Many of these heritages have psychological factors in them. If the people in this family don't understand psychology from generation to generation and don't learn to change themselves, there is a great chance that this problem will be passed down. Generation after generation.
If a generation in this family can't stand it, go to study psychology or find a psychological counselor to solve their own problems seriously. Then this problem is likely to be solved in my generation. It also breaks the intergenerational genetic chain of the problem. It can be said that this man has made great contributions in the continuous history of the family.
To explain this problem, we must first explain why there is a problem of intergenerational transmission. When it comes to surrogacy inheritance, we must first understand a term: coercion.
Speaking of coercion.
Resentment arises spontaneously.
Who dares to force me?
Who's pushing me?
Kill him.
But,
What if you forced it?
What would you do if you forced yourself?
Who is it?
Me!
I'm stupid!
Force yourself!
Give a chestnut.
A man's father was an alcoholic, who was disturbed by him since he was a child and secretly vowed to find someone who didn't drink in the future. What was the result? I found another alcoholic as my husband and finished my life in one breath. When I was alive, I lamented my fate.
Give me another chestnut.
A child, since his childhood, his father often travels on business, and he seldom sees it several times a year. Living with my mother every day, big and small things make my mother grumpy. The child vowed to find someone to work with when getting married, and to be kind to the child himself. However, after getting married, I found that my husband was on a business trip all the year round and rushed in and out with his children every day. Life is always stumbling, and as time goes on, he can't help getting angry.
These phenomena have been passed down from generation to generation and seem to be repeated all the time. What I want to emphasize here is that not all phenomena will be repeated, and what I want to analyze here is the repeated situation.
Why is this mandatory? Why is the chance of recurrence so great?
Because there is a desire and direction in our hearts, and there is a power to point to this result. Under the guidance of this power, you found your present husband and repeated your past life.
The past life was not happy, but it left a deep impression in your childhood heart. When you grow up, there is a force that drives you back to the imprint of the past and enjoy the pain in the imprint.
You're right. Enjoy the pain in your impression.
People not only seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, but also have the desire to find the pain of the past and immerse themselves in it.
Give me another chestnut.
When I was a child, I liked to eat the dishes cooked by my mother. Work outside when you grow up. Do you think mom's cooking is the best when you go home for the New Year? There are not only emotional factors here, but also one reason is that your stomach remembers the taste. No matter where you go, your stomach will always remember the taste and remind you to relive it.
If you go abroad for several months, you can have French dinners and Brazilian barbecues for several months. Seeing these descriptions, I feel uncomfortable, and I can't wait to open a bottle of fermented bean curd and have a steamed bread. Your stomach wants to go back to China more than you do and enjoy the delicious food in your hometown.
Your body remembers your childhood experience and forms a mark, which often reminds you of the past, go back to the past and relive the past.
When I grow up, I will unconsciously hope to return to my childhood scene, immerse myself in it and experience it.
When we have this power and we don't know it,
You will do many unexpected behaviors.
For example, finding another alcoholic, we thought it was fate, but it wasn't. There is a force in your heart that drives you to find this drunkard and marry him.
You made it,
Successfully created a childhood scene,
Successfully returned to the painful emotional experience of childhood.
At this time, you are taking pains.
This is compulsive repetition.
Obsessive repetition exists in the subconscious and is unknown.
Only by making him conscious can we understand and solve this problem.
More importantly: nip in the bud.
Understanding coercion also helps to understand why problems are passed down from generation to generation in the family.
If you find that your family has similar problems, or hear friends complain about the situation at home, then say: Hey! This is my destiny.
At this time,
It's quite possible,
Encountered the problem of compulsive repetition.
The correct posture at this time is:
Learning psychology.
If it feels too long, or there is no direction.
So,
Look for the best consultant you can find.
Good consultants are hard to find,
I can only wish you luck.