What gives you the greatest sense of security in a long-distance relationship?

When you are in a long-distance relationship, the greatest sense of security is mutual trust. If there is no trust, what is long-distance love? But there are many such long-distance relationships in this world. For example, a friend around me complained to me that his distant wife didn't trust him. I asked him how to prove it. He said that every time he went home to visit relatives, his wife would examine his cell phone, his wallet and his phone records like a prisoner, which made me very happy. I said I finally met you. I have a headache.

In some people's eyes, it may be money and a house. Some people think that the greatest sense of security in a long-distance relationship is the other person's money, but whether this family's property is in their own name reminds me of the sadness of middle-aged men in Japan and the helplessness of middle-aged women. Everyone knows that Japanese women are very kind to their husbands, but if a middle-aged man loses his job, he is likely to be swept away by his wife. This is the traditional culture of Japan. Do you think it's terrible?

I think it's my own lasting Excellence. In today's society, each of us is influenced by multicultural values. When two people are together for a long time, they will be tired. People are still an animal that likes the new and hates the old. So how to maintain a sense of security? I think it is to make myself better and better. Only in this way will you attract each other more and more and make them proud of you, instead of giving up on you and abandoning you.

If you had a choice, would you choose long-distance love or mutual affection? I think most people will choose to care about each other, because this is the requirement of mainstream culture, but some netizens don't take the usual path. I believe your choice must be a long-distance relationship, right? Welcome to leave a message for discussion, hahaha.