I have read your statement carefully from beginning to end, and I feel that you are a kind person. The most vulnerable people in this world are people like you, because you are soft-hearted and can't stand the pain of others. I advise you to learn to refuse sometimes. Kindness should be used in the right place, and it is unnecessary for those who do not deserve sympathy and help.
Affection is nothing more than the kindness of parents and the affection of brothers and sisters. I think parents can be filial, but they don't always follow them. Some parents really don't do very well. The old concept of son preference always treats his daughter as an ATM, dotes on his son to the point of lawlessness, and those who dare to do it to their parents belong to the category of scum, which is also the dereliction of duty of their parents. Seeing your situation, I suggest you do some responsibility to your parents, but only to a certain extent. For your brother's sake, stay at a respectful distance from sb.
Friendship is nothing but friendship. A friend is someone who accompanies us in our long life. Maybe he will walk with you for a while, and when he is tired, he will walk with us all his life. That is a true friend, because he (she) really understands us and tolerates us. In fact, making friends depends on the nature of friends, that is, virtue, and everything else is secondary. Don't think that I have paid so much, why I haven't paid back. A friend is someone who helps you when you suffer. The most important thing to make friends is to make like-minded people, that is, people who are with themselves.
Love is really important to women. A woman's greatest happiness is to find a man who loves herself and herself. Everything else is just a cloud. You said you met two love rat, so you really need to find the reason from yourself. Did you give some malicious men the illusion that you are rich and generous, so they will approach you purposefully? If you hurt others, you must guard against them. Look at people and character, don't be carried away by love.
I hope the above words can help you. I wish you a happy life and more happiness.
Affection, friendship and love are the three major feelings in our life! But not everyone will feel these feelings at the same time!
But no matter which of these three feelings we should cherish!
I will write a short story to share with you!
In the story I wrote before, there was a young man named Bu Chengqi who crossed into the depths of the forest and was knocked unconscious by an old couple!
After that, many funny things happened. I didn't write it down. Make up for it yourself! In a word, the cobbler was tortured by the old couple! But he enjoys it. Why?
In fact, it is because he saw the shadow of his parents from the old couple! When he was a child, his parents treated him with mixed doubles and educated him into an excellent science and engineering high flyers!
However, in his graduation season, when he was finally able to repay his parents and honor them, his parents both left because of a car accident!
He felt a sense of deja vu in the old couple, which was a warm affection! He decided to cherish this bloodless relationship!
As for friendship, he had the most sincere friendship before, and now he can only bury it in his heart in this mountain forest!
As for Abe, I haven't owned it yet! He just wants to cherish the unique affection he has now!
Although my parents are ok now, when I was a child, they always quarreled and especially liked to involve me, which made me feel particularly inferior now. Maybe waste is useless and will really become waste, but I still don't want to hate them. Even though it has caused me great trauma, I still can't hate them. I still try to understand their feelings. Perhaps, the family really can't give up.
There are 1000 people and 1000 Harry Potter. Everyone only knows the solution, and others can't feel it. I can only say that time will tell you the answer
Love and friendship need their own bright eyes and careful management.
You are fine, I wish you happiness.
I have always been weak in feelings and friendship. Because of family reasons, my relationship with my family is not very good, which leads to my indifferent feelings for my relatives now. When I was young, I still valued friendship. Later, I became less interested in friendship for various reasons. I believe in love because of my husband. I will believe in love more. Family and friendship are generally useless, because they are all too realistic. Love can give people warmth, right? You can support each other.
According to your description, these three things are of no use to you at present, but you need them. This is where you are extremely sad and angry.
Human nature is hard to change, just like your brother is rude and doesn't like his parents; It is also difficult to be enlightened by the pedantry created by the background of the times, just as your parents always prefer boys to girls, but my friend, it is not your fault.
The profound significance of being born in a family will affect all aspects of your future. Why does love always meet love rat? It can be seen from your description that you are a hardworking and straightforward woman. You said you lacked love. Maybe the sweet words wrapped in the name of love at the beginning of love will degrade your ability to distinguish love rat.
Just like friendship, friends in trouble will naturally arouse your sympathy and give you emotional satisfaction and feedback (praising you as a good sister and kind-hearted, etc.). ), you can pay a lot unilaterally in the name of love. If you need her further help or if she has overcome the difficulties, how can she still need you, and remember everything you gave? At first, she just wanted to ask for it.
Love yourself more and let yourself be open-minded. After the epidemic, take a trip to relax, and the mental stress will be released. Maybe you will no longer care about these questions with no standard answers, and maybe you will re-establish a life direction. You will always find your own guide, perhaps your new family, friendship and love.
From the point of view of what people live for, if a person wants to live more completely, these affection, friendship and love are essential.
Of course, some people can't have everything and still be alive.
1. Emotion is a double-edged sword.
The affection of a good family is reliable and safe, and it is the most reliable area of inner belonging. Wandering outside, don't worry about failure and homelessness, but hesitate. It is the most basic safe harbor.
Bad feelings are a burden, which makes people feel desperate and stressed all the time. The saddest thing is that the closer you are, the more you need help. This is the darkness of the human heart. You can be polite to strangers, but the closest people are desperate.
2. Friendship, emotional catharsis and resource interaction.
When family can't make you feel comfortable and can't satisfy your inner feelings or resources, it is the need of friendship.
When there was a conflict at home, I called a few brothers and sisters, ate a meal and drank a few cups together, feeling comfortable and anxious to nag! At the same time, when you encounter some difficulties, friends around you sometimes come faster and more timely than family members. Because friendship looks at you more objectively, affection is more or less flawed with your personality and temper.
Love is hard to find.
Love is a special kind of friendship. They all say they want to get married for love. If so, the Civil Affairs Bureau will go out of business. The longest preservation time of love is about 5 years, and then 2 years, so 7 years itches.
Maybe you can live well without love, after all, all love will evolve into family ties. The development of feelings depends on how the sword is sharpened.
This becomes a cycle.
Why should there be some affection, friendship and love?
This is all because of people's inner needs.
Friendship is a social need in society. If not, it's like employees in the company who have no friends except burying their heads in work every day. Amateurs don't get together with friends, and mental health problems will occur after a long time. Nine times out of ten, those who have social difficulties will retaliate against society.
Emotion is a passive choice. Just as people can't decide their own birth, where they are born will be decided by your family. The only thing you can do is, when you have a family and want to nurture your own affection, try to reduce the pain caused by the affection of the previous generation, and let the next generation feel that affection is their most solid backing and a safe harbor for them to explore the world with great strides.
Love is a kind of passion, and the time to produce and disappear is very short. Cherish it when you meet it. It's a beautiful memory. You don't have to be hysterical if you don't meet. It is the best choice to live every day and cherish the people around you.
First of all, you are a strong woman, there is no doubt about it! Secondly, you are a very affectionate person. You have many friends, and you give money to some people. What's more, it's for your bosom friend, not for yourself! But in the end, when you may need help, you find that your friends can't help you! Very sad! So, you are disappointed! Completely disappointed!
At first, you longed for affection, but because your brother's bad temper affected your parents and implicated you in not getting their love, you gave all your love to your family, including dedication, but didn't get anything in return, so you gave up affection!
Then, you hope that love can help you soothe your broken wings and broken heart. However, you won't get what you want, but you will be hurt more! Therefore, love is even more lifeless for you!
Finally, your friendship, because you have been strictly educated since childhood, your parents want you to assume the responsibility for your family like a man. You have developed a man's character, generous, and used to be in America! So you have a lot of friends, and you get a lot of pleasure and unprecedented satisfaction in your contacts with friends. These are things that relatives and lovers can't give you! You are sincere, sincere and unreserved to your friends … but why are you skeptical about friendship? Maybe, once you needed help, only to find that no one could help you. You're depressed, aren't you? What I want to say is that you are sincere to your friends, and friends are absolutely sincere to you. As for the help you need, it may just be someone else's shortcomings. Although you have many friends, your help is only in the cracks. Maybe some people should be able to help, but they have their difficulties and are not unwilling to help, so I hope you will understand and be tolerant! After all, villains are a minority, and most people are good people! Friendship, I hope you don't give up, really, your friendship is very real, please continue to keep your heart!
On the other hand, talk about your love. You are very generous. You used to be in America. It is the catalyst of friendship, but it may be the killer of love, but you just didn't notice it! Generosity is good for men, but for women, it is necessary to master discretion. You should reflect on it. Do you have a few details of your life that you didn't notice, and finally conflicts broke out? ...
Affection, the role you play at home, you should be clear, you will feel wronged if you don't know! First of all, talk about your brother. He has a bad temper. He beats his parents and you! Children beat their parents, but they are not sensible. Is it just unfilial to beat your parents when you are an adult? There should be some other problems, such as intermittent psychosis or other unknown diseases. Judging from your parents' strict education and strict requirements for you, maybe your parents gave up hope for your brother when you were young and told you to take care of him as a younger brother ... Then, if you are at home, you are the pillar and your role is right, you will understand your parents. So, family, you still have to take it to heart, understand your parents and visit them more!
Please forgive me if there is anything wrong with what I said above. After all, I don't know everything! I hope to cherish friendship and embrace sincerity! Understand love, regain love, cherish each other and join hands in the future! Care for your family, often go home to see!
If the sky is sentimental and old, people will hurt themselves if they provoke heavy feelings. Love hurts the most, it is better to say it. All efforts will not be seen by others. I just think that you should, like, do a hundred things that you didn't do, and return to zero 99 times. My heart is cold, so what if I dig it out? Don't talk about love in this life, and make yourself happy every day is the most important thing. Don't think too much. Simply living, the pain often comes from the closest relatives, living for their own health. Sometimes people are not exhausted, yes.
Why is it that only human beings in the world can't live to natural life? Because people have secular desires, people are emotional animals. The emotional world is composed of affection, friendship and love. Therefore, normal people cannot get rid of these emotions. It may be more convincing to tell you a short story.
Today is a big day for Abiao and Ayong to get out of prison and return to society. They left the place where they stayed for seven years along two roads, one on the left and the other on the right.
When Ayong came home, his parents and sister prepared a sumptuous dinner for him, and asked him to be caring and attentive. Although it's only the middle of winter, Ayong's heart is hot and he can't wait to return to society.
A Biao also went home, but there was no news from his relatives, so he had to hide in the cold palace and drink. He broke his finger and vowed never to drink again, but today he broke it, because drinking can at least keep his body from getting too cold.
In the process of finding a job, Ayong got enthusiastic help from his friends. Some of his friends invited him to work in his own company, while others were willing to lend him money to do business. But Ayong politely refused, and he planned to support himself. For Ayong, the trust of friends is what he needs most.
The return of affection and friendship brings love. Ayong fell in love with his sister's best friend, and soon got married and had children, and established a happy family. With this small family, Ayong works harder. Ayong's wish is to make his wife and children more and more happy.
Where is Biao? I heard that he died and hanged himself in his own house, just like the old man who got out of prison in the movie The Shawshank Redemption. There is nothing to miss in this world. In fact, A Biao also wants to start over, but his friends are far away from him and don't want to associate with him, which makes A Biao very lonely. So, Abiao lived a drunken life every day.
One day, Meng Xiao came to him. A Biao once thought that the spring of love might come back. He used all his savings to buy gifts to please Meng Xiao. But when A Biao had no money, his "love" with Meng Xiao ended …
It is not difficult to find out through what happened to Ayong and Abiao. Affection can bring you warmth; Friendship makes your heart no longer lonely; Love is the driving force of your life.
Love is like putting on clothes.
Feelings are like meat in the body.
Emotion is the bone of the flesh.