It seems that after graduating from master's degree, Yao Yao started his own blind date trip. Classmates, family members, colleagues and friends introduced it. Yao Yao, 28, was originally a simple girl who yearned for romantic love and resolutely opposed blind date. However, the online dating two years ago made her change her rejection of blind date. Because until the man left the sad Yao Yao, Yao Yao was still not sure whether many of his identity information was true. Her only feeling was "Maybe he lied to me". Yao Yao said that blind date is really good, which saves you the trouble of understanding and verifying each other's background. You just need to understand him. I met Pizza Hut today. The man graduated from an ordinary university in Beijing and is engaged in research and development in the company. In the past, Yao Yao required a master's degree or above. Not only the degree, but also the height and age range were moderately relaxed. As long as the person is suitable, other conditions will be lowered. Some doctoral female students around me are looking for undergraduates. As long as someone introduced her and the conditions were similar, Yao Yao agreed to meet. On the one hand, she is embarrassed to refuse, on the other hand, it is always an opportunity. Maybe she met the right one this time. In this way, blind date again and again is like fighting a fatigue war. Almost 20 photos, still no Mr. Right. Yao Yao said, actually, I don't know what I'm looking for, but I think I'll always meet a satisfied person, but now I almost lose confidence.
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Many girls like Yao Yao choose blind date to find love and marriage. Blind date is indeed a reliable way, at least giving these girls a sense of security. In modern life, the rich and varied ways of communication and being good at camouflage also make our hearts more alert to others. The blind date can just transfer the trust of the middleman to the blind date. Well, his basic information is already known, depending on your feelings. But we all know, and we don't have our own coincidental understanding, the kind of curious and uneasy speculation about this person. Alas, then he said blind date is really boring! Yao Yao may also be disappointed by blind date after blind date. Yao Yao, 28, is just a little girl who yearns for romance. She still doesn't know what kind of man she needs. The frustration of online dating made her embark on the road of blind date, but in fact, she didn't accept this practical blind date in her heart. Wang Xiao has been divorced for almost three years. At the age of 38, she is an excellent financial controller in her career. She said it might be because the role of this strong woman put too much pressure on her ex-husband. Because of her disappointment with her feelings, she didn't want to look for it again. However, as a woman, it is hard to bear the loneliness inside. With the constant recommendation and encouragement of friends, Wang Xiao also started dating. There are requirements for the blind date location, Wang Xiao. According to different moods, he will go to famous teahouses, Maxim's restaurants, small bars in Houhai and sometimes parks like Yuyuantan. The average blind date always wants simple procedures. Why does Wang Xiao attach so much importance to the blind date environment? She said: "blind date is my leisure life, and I want to enjoy it." Blind date doesn't necessarily mean marriage. Blind date enriches your life. Some people look at it and I know it's hopeless. This made me relax and chat. "My husband and I used to know men, only to find out that I didn't know men at all after divorce. Now, starting from blind date, Wang Xiao has a new understanding of men. There are mature men, confident men, successful men, stingy men, selfish men, considerate men and funny men. After blind date again and again, in fact, Wang Xiao has no hope of finding a suitable partner. As far as age is concerned, men of similar age are in their prime, but the people they value all want to find a young one; I don't want to find an old man myself, but I really don't want to take care of an old man in the future. Nevertheless, Wang Xiao still likes blind date. Blind date has become an interesting amateur life, where you can make friends. Anyway, I figured it out, blind date is not that serious, and I won't feel too frustrated if I don't like each other. They are all experienced people. It's good that some people have become good friends.
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The general blind date is for an interview, so it's better to be simple and convenient. Different from Wang Xiao, as a divorced woman, her disappointment with her feelings and loneliness in her single life made her have a strong conflict with men. Therefore, for a man who is serious about blind date, it may be unfair to simply regard blind date as a condiment of life. He needs to know a lady to chat with her. Blind date is no longer a simple blind date, but a new way of communication Men and women of Wang Xiao's age can better grasp the process of communication, rather than the consequences of being out of step. Perhaps they know how to benefit from interpersonal communication better than worrying about falling into the mire of setbacks. In Wang Xiao's blind date story, blind date has become an important life content of single modern people, so blind date also needs quality. Liu Xin has been in Beijing for 9 years and spent most of her time in college. Working in a scientific research unit, pure scientific research personnel. After studying in college for seven years, no one taught me how to find a partner. After arriving at the graduate school, colleagues seem to be particularly concerned about Liu Xin's lifelong events. I feel that I have reached a critical moment in my life, and I can't stand the eyes that everyone has been paying attention to, as if I have become a special person. Are you special? In fact, it is not good-looking, and with thousands of big glasses, it is a bit bookish. Perhaps because of the image, not many people have been pursuing Liu Xin. In Liu Xin's own words, "I admit that I am an ugly girl, but I also want to find someone who is true to myself." Living in a narrow circle, Liu Xin is very enterprising. She wants to make some scientific research achievements and spends most of her time in the laboratory. Then accept the advice of blind date. Talking about his blind date experience, Liu Xin was most impressed and funny by the one he met at Shuang 'an McDonald's last year. Sit down and don't talk, the elder brothers asked Liu Xin "I heard that you bought a house? ..... can you get a promotion? " Liu Xin said that her mouth was almost wide open at that time, and her heart said that this person was too direct. It turns out that men also want to find a reliable woman through blind date to change their lives.
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A beautiful girl's blind date may be more about her picking each other, while a girl who looks average or poor may not be so lucky. The appearance is not attractive, the work and life circle is small, and the probability of knowing people is getting lower and lower. There is no doubt that there is no other way to blind date. Perhaps in this man's eyes, the house and location can increase Liu Xin's score and make up for the lack of appearance. But Liu Xin's heart is really not the taste. She wants to find a reliable person to entrust her life through blind date. I didn't expect men to be dependent now. Meng Ying is a cheerful and fashionable girl from Beijing. She started dating in college for six years and ended in failure. I always thought I could walk the red carpet with him, but my dream was shattered. After a month of sadness, I learned from a painful experience and decided to accept my parents' arrangement-blind date. Meng Ying said, "I heard that the best medicine for lovelorn love is to fall in love immediately. I believed it, so I started my first blind date. " After careful consideration, we went to the Oriental Xintiandi to watch a movie and chose the oldest form of blind date. When we met at the door, we looked at each other. If it's not pleasing to the eye, watch a movie. If it's pleasing to the eye, it's not bad to go out for dinner and shopping. At three o'clock in the afternoon, Meng Ying saw a man in a suit and tie holding a "keepsake" of Beijing Evening News at the gate of the cinema. After getting to know each other, Meng Ying looked around and thought, "Temperament is ok, quite mature. Listen to your mother and try to communicate if you don't hate it. " Unexpectedly, after the opening of the film, Meng Ying's heart became restless. I have watched countless movies with my boyfriend in the past six years, and I often go to grab a double seat as soon as I enter the venue. The two snuggled up sweetly, and her boyfriend would peck Meng Ying's face from time to time. Meng Ying was very happy. But now I'm sitting with a strange man, absorbed in watching a movie. Meng Ying's sad tears fell from her eyes again. She wanted to find a new feeling to forget the pain, but she was moved by the scene in front of her and recalled the past.
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The best medicine for lovelorn love is to fall in love at once. Perhaps some people believe this as firmly as Meng Ying. If someone is willing to accompany you like the protagonist in My Savage Girlfriend and unconditionally bear all your emotions, maybe. However, blind date is not a movie after all, and accepting someone again requires inner rest, so the savage girlfriend temporarily left the hero. Similarly, Meng Ying wanted to start a new relationship through blind date to cure her lovelorn love, but the fact was not as Meng Ying imagined. Blind date disturbed her emotional world again, and she couldn't help herself. Meng Ying needs to rest her heart and give herself time to mourn, reflect and forget her past love and sadness. By then, Meng Ying will be able to start dating calmly and start new relationships. Parent-Louis (background: 29-year-old, unmarried, from Wuhan, graduated from university and worked in Shanghai for 7 years, and now he is the marketing manager of a foreign company in Shanghai).
At 7 o'clock in the evening, Louis took the subway to People's Square before he could change that suit. On the subway, she took out a business card, which was the first time she read it carefully after receiving it. She's going on a blind date, but she doesn't know much about each other. Maybe she is too busy at work or has too many blind dates. She is used to coming and going in a hurry, just like going to an interview.
The meeting place is a western restaurant on the Bund. They have a tacit understanding, even the opening remarks are so similar, and they are chatting while eating, as if they are walking step by step along a specific pattern, chatting with some irrelevant words. After that meeting, Louis never contacted that person again. According to her words, the other party's conditions are quite good, but he has no feeling of heartbeat. Although he is old, he is always eager for love. Louis said she couldn't remember the number of blind dates in the past two years. There are quite a few anyway. At first, she couldn't let go, because it was introduced by a friend, so it was difficult to shirk it. Later, I also realized the age crisis, and I would choose some marriage agents to contact them and meet again after confirmation. Now I think blind date is a better way to choose a spouse under the existing conditions. She is convinced that she will meet the "he" in her life soon, and she will meet the next blind date with confidence.
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Why do so many people choose blind date now? Louis's example represents one type: busy with work, leaving no time and space for love to sprout, so it is necessary to artificially create a specific time and space, hoping to catch the spark.