Ten-year-old girls are basically in pre-puberty. Generally speaking, girls reach puberty earlier than boys.
Adolescent children have two major awakenings, one is self-awareness and the other is sexual awareness. The core problem of adolescence is sexual psychological development. The central task of adolescence is to realize self-identity, also called self-unity.
Because of the rapid development of body and mind and the possible disharmony between them, it is called "self-unification crisis" in psychology. People who are self-consistent are confident and optimistic, and their self-regulation ability is better.
For the healthy growth of children, parents often attach importance to physical health and neglect mental health. You can ask if you can take your child to see a psychiatrist, which shows that you are commendable in this respect!
The awakening and growth of parents is the foundation and guarantee for the healthy growth of children.
No matter how old you are, if parents can't solve the behavioral problems caused by psychological reasons, it is recommended to seek the help of psychological professionals in time and don't miss the best opportunity to educate their children. Professionals here are not only psychologists, but also counselors, or family education or parent-child experts.
According to your description, the child's behavior is obviously abnormal. We can't underestimate this situation. We should correct and guide her in time. She is only 10 years old now. If she 12 years old or older, it will be more difficult to guide or intervene at that time.
I can see that you were in a hurry and corrected your child's wrong behavior, but why didn't the child listen and it didn't work? There are two reasons: First, there is something wrong with your's parent-child relationship. As the saying goes, if you have a good relationship, you are easy to talk to, but if you have a bad relationship, even if you are right, because there is only confrontation between you, the children will not accept what you say; Second, you don't know why children are like this. Without a clear understanding of the problem, we should "prescribe the right medicine" instead of "prescribe the right medicine", which will cause more serious problems. So although you are also very anxious and have beaten and scolded, it has no effect, but it has caused a greater rift in your mother-child relationship.
There is no mother in the world who doesn't love her children. She can feel your concern and anxiety about her children. But educating children requires methods and wisdom. In this process, she needs to realize that the love she gives her children is what they need? Or do you think your child needs it? Is it mature love or blind love? Only by constant reflection, understanding and adjustment can we become qualified parents.
How?
First of all, let your emotions calm down and try to ease the relationship with your children first. Secondly, find out the reasons behind children's behavioral deviation. There may be several reasons for children to steal money: first, they gain the attention of their parents in this way; The second is imitation; The third is revenge.
Of course, there are more than these three possibilities, because different children have different reasons behind the same problem.
The deeper reason behind these reasons may be the lack of some psychological needs.
Based on the simple information you provided, I can't make an accurate assessment. I just listed these possibilities based on similar problems encountered in the previous consultation process. The real reason needs you to find out. If it is really impossible to judge, it is recommended to do professional consultation.
Every child will make some mistakes in the process of growing up. It is not terrible to make mistakes, as long as you correct them in time.
Every child is a beautiful and upward seed. As long as they find an environment suitable for their growth, they will become the best healthy themselves!
Bless you!
You can see a psychiatrist if necessary. Now there is children's play therapy. Children, like adults, will also have some psychological troubles, so it is good to treat them correctly.
Parents also need to communicate with counselors. Unless the family environment provided by parents is adjusted and changed, it is meaningless to consult children alone.
Hello, according to the information you provided, it is not a psychological barrier for children to lie. This is a problem of children's behavior, which needs patient teaching and guidance.
Suggestion: You can teach your children well, but it depends on why they lie. Because adults can lie, you are right as an adult not to let children lie.