In fact, brother-in-law is not as terrible as the legend, and many brothers-in-law are also reasonable people. It is a man's luck to meet such a brother-in-law, but not all men are lucky to meet a reasonable brother-in-law. If you meet a brother-in-law called Voldemort, men will be miserable.
Getting married is an important event in life, but getting married requires preparing a bride price and a house. Most of us are born in ordinary families, so it is difficult to give bride price, and it is even more difficult to buy a house. Then once the brother-in-law gets married, the brother-in-law will definitely contribute, but the help is limited. Once excessive, there will be contradictions.
Fangfang and Gangzi lived comfortably for five years, but since the brother-in-law got married, the contradiction between them came, mainly because Fangfang's parents wanted to come to Gangzi's house and Gangzi didn't agree. Why? Because Fangfang's parents meant to support Gangzi, which undoubtedly annoyed Gangzi.
I thought Gangzi was still a poor boy and went out to work after graduating from high school. Later, he took root in the city through his own efforts, had his own career, and later opened a company. Life is beautiful, and it is hard work.
Shortly after Gangzi bought a house in the city, her parents introduced Fangfang to Gangzi through acquaintances. As soon as they hit it off, they got along for a while, thought they were suitable for each other and got married.
Fangfang also comes from the countryside. Her parents make a living by farming, and there is a younger brother at home. Of course, Fangfang's parents have been partial to her younger brother since childhood. Although Fangfang's academic performance is very good, her parents still let Fangfang go out to work after finishing her second year of high school, and all the money Fangfang earned was given to her parents for her younger brother to study.
When Fangfang got married, her parents originally wanted a bride price of 65,438+10,000 yuan, but Gangzi was a little short of money at that time, so she really couldn't come up with 65,438+10,000 yuan. Later, Fangfang's parents changed their minds, and the bride price was only 60,000 yuan. Gangzi also cares about her parents-in-law's kindness, and she is very filial to her parents-in-law after marriage.
Not long after marriage, my brother-in-law was admitted to the university, but after four years, the tuition was quite high. I just thought that it was not easy for my parents-in-law, and now I'm mixed up, so I took the initiative to bear my brother-in-law's college expenses for four years. Fangfang's parents praised Gangzi for being filial and sensible, and Fangfang felt that she had married the right person. They are bent on making money after marriage, just running business, Fangfang is in charge of the accounts, and the husband and wife work together. In just a few years, business is booming.
In the third year of marriage, Fangfang wants to buy a suite for her parents in the city. After all, it is convenient to live in the city, and Gangzi is also filial. Without hesitation, she took out 300,000 yuan to buy a suite in the north of the city, and the family lived a delicious life.
My brother-in-law graduated from college this year. He talked about a girlfriend in college. Not long after graduation, he became pregnant. People forced his brother-in-law to get married, but he could get married and want a house. Originally, Fangfang's parents wanted to give their son a wedding room, but the object disliked the second-hand house and forced him to buy a new one. Fangfang's parents had to secretly sell the house and buy a new one for their son.
Not long after buying the house, my brother-in-law got married, but my parents-in-law lived in my brother-in-law's house for less than half a month, and my daughter-in-law kicked her out. The homeless people had to go to their daughter-in-law, and Gangzi realized that they had sold the apartment. In Gangzi's view, maybe this is karma.
Now the implication of my father-in-law is to support the elderly at Gangzi's home. Gangzi thinks that his father-in-law has a son. Why should he support the elderly? Besides, he has given a lot to his parents-in-law over the years. Gangzi thinks her parents-in-law are pushing their luck and completely regards him as an ATM.
Thinking of this, Gangzi said discontentedly: You come to live, 3000 yuan a month, not a penny less. Fangfang's parents didn't expect them to live in the son-in-law's house, but the son-in-law asked them to pay the rent? Mother-in-law jumped up and cursed Gang, saying that he was in the money's eye, that he was not filial, and that the filial piety before Gang Zi was all in disguise.
The mother-in-law talked more and more, and Gangzi pushed them out of the door in a rage, but her mother-in-law and father-in-law kept at the door. Fangfang advised Gangzi to take her parents in, but Gangzi refused, so they quarreled. This time, Gangzi is determined to break up with her parents-in-law.
Do you say that a son-in-law has the obligation to support his parents-in-law?