As the old saying goes, know yourself and know yourself. To separate a mistress, we must first understand the types and tricks of a mistress.
Let's take a look at the tricks and characteristics of mistress.
Outstanding beauty. This kind of mistress parades through the city by her own beauty, which greatly meets the demand of men for eroticism. They smell charming all over, leaving men helpless.
But in real life, many men find mistresses that are not necessarily good-looking, and some are even ugly. But they meet other needs of men. Know a man's heart. For example, Lingling in my first half of life, although not outstanding, knows how to win a man's heart. If you can see clearly what a man really needs and show gentleness and understanding, a man can't escape from her palm.
Young and ignorant. When men reach a certain age, they are always eager to meet young girls. Get along with them, men will think they are still young. These girls are easily deceived, and unconsciously they get deeper and deeper, unable to extricate themselves. They know that men have an original match, but they are addicted to being a reviled mistress.
Face each other day and night. Some men have easy access to subordinates, secretaries, colleagues and others. They get along with each other day and night and get to know each other's habits and personalities. People who cheat are very convenient and readily available, but the cost is also the highest. Because men are generally more difficult to get rid of after cheating.
Rich and powerful. Such women are more valuable than men, and women can also play with these playboy men. And men have the advantage of women and get everything they want.
Every type of mistress has her weaknesses and fatal points. Although there are endless tricks and tricks, there are traces to follow.
Knowing this can suit the remedy to the case, take it by surprise and attack it by surprise.
When the original partner knows about the man's infidelity, he should first calm himself down. Impulse is the devil. At this time, the more confident you are, the more nameless shock you will have, and you will press your opponent down first in the gas field. The mistress is in the dark, and you are in the light. You should make full use of this unique condition. In anger, the original partner felt that he was a victim and that his husband should suffer whatever he did. This idea is all wet. Crying twice and hanging three times, asking all relatives to see it, humiliating a man, is a way to push him further and further. For us, the heart is comfortable, but the result is not what we want. This is not worth the loss. Never be manipulated by extreme emotions, but find the most effective tactics.
What should I do with the original?
Know your husband. If you knew this, there would be no mistress in your marriage. Have you ever tried to understand the true inner world of your lover? The deep layer of a person is to be understood, respected, needed and worshipped. Deep down in a woman, she needs a man who cares about her and can do it. Did you do it? If not, then study quickly.
Change the fun of creating life. After marriage, there are not only two-point and one-line rules between you, such as workplace and family, but you actually have many choices. When life lacks interest and becomes too dull, marriage life naturally becomes too boring. In the family, it is easy for two people to have unnecessary quarrels because of some contradictions in their lives. And these unnecessary quarrels are often the fuse of your feelings. You can try * * * to travel together, or * * * to listen to some forum lectures and so on to add fun to your life. By doing something that I have never tried before, I can talk and laugh with him, and my feelings will be more progressive. In fact, the environment between you can be changed appropriately, not confined to a single place, so as to make life more meaningful. When married life brings happiness to two people, how can a mistress easily destroy the relationship between you?
There are many ways to alienate husbands and mistresses. We should choose according to the type of mistress and the tricks she is good at, despise the enemy strategically and attach importance to the enemy tactically.
This kind of psychological game is more lethal than crying and tossing yourself hard, and it can really make you proud. In this process, the original partners should also pay attention to enhancing their own value. The worse they are, the more they want to live a wonderful life. Why humiliate yourself for a cheating man and a shameless mistress?
We should show our best, even more charming than before. You should let men know that I can not only live well without you, but also be better than before. The things to do are the same, not abandoning the family, not neglecting the children, and not slacking off at work. Men must be shocked and moved to see that you have managed your family so well that the whole person has changed.
The warmth of home beckons him, and the new you make him sit up and take notice.
As long as you open the floodgate of emotion, many previous memories will emerge.
All this is very different from his hiding in San Xiao, and the meaning of regret naturally germinated. When the husband wants to return to the family, he should still hold him in a high profile and let him taste the taste of being unpopular with the family. This is also to stabilize his mind that he will no longer be confused after his return.
Of course, how to maintain and eliminate the bad feelings after reunification is another game.
The number of tactics divided into three does not count. If you want to know more, you can consult Yuan Dun's emotional tutor.