Hong Zhanhui and his sister.
On the campus of Huaihua University in Hunan Province, every morning, a 23-year-old boy sends a little girl in her teens/kloc-0 to Shimen Primary School by bike, and then takes her back to their residence-the stairwell downstairs in the boys' dormitory at night. This boy is Hong Zhanhui who was admitted to the Department of Economics and Management of Huaihua University from Xihua County in 2003. The little girl is not related to Hong Zhanhui by blood, but the abandoned baby was adopted by her father with intermittent mental illness. Because his mother ran away from home, he brought up the sister who was taken away. When he was in high school in Hong Zhanhui, he always took his sister with him, took care of her while studying, and made a living by doing small business and odd jobs. Now he has taken care of her 12 years. Hong Zhanhui, who has never worn cotton-padded clothes, put on wool trousers and watched a little girl do her homework. Hong Zhanhui actually didn't want to wear cotton-padded clothes so early, because it would be a big expense.
At noon on February 4, 65438, the cold wind blew for several days, and an irresistible chill penetrated every pore of people like an awl.
In the stairwell of a dormitory building in Huaihua University, Hunan Province, Hong Zhanhui, who had never worn cotton-padded clothes, put on wool pants and watched a little girl do her homework. This is an ordinary Sunday, the coldest day since winter. Hong Zhanhui actually didn't want to wear cotton-padded clothes so early, because it would be a big expense. The little girl is Hong Zhanhui's sister. She was picked up 12 years ago. The year of 12 is long. The little girl has grown from a hungry baby to a sensible pupil. The year of 12 is not too long. Hong Zhanhui took care of this unrelated sister with the pure feelings of brother and sister.
Hongzhuang Village, dongxia town, Xihua County, Zhoukou City, Henan Province, is an ordinary small village in the eastern plain of Henan Province. A dirt road leads to a small town 3 kilometers away, which is a remote place in Xihua County. The town is 30 kilometers away from the county seat and is connected by a winding and rugged country road.
Hong Zhanhui was born here on 1982. /kloc-Before the age of 0/2, he had an innocent childhood like many boys in the countryside. His father, mother, brother, sister and his family live a hard but happy life. But one day, his life changed.
At noon at the end of August, 1994, my father, who has always been amiable, came back from aunt Hong Zhanhui's house to help with the work. He suddenly became angry for no reason. He stared, and no one could stop him from smashing things at home. Xiao Zhanhui and his younger brother have never seen their father like this. They stood outside the door in fear. The illiterate mother couldn't stop her father's behavior, and the monk's inexperienced sister squatted by the door and cried.
The most terrible scene appeared. My father suddenly grabbed my sister, and my mother grabbed her daughter in tears. She was kicked to the ground by her father, then held her sister high above her head and fell violently.
My sister died, my father was crazy ... 12 was a child, and the sky in Hong Zhanhui collapsed on this ordinary day. Hong Zhanhui wept for her injured mother. My brother is so stupid that he forgot to cry.
Relatives and friends around came, and they helped send Zhan Hui's parents to the hospital. Taking care of the hospitalized father, mother and younger brother, 12-year-old Hong Zhanhui began to shoulder the responsibility of being a housemaster. Within three months, hospitals, schools and homes in Hong Zhanhui are all 3: 1, day and night, rain or shine. After three months of suffering, Hong Zhanhui grew up, and his efforts finally paid off: his mother was discharged from the hospital, and his father's intermittent mental illness was under control, but at home.
"In any case, I won't send this little sister away ... if you don't raise it, I will raise it!" Hong Zhanhui named her Hong Qian, nicknamed "Tiny".
This year's lunar calendar1February 23rd is a traditional small year in China.
Hong Zhanhui didn't see his father when he got up in the morning, and a sense of foreboding suddenly hung over his head. He told his mother at once. China New Year is coming. Is my father ill again? Did father go out to make trouble again? The mother was anxious, and the mother and son searched all over the village, but they never saw the shadow of their father. Near noon, Hong Zhanhui found his father under a tree about 10 miles from the village. At this time, his father was holding a package in his arms. It is a baby. Father unwrapped the parcel and took care of it carefully. There is a fatherly love in my eyes, a long-lost love with a kind light.
Whose child is this? How did it get into my father's hands? The mother stepped forward carefully and took the child from her husband. This is a baby girl, and the cotton-padded clothes sewn with thick thread are covered with patches. Perhaps because of hunger and cold, the child's mouth made a weak sound. There is a note on the child's close-fitting clothes, which reads: unknown female, born in the lunar calendar1August/994 18. If a good-hearted person finds out, please accept it as an adopted daughter.
When it was getting dark, the family took the children home. Looking at the child who can't cry, the mother wants to wait until dawn to see who is willing to take it in and give it to whom.
This family is too poor. In fact, my mother is very willing to take this girl in, but she doesn't even have the money to buy milk powder. This kind mother doesn't want to see another fate similar to her daughter's. My daughter once brought a lot of laughter to this family. It seems that the pain that follows is like a scar, and no one wants to mention it again.
The same is true of mothers. The girl in front of her evoked the most painful pain in her heart, and she didn't seem to have the courage to pick up that girl. The task of looking after the children fell to Hong Zhanhui. As soon as he hugged the little girl, the little girl threw herself into his arms, and he thought of his sister.
This poor family can't afford to support this little girl. In the evening, the mother asked him to send the child back. Reluctantly, he opened the door and walked with the child in the biting wind. A kind of love is accompanied by a kind of pain. This is the girl of his dreams. He couldn't bear to cry and turned back. He said to his mother, "I won't send this little sister away anyway ... if you don't raise her, I will raise her!" " The child stayed, and Hong Zhanhui named her Hong Qian, nicknamed "Little Guy".
When they heard the cry of "little guy", they had not yet entered the house to find their mother ... Mother left and father was a patient. The arrival of the little guy brought long-lost joy to the family, and Hong Zhanhui's heart seemed to twitch. My father's guilt about his dead daughter made him pour all his father's love into the little guy, and his father's condition was stable for some time.
After all, my father is a patient, so it is impossible for him to take medicine for a long time for economic reasons. Once there is no medicine to maintain him, he will inevitably be manic. Except for not hitting "tiny", everything at home has become his outlet, including dishes and chopsticks, including his wife who has served him for a long time, and throws whatever she sees. Poor mother is weak, and she often suffers from old injuries and adds new ones.
It is unfair in itself that the burden of a family rests entirely on an illiterate mother. What is more unfair is that she is often beaten by her father for no reason.
1995. On August 20th, after lunch, my mother was busy steaming steamed bread until it was enough for the whole family to eat for a week.
The next day, my mother disappeared. The burden of the family and her father's fist crushed her mother, and she chose to escape.
"Mom, where have you been? Come back ... "The two brothers cried for a long time in the twilight. They don't want to lose their mother, the backbone of the family. Hong Zhanhui cried and looked for her mother with her younger brother in the surrounding villages. It was already late at night, and she didn't come home that day.
Looking for my mother, I heard the cry of "little guy" before I entered the house. Looking at my starving sister, the two brothers shed tears. My mother is gone, my father is a patient, and my sister is just 1 year old. Hong Zhanhui's heart seems to be twitching: "Mom, how can you leave us alone!" Life is so heartless, Hong Zhanhui's crying disappears into the night like paint and ink, and so does his mother.
The little guy who is full is obedient, but the hard part is that at night, every night, the little guy will cry.
Children from poor families have been in charge for a long time, but who would have thought that a child as young as 13 years old would have to bear such pressure? It seems that overnight, Hong Zhanhui grew up and became a man of few words. Raising a sister who can't walk, serving an unstable father and taking care of his younger brother, 13 years old, he learned to be patient and responsible.
When I was at school, I left him in the care of my aunt. When I came home from school, I was busy preparing meals for the whole family. What is more difficult is the problem of feeding the little guy. Every morning, Hong Zhanhui was always at a loss because the little guy kept crying, so she had to hold the baby in her arms and beg from her mother nearby. Begging for food every day is not the way. Later, Hong Zhanhui tried every means to raise money to buy milk powder. Under the guidance of some experienced people, he learned to make milk powder for the little guy. In order to keep the temperature of the milk moderate, when feeding, he considered that it was unsanitary to suck with his mouth, so he first poured the prepared milk on his arm and fed it to her after feeling neither too hot nor too cold.
Those who are full are obedient. As long as Hong Zhanhui comes back to nurse twice before school and at noon, she won't cry. The hard part is that at night, perhaps because of being scared, every night, the "little guy" will cry. At this time, Hong Zhanhui could do nothing. He doesn't know how to coax her. He just picked her up, slapped her and walked around the house. ...
Summer is better. One inch of cotton trousers are wet in winter, and there is no extra cotton coat to replace. Every night, Hong Zhanhui put wet cotton trousers on his bed to dry, and at dawn, he put them on for another inch.
During 1995, Hong Zhanhui went to Tingxiang Middle School in Xiadong District of Xihua County to attend junior high school. The school is two or three kilometers away from home. When he was at school, where to put Tiny became a problem in his mind. If he leaves it at home, will his sick father hurt tiny? So Hong Zhanhui found another neighbor and asked him to take care of Tiny while she was at school. In the three years of junior high school, Hong Zhanhui walked back and forth between school and home every morning, noon, afternoon and evening to take care of this little guy in time.
Although life was hard, it was also dull, and it lasted until the Spring Festival of 1996. Soon after that year, the little guy often had diarrhea several times a day. Looking at her thinner sister, Hong Zhanhui had to ask the teacher for leave to take her sister to the hospital. The diagnosis came out, and the younger one had severe enteritis. Since then, in more than 20 consecutive days, health centers have become the third point outside schools and families.
For several years, my mother hasn't heard from me, and my father's illness has recurred.
In order to prevent accidents, every night, he puts the little guy inside to sleep. As long as there is movement at night, he will touch the little guy inside first.
Years of life have made Hong Zhanhui mature, and maturity means a difficult experience. Hong Zhanhui's young life ring contains special meaning: the unfairness of life makes Hong Zhanhui's immature backbone strong and persistent.
The story of self-reliance is badly needed! Who has the story of self-reliance and self-improvement? Hey, you should help me! A short story about self-confidence, self-improvement and self-reliance: self-confidence can determine the goal of ideal life, and confident people have the power to decide their own direction in life, plan their own future, dominate their own destiny and be their own masters. Self-reliance and then self-reliance: people should be self-reliant. As the saying goes, "a gentleman is strong and self-reliant", and he also said that "a man is self-reliant without seeds". Only those who know how to work hard and progress can stand on their own feet.
Among the 65,438+000 most influential people in the past 65,438+0,000 years recently selected by American Life Weekly, Edison ranked first.
Edison came from humble origins and lived in poverty. His life's "education" is only three months of primary school. Because his teacher was always tongue-tied by his strange questions, he even told his mother that he was a fool and would have no future. Although Edison did not receive a good school education, he achieved great success with his personal struggle and extraordinary intelligence, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-reliance. Self-taught, he stood up from thousands of failures with perseverance, rare enthusiasm and energy, overcame countless difficulties and became an American inventor and entrepreneur. He invented the automatic telegraph and phonograph; Experiment and improve electric lights (incandescent lamps) and telephones. In his life, there was a new invention every 15 days on average, so he was called "the king of inventions".
Where there is a will, there is a way.
Where there is a will, there is a way.
You must have the courage of self-confidence to have the courage to work. -Lu Xun
In the new day, we should strive for self-improvement and follow the trend of the world. -Kang Youwei
The story of self-reliance is short, not Edison. Although Zhang Haidi is accompanied by a wheelchair, he can't "walk the Wan Li Road", but he can "read the whole world". Without the guidance of a famous teacher, she learned three foreign languages with tenacious perseverance, which is not easy for ordinary people. But Zhang Haidi did it with the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement. Not only that, she has also made remarkable achievements in literary creation. In her works, we can clearly see her self-reliance and self-reliance character.
Tai Lihua is a beautiful girl. She has lost her hearing and speaking ability. She used to be lively and lovely, but unfortunately, she lost her hearing at the age of 2 because of a high fever, and she has been deaf ever since. On her sixth birthday, her father gave her a pair of dancing shoes, and she was very happy.
196 1 One day in May, Lei Feng went to Dandong on business and left the company at five o'clock in the morning. On the way to Fushun Railway Station, he saw a sister-in-law carrying a child and holding a six-or seven-year-old girl in her hand to catch a bus. It was raining, and none of them wore raincoats. The little girl was covered in mud because she fell into the mud pit and cried as she walked. Seeing this situation, Lei Feng immediately thought that the purpose of our army is to serve the people wholeheartedly, and the difficulties of the masses are my difficulties. Lei Feng hurried forward, took off his raincoat, put it on his sister-in-law who was carrying the child, immediately picked up the little girl and walked to the railway station together. Lei Feng bought her a ticket and got on the train together. In the car, Lei Feng saw the little girl, her clothes were not dry at all, her hair was still dripping, and she was shivering with cold. Lei Feng's clothes were wet, so he quickly unbuttoned his coat and felt that the sweater next to him was still dry. He immediately took it off and put it on the little girl. I heard that the mother and son came out without eating in the morning, and Lei Feng gave them three steamed buns he had brought. At nine o'clock in the morning, the train arrived in Shenyang. Lei Feng led the little girls all the way out of the station.
(2) When Lei Feng went out to change trains at Shenyang Railway Station, he found a group of people gathered around the ticket gate to see a middle-aged woman with a child on her back. It turned out that the woman went from Shandong to Jilin to see her husband and lost her ticket and money. Lei Feng used his allowance to buy a train ticket to Jilin and stuffed it into his sister-in-law's hand. Sister-in-law said with tears, "eldest brother, what's your name and which unit are you from?" Lei Feng said, "My name is China People's Liberation Army, and I live in China." .
(3) One day in May, Lei Feng went to Shenyang in the rain. In order to catch the early train, he got up at 5 o'clock in the morning, took some steamed buns and put on a raincoat. On the way, he saw a woman carrying a child and struggling to lead a little girl to the station. Lei Feng took off his raincoat and put it on his sister-in-law. He picked up the little girl and accompanied them to the station. After getting on the bus, Lei Feng saw the little girl shivering with cold, so he took off his sweater and put it on her. Lei Feng estimated that she didn't eat in the morning, so she gave them the steamed bread she brought. When the train arrived in Shenyang, it was still raining, and Lei Feng kept sending them home. The woman said gratefully, "Comrade, how can I thank you?" ! "
(4) During the Chinese New Year, comrades-in-arms happily engage in various recreational activities together. Lei Feng played table tennis with everyone in the club for a while, and he thought about how many people in these places needed help during the Spring Festival when the service and transportation departments were busiest. He put down his racket, called a few comrades in the class, and went straight to the nearby Park Ertun station after asking for leave together. One helps clean the waiting room, and the other pours water for the passengers. Lei Feng touched the whole class.
Lei Feng just chose to do good things for the people endlessly and wholeheartedly. No wonder people think of Lei Feng when they see people who do good things for the people.
Zhang Haidi, a self-reliant figure with physical and mental disabilities, taught himself a foreign language, wrote a book and became the chairman of the All-China Disabled Persons' Federation. You can find books about Zhang Haidi in the library.
Edison came from humble origins and lived in poverty. His "education" is that he only attended primary school for three months in his life. Because the teacher is always tongue-tied by his strange questions, and even says that he is a fool in front of his mother and will not have any future. Although Edison did not receive a good school education, he achieved great success with his personal struggle and extraordinary intelligence, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-reliance. Self-taught, he stood up from thousands of failures with perseverance, rare enthusiasm and energy, overcame countless difficulties and became an American inventor and entrepreneur. He invented the automatic telegraph and phonograph; Experiment and improve electric lights (incandescent lamps) and telephones. In his life, there was a new invention every 15 days on average, so he was called "the king of inventions".
The most inspirational stories and famous sayings are just famous sayings, okay? Life is a battle. -Korolenko Hope is a faithful sister of bad luck. -Pushkin
The only shortcoming we can't correct is weakness. Laroche Foucault
Selfish winners will destroy the public. -Lin Bu
Not strong is not wise. Mo Zhai
Swallows know the ambition of swans! Chen She
Be ambitious. -Zhuge Liang
Swallows are playing in the Woods. They know how to swim with swans. -Cao Zhi
Poverty is strong, not falling into the sky. -Wang Bo
Stephen hawking was born in Oxford, England on 19421October 8th.
Hawking went to Cambridge University for postgraduate study after graduating from Oxford University. At this time, he was diagnosed as "Luger's disease" and soon became completely paralyzed. 1985 Hawking underwent tracheal surgery for pneumonia. After that, he couldn't speak at all, and he could only talk to people with a small dialogue machine and a speech synthesizer installed in a wheelchair. Reading must rely on a page turning machine. When reading a document, you need to ask someone to spread every page on a big table, and then he will read it page by page in a wheelchair like a silkworm eating mulberry leaves. ...
It is in this incredible difficulty that Hawking became a world-recognized giant in gravitational physics. Hawking is a Luxun professor of mathematics at Cambridge University. His black hole evaporation theory and quantum cosmology not only shocked natural science, but also had a far-reaching impact on philosophy and religion.