Listening is not simply listening with ears, it is also an art. Listening is not only listening to the speaker with ears, but also feeling the verbal and non-verbal information expressed in the other party's conversation.
In a narrow sense, listening refers to the whole process of receiving speech information by means of auditory organs and then reaching cognition and understanding through thinking activities; Listening in a broad sense includes written communication. The subject is the listener and the subject is the narrator. Echoing each other has the advantage of resolving contradictions or venting feelings.
Listening is on the basis of acceptance, active listening, earnest listening, attentive listening, and moderate participation when listening. Listening is one of the participatory techniques of individual psychological counseling.
The subject of listening is the listener and the subject of speaking is the narrator. Echoing each other has the advantage of resolving contradictions or venting feelings. As a sincere friend or mentor, the listener should be open-minded, patient, sincere and kind to solve problems for the confidante. But there is one thing to note:
If the learner has made up his mind or is ready to do something, it is only because of the strong pressure and pain of various societies or himself. When telling the listener, the confidante just wants to relieve this pressure and gain sympathy and support from relatives and friends. Listeners can smile and listen carefully without giving other suggestions.