The sensible beauty of older children
The older the children at home, the earlier they come into contact with the edge of growth. The world in their eyes is deeper and wider than that of children. Therefore, while children are still groping, older children have learned to understand and bear.
From a historical point of view
In Confucianism, brothers and sisters are entrusted with the responsibility of taking care of their younger brothers and sisters, who need to be full of respect for them. But the wheel of the times is rolling forward. In today's society, do we put too much emphasis on the humility of older children to their children and ignore fairness and right and wrong?
Disadvantages of modesty
If older children have to make unconditional concessions just because they are older, it may not only make them feel unfair, but also make them feel ignored and not understood. For children, excessive doting may make them arrogant, which is not conducive to the emotional cultivation between them and their brothers and sisters.
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Whether children are big or small, they need to grow up in a fair and understanding environment. Let us light up more wisdom for their growth!