What are the main problems in the family education of the only child?

There are too many family members and children are paid too much attention, which leads to children being overprotected and lacking in thinking ability. At this time, the focus of family education is to cultivate independent thinking. For example, children like riding bicycles, but when they push them out, they always scrape them somewhere else. Therefore, parents need to teach their children how to adjust the direction of handlebars to avoid scratches. In a similar situation, children should think independently about how to adjust, but should avoid helping children push bicycles or scolding children for scratching problems many times.

Family members have different personalities, and the information children receive is complicated, so there is no uniform standard for cultivating children. At this time, it is very necessary to hold an internal family meeting. If there are old people and young people with different educational concepts at home, they need to sit together to discuss their children's educational methods and ask their families to cooperate. In the process of education, one should avoid saying or doing the opposite. For example, if a child likes watching TV, and one person asks the child to finish his homework before watching TV, then the other person must reach an agreement to avoid the situation that the other party promises the child to watch TV without finishing his homework.

Children lack independent space and are prone to rebellious psychology. At this time, the focus of education is to adjust the psychological state of instructors, from paying too much attention to children's grades or family life to giving children proper space, paying attention to things around them, such as classmates, hobbies and thoughts, and understanding their interpersonal communication through equal dialogue. If there are life puzzles to help them solve, parents will eventually quit their children's lives, leave them alone and let them go at the right time.