worry. Maybe there was no reaction at that time, but it will be exciting later. As long as we continue to use the scientific way of thinking to guide and not entangle the results, it will gradually have a positive effect. We sow the seeds of scientific thinking and follow the law of children's cognitive development, which will certainly make children feel the beauty of the flower of science.