0 1 Xiaoying
My cousin Xiaoying is her mother's relative. She often came to her mother's house to play since she was a child, so I think we have a good relationship.
She graduated from the English Department of Normal University in this province and returned to this city as a middle school English teacher.
Xiaoying's mother got married for the second time. After the death of her first husband, she and her current rural husband gave birth to Xiaoying. There are six children before and after, Xiaoying ranks fifth among the six children, and there is a younger brother behind.
She 1.66 was white and beautiful when she was young.
Big face, big forehead, double eyelids, big eyes, high nose, thin lips, a pair of delicate ears, sweet voice.
After Xiaoying became a middle school teacher, her mother and many people began to introduce her. Unfortunately, she didn't take a fancy to it, but she finally took a fancy to her cousin Xiao Qiang.
Xiao Qiang is half a centimeter shorter than Xiaoying. At first glance, he is not a good man.
He is thin and short, just a big head with characteristics, and his hair is divided into three parts.
Oval face, thick eyebrows, small eyes, thick glasses at the bottom of beer bottle, high nose, thick lips, beard and a pair of ears.
However, the workplace in Xiao Qiang is better. At that time, he was the secretary of the office of the Municipal Bureau of Chemical Industry.
In addition, Xiao Qiang's parents' unit is also better. His father is an assistant manager of a state-owned enterprise, and his mother is a kindergarten teacher.
When my cousin took Xiao Qiang to his parents' house, my parents frowned at Xiao Qiang because they didn't like Xiao Qiang, even though Xiao Qiang bought them a big bag of gifts.
My mother and cousin Xiaoying have a good personal relationship, so I found Xiaoying alone and said to her:
"I think this jack Bauer is shorter than you, and you two are really inappropriate.
Besides, I don't think Xiao Qiang looks very well. This man is very diligent. You are so simple, you will definitely suffer from marrying him in the future. "
But cousin Xiaoying who also won't listen, she and her mother said:
"I am more accurate in judging people. I don't ask how tall and strong the other person is, as long as Xiao Qiang is kind to me.
In addition, my own family conditions are well known to me. There are five brothers and sisters in my family. My parents are from the countryside, and they are not as good as Xiao Qiang's.
Xiao Qiang is short, but he has a kind heart and a Zhang Tiantian mouth, which will make me happy. I like him very much. "
Mother said, "Your mother once entrusted me to say:
"Xiaoying, this child is simple. After she went to work in the city, she was very close to you. You should take care of her more.
If anything happens to her, just tell her. You're welcome. Treat her as your own child.
I'm not with her and I can't give her advice or anything.
Now I have five children to take care of at home in the country. Xiaoying, I have no energy to take care of her directly, so I'll leave it to you. "
I only see the surface phenomenon. In fact, you still have to think so big about your marriage. Keep your eyes open. "
Finally, my cousin chose Xiao Qiang to get married. After she got married, she left our house. At that time, my mother shed tears when her cousin Xiaoying got married.
Cousin Xiaoying and Xiao Qiang are very happy after their marriage. They soon have a son, Zi Xuan.
At this time, Xiao Qiang was also very concerned about his family and became a good husband.
During the Spring Festival, they all took their children to visit their mother's house.
Cousin secretly said to her mother, "Xiao Qiang is still very upset. He cooks at home in an apron, helps me with my children and does housework at home. He is simply a good husband. "
My mother said happily to my cousin, "It seems that people are really ugly.
When I first saw Xiao Qiang like this, he didn't look like a good man. I didn't expect him to be so kind to you now, which is also your blessing.
Anyway, Xiao Qiang is a serious good man now. You must live well. Usually don't fight. Let others envy you if your family is happy. "
Everything goes well at home.
At this time, Xiao Qiang also rose from the office secretary to the deputy section chief step by step.
After a while, Xiao Qiang became the director of the office again.
This time is the happiest time for cousin Xiaoying. She has her own family and son, her husband has been promoted and reused, and her job title has been successfully solved.
But at this time, my cousin's mother and father suddenly fell ill and died soon.
From then on, every year on the second day after the Chinese New Year, my cousin will come to my mother and lead a family of three back to her family for the Chinese New Year. My mom and dad also gave a warm reception and did a good job.
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Suddenly one day, my cousin came to my mother to discuss with her. , my cousin said:
"Xiao Qiang did a good job in the unit, suddenly want to go into business on a whim. I said something, but he wouldn't listen. He is determined to leave his job without pay and run his own company.
Aunt, I think Xiao Qiang still listens to you and respects you. Please help me convince him. "
Mom was surprised after hearing this and said:
"This Xiao Qiang himself is the director of the office, and outsiders say that the next step is to promote the deputy director.
At this time, Xiao Qiang suddenly proposed to leave without pay to run the company. Didn't this delay his bright future?
Call Xiao Qiang quickly, and I'll tell him. "
Xiao Qiang finally reluctantly went to his mother's house, and he explained to her:
"Now our unit looks good, but it will be changed to an industry office in a few years. We may be diverted or turned into institutions, or we may be laid off and unemployed directly. We don't know what to do next.
While there is no reform, I want to use the existing policy to set up my own company in the sea and then I can make money.
After I earn money, I won't panic even if I am diverted or treated in other ways, because I have money in my hand. "
Mom said, "It's not a trivial matter to leave your job without pay. You should think it over. If you don't run the company well, it won't be like that if you want to come back. "
Xiao Qiang said, "Aunt, don't worry, I will do it well. When I earn money, I will become a millionaire and change a good house for you immediately. "
Mom said, "I don't want you to change a big house for me. I want you to take care of yourself."
Because this business is nothing more than ten businessmen and nine traitors, you must grasp your own mentality and not be cheated by others. "
Xiao Qiang said, "Oh, aunt, don't worry, I won't be cheated."
In the end, Xiao Qiang didn't listen to his mother's words, but directly asked the unit to leave without pay and go into business.
03 Doing business
At that time, the policy was to encourage entrepreneurship in the sea, and the unit also gave Xiao Qiang some loans as start-up funds.
Xiao Qiang's company was successfully established and started to operate immediately.
Because Xiao Qiang is a former office director, he usually gets along well with the leaders of the following enterprises, so he has established business relations with several large enterprises.
At that time, it was relatively easy to do business in the sea, so companies in Xiao Qiang made a lot of money in less than half a year.
Xiao Qiang gets along well with the leaders of the unit. The leaders of the unit were very supportive of Xiao Qiang's leaving without pay to go into business, so Xiao Qiang took the opportunity to propose to the leaders of the unit to raise funds within the unit.
The unit leader saw that Xiao Qiang did run a good company, and privately agreed to Xiao Qiang's proposal, so Xiao Qiang quickly started the fund-raising operation within the unit.
Xiao Qiang had money in his hand, and soon his business grew bigger and bigger. By the end of the year, he paid dividends to his colleagues who raised funds.
Colleagues saw that there was a dividend after fund-raising, which was several times higher than the bank deposit at that time, so they gave Xiao Qiang a new round of fund-raising with confidence.
04 Xiao Li
It is said that men become bad as soon as they get rich, so it's perfect for Xiao Qiang.
It turns out that Xiao Qiang is a very serious person. Although he is short and ugly, he dresses like an ordinary normal person.
But since he made money in business, the image of the whole person has completely changed.
First of all, the head became a big back, sprayed with hair gel and waxed, and the hair was very smooth, and flies and mosquitoes would flicker when they landed on it.
In addition, the glasses were replaced with very high-grade gold-rimmed glasses and a big gold watch was worn on the left hand.
The right hand wears a big gold chain around its neck.
There are several big gold rings on the right and left hands.
Wearing a gold chain the size of a little finger around her neck.
All over are famous brands, wearing a suit and tie, wearing a white shirt and polished shoes.
Holding a mobile phone in his left hand and a very thin cigarette in his right hand.
Originally, Xiao Qiang's company was normal and developed rapidly, but at this time, a woman named Xiaoli appeared, which completely changed Xiao Qiang's life track.
Xiao Li is an accountant recruited by Xiao Qiang in the society. She looks like a fox.
She went to Xiao Qiang's company. She disguised herself well for the first six months, but after six months, she completely revealed her true colors.
First, she tried her best to crowd out the cashier, saying that the cashier was short of money and the accounts were wrong. Finally, Xiao Qiang dismissed the cashier.
Then she tricked Xiao Qiang into letting the company buy 20 mu of land in the development zone, built a production factory, and completely turned the original trading company into a production company.
During this period, Xiaoli won the Xiao Qiang completely. They rented a house outside, rolled sheets, and finally didn't even come home.
Xiaoying began to trust Xiao Qiang very much. She thinks that Xiao Qiang moved to the factory to build it.
It's too late for Xiaoying to react. Xiao Qiang and Xiaoli have publicly rented a house outside to live together.
Xiaoying is a very strong person, afraid that her husband has a mistress outside and others will laugh at her, so she communicates with Xiao Qiang and asks Xiao Qiang to leave Xiaoli at once. After all, Xiaoying and Xiao Qiang already have sons, and they are both in primary school.
However, Xiao Qiang was determined by the tortoise, determined not to be separated from Xiaoli, and brazenly showed her kindness in various public occasions.
Even on the second day of the Lunar New Year, Xiao Qiang took Xiaoli to my parents' house for the Spring Festival.
At that time, my mother went up directly, slapped Xiao Qiang twice on the spot, and kicked Xiaoli out of the door.
Mother threw the things brought by Xiao Qiang and Xiaoli directly from the corridor window on the second floor, and Xiao Qiang and Xiaoli ran away awkwardly.
Later, Xiao Qiang's company had a debt crisis. He didn't pay his colleagues' fund-raising dividends in time as agreed, and even when his colleagues asked to use the principal, he couldn't pay them.
At this time, Xiaoli suddenly disappeared with the money, turned off her mobile phone and disappeared.
05 end
Colleagues also asked about Xiao Qiang's debt crisis, so they went to their home to ask for the principal, but they all returned empty-handed.
Those behind-the-scenes social workers who went to Li Xiaoqiang to raise funds also began to ask Xiao Qiang's family for principal and interest, but they didn't want anything, so they smashed Xiaoying's and Xiao Qiang's homes.
At night, those who didn't ask Xiao Qiang for money threw bricks at Xiaoying's house directly. Xiaoying couldn't live at home directly, so she had no choice but to rent a house outside.
Xiaoying felt very strange, so she asked Xiao Qiang, "You have made a lot of money by running a company these years. Where did the money go? "
Xiao Qiang said: "Don't mention it, all this money has let Li Juan run away."
I was stubborn and blind at that time, and gave Xiaoli all the financial rights and financial cashiers of the company. Unexpectedly, Xiaoli completely cheated me in the end.
At first, I didn't know that Xiaoli had set me up on purpose.
At that time, Xiaoli told me: "My parents are farmers in poor mountainous areas. There are four brothers and sisters in my family. I am the boss. There is also a younger brother and two sisters below. My parents are also sick and need to spend money on treatment. "
At that time, I sympathized with Xiaoli's situation.
After hard work, Xiaoli was able to get out of poor rural areas and get an accounting certificate to become an accountant. I admire Xiaoli's experience very much, so I somehow let Xiaoli capture my heart and finally fell for it.
At that time, Xiaoli said to me, "Since your family situation is so difficult and our company has made money, you should take some money from your own company first to help your family cope with the emergency."
Later, Xiaoli took money from the company to treat her parents in the hospital and bought a house of 1 for her parents in the county. At that time, I thought Xiaoli was really a very good and filial person.
Later, I went to the house that Xiaoli bought and met Xiaoli's parents. The other party was very grateful to me.
Unexpectedly, after my company had a problem, I couldn't find Xiaoli.
So I went to the house that Xiaoli bought for her parents, but the house has been sold to others.
I went to see Xiaoli again, and found that her mobile phone number directly became an empty number, so I couldn't go to see her again.
Only then did I know that I was completely beaten by Xiaoli.
I regret it very much now, but it is too late. "
Xiaoli said, "Never mind, didn't you buy 20 acres of land? There are also machinery and equipment, and we can start again. "
Xiao Qiang said, "I asked the bank to mortgage the 20 mu of land, and so did the machinery and equipment. Now the land and machinery and equipment are owned by the bank. "
Xiaoying asked, "Then you have earned millions in recent years. How can you say that you lost it all at once? "
Xiao Qiang said, "Now I understand. At that time, Xiaoli used the form of ants moving to routine me. "
At that time, I didn't think so much, so I put Xiaoli in charge of accounting and cashier. All Qian Xiaoli took the commission in cash, and then all the money was taken away by Xiaoli. "
Xiaoying said, "Then go to the public security organ to report the case."
Xiao Qiang said, "How can I report the case now? The account of this company is gone at all, and Xiaoli doesn't know where to get it. "
I asked Xiaoli for the bill. Xiaoli said, "Those accounts are all in my mind. There is no account outside. Everything you want is empty.
If our company takes out the accounts, the tax authorities will be in trouble. "
So I didn't ask again.
Unexpectedly, Xiaoli set a set in advance for me to jump in from the outside.
Now I understand, for the sake of our children and the house at home now, we have to divorce quickly, give you both the house and the children, and I will leave home cleanly.
Otherwise, there is still a lot of money owed outside, and the house will be gone. "
Finally, Xiaoying and Xiao Gan divorced, and Xiaoying owned the house and children.
Xiao Qiang's company owes a lot of money, and many people outside ask Xiao Qiang for debts, and even sue in court.
Xiao Qiang had no choice but to hide for a whole day and finally never showed up.
Cousin went through the medical retirement formalities because of poor health and went back to her hometown to rent a house.
Because Xiao Qiang owes too much money to others, people come directly to block doors, plug keyhole and throw bricks. The house has been empty since it finally became uninhabitable.
Originally, my cousin Xiao Qiang had a good life in the unit, but I didn't expect him to start a company in the sea on a whim.
As a result, Xiao Qiang finally found a mistress outside, and finally let San Xiao collect all the money. Xiao Qiang also owes huge debts.
There is no way, cousin Xiaoying and Xiao Qiang divorced. Although the house has been saved, it is impossible to live in it. Xiao Qiang rented a house outside and moved around to avoid debt.
Xiao Qiang was very depressed when he was out hiding his debts, so he got into the bad habit of drinking. He gets drunk every day and goes back to his rented house.
At this time, Xiao Qiang's original vitality has disappeared, and he has become like a migrant worker who works on a construction site all day. He has a long beard and wears very tattered clothes and cloth shoes.
Once Xiao Qiang went to his mother's house, but I didn't even recognize Xiao Qiang.
The original high-spirited Xiao Qiang directly turned into a migrant worker and a lower class person. His face was black, and he was very down and out.
Mother knew that Xiao Qiang was drinking too much now, so she suggested that Xiao Qiang say:
A man is a man. He gets up where he falls.
You can't indulge in wine all day and drink yourself like this.
Now you have nothing but your wife and children. As long as you face yourself correctly and work hard, there will always be a time to turn over. "
Xiao Qiang shook his head with a wry smile, and finally got up and left in dismay.
Until one day, Xiao Qiang bought wine outside and drank it in the rental house. He had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage and died directly.
After hearing the news of Xiao Qiang's death, Xiaoying was very helpless, because the two of them had divorced, so she hurriedly cremated Xiao Qiang.
After marriage, my cousin raised her child Zixuan alone.
Fortunately, Zixuan was more progressive, admitted to the university, and finally stayed as a teacher, married a daughter-in-law and gave birth to twins.
My cousin helps Zixuan look after two children.
06 sentiment
In this article, cousin Xiaoying and cousin Xiao Qiang divorced, but they are still separated, because they have the same child, Zixuan, and they will never give up.
At the beginning, I found Xiao Li outside because I made too much money by starting my own company. As a result, Xiao Li took all the money and owed him a huge debt, which will never be repaid.
Xiao Qiang understand, Xiaoli has absconded with money, can't find it anymore.
In fact, Xiao Qiang asked for it.
Cousin Xiaoying finally accepted Xiao Qiang who made a mistake, but Xiao Qiang never recovered, got into the bad habit of drinking again, and finally died of drinking.
Sometimes a person's mistakes can really turn people over for a lifetime.
However, people must deal with things correctly. Just like Xiao Qiang himself, although he was burdened with huge debts by Xiao Li's routine, he did not take the right way to deal with it, but adopted an evasive plan.
I think what Xiao Qiang did was wrong.
Many successful people are heavily in debt before they succeed in their careers.
But these people, as Zeng Guofan said, were defeated again and again and never gave up.
We should learn some useful knowledge and experience from the experiences of Xiaoying and Xiao Qiang.
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