The cause of work is due to a friend of the opposite sex in Reiko Kobayakawa. Reiko Kobayakawa has known this old friend for many years, longer than her husband. It's natural to get in touch with it. Reiko Kobayakawa and her husband only know the goal, but they still keep in touch with old friends and insist on making an appointment every two weeks. In fact, it's no big deal. Just come out and spit on each other, chat and have tea. Reiko Kobayakawa thought it was nothing and naturally didn't tell her boyfriend.
Later, Reiko Kobayakawa married her boyfriend at that time. They get along with each other day and night, and her husband naturally knows about the date. Unexpectedly, her husband flew into a rage and said to Reiko Kobayakawa, How did this happen? He didn't care about his previous job. Now that he is married, he can't eat alone in the future. Reiko Kobayakawa was very angry after hearing this. This is my own day, and I am very comfortable. Why should I listen to you? Besides, we know very well. what can I do for you? But my husband still won't let go.
Although her husband didn't give in, Reiko Kobayakawa still stuck to her original self, insisting that what she did was not wrong, which made her feel innocent. After several dates, Reiko Kobayakawa found out that her husband was stalking her after her death, so she investigated for some time. When Reiko Kobayakawa had to go out again, her husband would never let her go out. Reiko Kobayakawa didn't understand why.
At this time, the husband said that he had followed her before and found that this friend was not as simple as Reiko Kobayakawa said. Men's intuition about men can't be wrong. Reiko Kobayakawa thinks that her husband makes a mountain out of a molehill and makes trouble without reason, but her husband insists on his own opinion. The two men shouted and quarreled. Reiko Kobayakawa rushed out the door and angrily went out to continue the dinner.
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My friend has been waiting for a long time since Reiko Kobayakawa arrived. When we met, my friend saw Reiko Kobayakawa's red eyes and hurriedly asked what had happened. Reiko Kobayakawa spat out her husband's bad debts, but didn't notice at all. During Reiko Kobayakawa's speech, my friend's mood changed. When Reiko Kobayakawa finished speaking, my friend held Reiko Kobayakawa's hand for the first time and said, since life is not good, why not leave the good debt behind?
Reiko Kobayakawa got a fright, quickly pulled her hand back and looked at her friend's cautious face again, but she panicked. Is her husband really right? What does he really want from me? I was thinking when I heard my friend say, "I don't want to say the original, but I love you for no reason." As your friend for so many years, I always thought we were pure friendship before you got married, but I didn't find my heart until you really got married. Really, I suffered for a long time. I know I can't disturb your beauty, but today I see that you are not doing well and I really want to take care of you. "
After listening to her friend, Reiko Kobayakawa suddenly understood, but she really only regarded him as a friend, and hoped that their contact was just a friend. After understanding, Reiko Kobayakawa hurried home.
When I got home, I saw my husband sulking alone, and then I looked at the dishes cooked on the table. Reiko Kobayakawa smiled beautifully, which naturally calmed his mood and spoiled him. I haven't been out alone with your friends since.
In fact, in the work of whether we can eat alone with the opposite sex after marriage, even if we really lead an honest and clean life, we should remember the truth that "if we don't take the job, Li won't be crowned". Many times, it's either what we think or what we do. Although you live a clean and honest life, you can't manipulate others. Everything you say and do will have an unconscious hint to others. Once you get married, love is the job of both of you, and there will be responsibilities between you. Therefore, no matter what you do, you should consider each other's feelings and ideas, rather than putting all your eggs in one basket.
Of course, no job is so absolute that it eventually becomes love under the guise of friendship. What is certain, however, is that most friends who are not particularly familiar with it must be prevented from contacting alone. This kind of person invites you to dinner, either because he thinks he can seek your help in interests or to further develop his love. Now everyone is famous and busy making money. Who will waste all their precious time on you? Therefore, if you receive an invitation during your marriage, you can consider contacting this person first. If you are not sure, you can respect your partner's thoughts.
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In fact, is it a trivial matter to eat alone with other members of the opposite sex after marriage? This problem, in the final analysis, is not to inform us whether this problem is big or small. What matters is whether the job is big or small between you and your husband. Every couple's lifestyle and communication style are different, and naturally their cognition and judgment of work are different.
Some couples may think that it is enough to have a standard for this kind of work between husband and wife, so that they can reach mutual understanding and have enough trust in each other, and they can communicate at any time, and they will not have separate holidays because of this kind of work. There are also some couples who are sensitive to this issue, and their own ideas about marriage are bound to be out of line. Because of this kind of work, they will lose a lot because of small things. Such partners should never try to oppose each other's ideas, find points to communicate with, and increase more sense of scale and trust. This problem may really become a minor problem.
We must be careful when dealing with friends of the opposite sex. If you are a friend of the opposite sex, you should also consider the situation of your friend and the thoughts of your friend and partner, and don't be too selfish.
I hope every couple can live in harmony and support each other until death do us part.