Peng took out 0.2 million/200 thousand cash and put it in front of her two brothers, saying it was all her mother's property. Then, she said nothing and left without looking back. Peng knew that he would never have an intersection with his brothers again in his life, and his heart was empty.
Peng's father died young. At that time, despite her mother's obstruction, she ran away for love. Marriage is also sweet, but her fate is not good. Her husband died of illness in his early years. At that time, her marriage, which was not blessed by her parents, was also strongly opposed by her two brothers. She said that she was selfish, only thinking about herself, regardless of her mother's feelings, and she released cruel words to her. She is determined not to go to her door for the rest of her life.
Having said that, Peng must go back to visit her mother several times a year, and her two brothers have been indifferent to her.
My brother did this to her, largely because of her mother. When she got married, her mother didn't give her a penny. Later, after her husband died, her mother asked her to go home and let Peng live in the previously rented building.
This broke out the contradiction between her and her two brothers, because before that, my mother had promised her two sons that she would give each of them this building and the building where she lived in the future.
When Peng came back, her mother and two sons said that this house belongs to your sister, and she only has the right to live, but not the right to buy or sell. Then she got married again, and the house is still yours.
Obviously, the two brothers are not satisfied with their mother's decision. They summed it up and said to their sister, well, we don't want this house in the future. You live with our mother and take care of each other. Her mother is old. You should take care of her.
At that time, Peng was a little angry. Her two brothers gave the house to her future mother as a transaction.
She immediately declared that she didn't want the house.
The two brothers echoed each other and said quietly, "Don't be high-profile. If you really don't want it, don't live here. " .
Peng got angry and entered the second marriage.
The consequences of hasty marriage are often tragic, and so is Peng. She was unhappy after her second marriage, and her second husband was prone to domestic violence. As a last resort, she walked out of the marriage for the second time.
Nothing in the world loves her more than her mother, who hopes she can move back home again. This time, the mother clearly told her son that she could not look at her daughter without a place to live, and the house should be given to her daughter.
In this regard, it was strongly opposed by two sons.
Faced with this situation, Peng didn't want to embarrass his mother, so he set foot on the road to work in other places alone.
Until a year ago, she received a phone call from her brother saying that her mother was ill and asked her to go home and make a nursing plan together.
This year, Peng just retired.
Peng came home, and her brother told her that we would take care of our mother before she moved in. Now my mother can't get out of bed, and you are retired. Why don't you come back and take care of my mother, and all her savings will be yours in the future, and we won't participate.
As we all know, the mother's deposit of 200,000 yuan is also a donation of the extra area of the mother's relocated house.
Peng couldn't help thinking of something a few years ago. She wanted to refuse, but looking at her mother lying in bed in tears, she agreed.
Mother has a monthly pension of 1500 yuan. It costs 500 to 600 yuan to take medicine in the moonlight, and the rest 1000 is the living allowance. I'm too old to eat much. This 1000 yuan is enough to save.
Later, my mother's illness became more and more serious and she had to rely on people to feed her. The two brothers seem to have explained to her that she should take care of her mother's money. They didn't get the benefit, and naturally they were calm. They could guide their work occasionally without asking.
The two brothers come once every ten days and a half, and when they come, they watch her feed their mother. They were very dissatisfied and said that if you let her eat by herself, she would be useless and unable to move.
Peng doesn't want her mother to eat alone. She knows better than anyone that her mother can't lift the bowl with trembling hands. These brothers who come once in a while always stand in the direction of command, leaving her speechless.
Think about it, looking at the mother who has completely lost consciousness, the injustice can only be swallowed silently by herself.
Over the past year, her weight has dropped from 130 kilograms to 100 kilograms. Even so, she is still holding on alone.
She once told her brother that she wouldn't take a penny from her mother. Her brothers didn't talk to her face, but told her relatives and neighbors behind her back. She speaks better than she sings. Who will do something that is not good?
A year later, her mother died. During the whole process, Peng didn't shed a tear. On the contrary, her two brothers kept crying and saying, Mom, how can we live without you? We have no mother.
At that moment, Peng had a kind heart and couldn't say anything.
Peng took 0.2 million/200 thousand cash and put it in front of her two brothers, saying that it was all my mother's property and I didn't want any money. Then, without saying a word, she left without looking back. Peng knows that she will never have any intersection with her brothers again in this life. The love between brother and sister ended here, and her heart was empty.
Over the past year or so, the hardships of taking care of my mother are incomparable to the cold-blooded brothers.
Peng believes that it is tolerable to take care of the elderly no matter how hard and tired they are. To take care of the elderly, we must be patient, and the most important thing is to have a conscience. When conscience is overwhelmed by interests, all family ties will turn to freezing point.
Many sons are like this now. Interests rush ahead and try to hide behind. After getting the benefits, she finally kidnapped her daughter with morality, and her conscience was drowned by the benefits.
This problem is widespread in rural areas. Care needs more daughters, but not property. All belong to the son. I think this phenomenon is extremely unreasonable. It is better to completely change this bad phenomenon!
In today's society, this practice of the elderly is the fundamental reason why the brothers and sisters behind the elderly turn against each other.
There are several relatives around me who have this situation. When the old man is ill, the daughter and son share the old man's medical expenses. When someone needs care, the daughter takes care of it, and the property of the old man is left to the son. In a more harmonious family, the son will give his daughter some property.
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Most elderly people prefer to let their daughters take care of them when they are sick and inconvenient in life. On the one hand, because the daughter is her own, it is more convenient to wash her body, and her daughter is more careful and patient in doing these tasks. On the one hand, the elderly will be more distressed by their sons and daughters-in-law, afraid that their sons will be in charge of their work, and afraid of causing trouble to their daughters-in-law, which will disgust them.
After the death of the old man, the family property is divided equally by the son, and the daughter generally does not participate.
Of course, I'm talking about part of the situation. I think it is right to take care of my parents from an early age and repay their kindness. According to our tradition, sons should take care of their parents wholeheartedly, and as daughters, they should take care of their parents as much as possible, so we should look down on property. One-child families, regardless of their sons and daughters, should do their best to take care of their parents.
The property of a family with many children must be distributed equally among the children, so it is obligatory to support the children. Otherwise, once the distribution is uneven, it will lead to contradictions between children and problems such as subjectivity. It doesn't matter what you think, what matters is what you think in your heart
Be filial. After filial piety, whether it has property or not, take it if it has it, and don't take it if it doesn't. Since then, I have become strangers to others.
Taking care of the elderly is a duty, but it is not passed down. It is because the old man is eccentric or other relatives have done something that he feels that he has been calculated. It is human nature that they are unfair, and there is nothing to blame. Therefore, in many cases, it is understandable that brothers and sisters propose to solve the problem of inheritance distribution in advance. But if it is solved, the elderly can be taken care of according to law.
My old mother left at 86 this year, last month 17. She left peacefully!
My old mother has been living with my brother and sister-in-law, and her body is strong, but she has cholecystitis since she was a child, and later developed into gallstones, hepatolithiasis, liver atrophy and liver abscess. She had an operation and removed the stone from the middle of her mouth. In recent years, she has been ill and hospitalized once or twice a year, and the expenses have always been paid by her brother. Our sister waited on her. After she was discharged from the hospital, she recovered and went back to her brother's house. Last year, my mother began to get sick in September until she died last month. No matter in the hospital or later, her brother's house was not treated with medicine. The three brothers and sisters tried to stay with their old mother (although in the hospital, in principle, only one family member can accompany the bed, but the situation was special, and the doctors and nurses did not say anything. We spend most of our time alone. After leaving the hospital, our two sisters still lived in my brother's house and took care of my old mother for more than a month until her death. My old father has been gone for more than 20 years, and now my old mother is gone, and our sisters have no intention of dividing the property. Harmony between brother and sister is the greatest wealth!
Dedicated, filial and conscientious. Don't ask for profit, don't want to ask for it, don't count gains and losses. [Pick your nose] [Pick your nose] [Pick your nose]