Whether it's active breakup or emotional counseling in Guangzhou, boys are not as easy to die as most girls. On the contrary, they are not easily entangled, but will continue to "give up" temporarily.
"Give up?" Teacher, are you kidding? Can I stay if I give up? I believe many people will have such doubts.
However, objective facts and data information are not easy to lie. In the case I took over, the pass rate of temporary "giving up" was 80%.
It is so reasonable to abandon it, so _ what should we pay attention to?
Give up temporarily and save your self-esteem.
The first step to temporarily "give up" is to maintain self-esteem. For feelings, self-esteem is always the last bottom line.
If a person can even abandon his moral bottom line and stop loving himself, then _ you are unlikely to stay and he will not fall in love with you easily again.
Therefore, after breaking up, even if you love him again and really leave him, you can't live that life. You must control it.
Because once you can't control it now, vent yourself and release your mind, then _ in the next retention, you need to pay the price for your venting mind.
Whether you are struggling to retain, pestering unreasonably, condescending and swearing, it is not easy to make him turn back.
Since the "love" you release is not the love that the other person can accept, but the love that you hate, can you accept a love that you hate?
Give up briefly and save the contact.
In addition to saving your self-esteem, temporary "giving up" has an additional advantage, that is, if you don't pester and quarrel, the other party won't easily cause all your negative emotions.
And even if the breakup gives you a negative impression, if you leave quietly, he will feel guilty as a positive and clear breakup.
Once you have this guilty state of mind, you will feel guilty to some extent. Although it is not easy to get back together immediately, it is not easy for him to delete yours in this mental state.
So the extra advantage is that you will still have some contact with him, which can save a lot of energy for retention.
A brief "give up" attracts again.
A short "giving up" will immediately help you save your self-esteem and attract your contact number. Then _ why not stick to this method, but remember that the abandonment here is a colon, which is the only abandonment.
Because in this link, we not only have to "give up", but more importantly, we have to eliminate negative information images and accumulate positive images in the whole process of "giving up".
As for how to accumulate it, only you know what bothers him and how he feels about you. I guess you know better than anyone.
Get rid of these things that make him hate and strengthen these things that make him love. This positive image will become stronger and stronger, and it will naturally attract them.
Now you know, retention is not only a hard-won and tangled method, but also a fixed compound way.