Mothering-in-law means that the newlyweds are invited by the bride's mother's uncle (by phone or in person) early in the morning on the second or third day of their marriage and go to the bride's house with gifts. At this time, the woman's family should also prepare a banquet (usually at noon, called a mothering banquet or a son-in-law). After that, the matchmaker's job will be over, and the man will give the matchmaker a gift to thank him. In modern wedding customs, mother, uncle and son have been visiting the house and being mothers at the same time. Generally speaking, mothering or wedding reception will be held about three days after marriage. Mothering, "mothering" see The Book of Songs, Nan Zhou, Ge Tan and Mao Zhuan, saying, "It's better to be mothering. If parents are here, sometimes they will go back to Ninger. "It means telling the married daughter that if she has time, she will go back to her mother's house to visit her parents and greet her parents' health and safety.
You usually go back to the man's house before sunset (it's easy to have a boy), or you can go to the hotel together. Some places think that couples need to sleep in separate rooms if they have to spend the night. It is said that it is unlucky for couples to go back to their hometown and their wives' relatives to share the same room.