However, in such an unbalanced relationship, Shanshan actually has a lingering fear. Finally, she began to study and start a business, and opened a jewelry store with her cousin. She finally became a man worthy of a boyfriend.
She said: "of course I can't be the best person, but I will be the best me;" Although I can't be the best person for you, I will let the best me match you. "
Whether it is love or marriage, even feelings are actually more suitable for long-term contacts.
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Family conflicts have always existed, just depending on how you solve them.
Jia Jia is the only child in the family, but fortunately her parents still have some savings. Later, after she got married, she also found a man to raise with her wife. She lives with her husband, Zhang Yu, in the house bought by her parents.
Zhang Yu's family is poor, so it is helpless to choose a wife. After marriage, Zhang Yu took her parents to live in the city in order to take good care of them. With so many people living in a small apartment, there will always be a little quarrel.
Jiajia was spoiled by her parents at home since she was a child, so she didn't pay much attention when she got along with her mother-in-law.
Once, when her mother-in-law mopped the floor at home, she accidentally broke the cosmetics on Jiajia's desk. At that time, my mother-in-law didn't care too much. She just thought, "This is just a small bottle. How much can it be worth? " I'll pay Jia Jia back when she comes back. "
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A strong marriage cannot last long.
As a result, when Jia Jia came home at night, she found that she was missing a bottle of cosmetics, so she made a hullabaloo about at home. Finally, her mother-in-law told Jia Jia that she accidentally broke it while cleaning in the morning.
As a result, Jia Jia was particularly angry and said, "Who told you to take care of my room!" "
Seeing how Jia Jia treated her mother, Zhang Yu stood up and said to her mother, "This is just a small bottle. As for you yelling at my mother. "
As a result, Jia Jia said, "This is the house I bought. Let your mother go home quickly! " "
Zhang Yu didn't listen and said, "Do your parents still need to provide for the elderly?"
In marriage, if why must it be evenly matched? Because marriage is like Libra, if you can't keep a frank attitude and communicate happily with your lover, then in this relationship, you must be highly regarded by one party and highly regarded by the other.
Such feelings can't last long.
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Miyazaki Hayao said in the anime film "Listen to the Ear": "Love should be mutual support to achieve the goal, not illusory ideas, superficial materials, and a life of drunkenness."
The same is true in marriage. If you are with someone weaker than yourself, then you should stop for a while and wait for the other person. If you are with someone stronger than yourself, then you have no reason to enjoy the benefits that the other person brings you. On the contrary, you should try to make yourself better in life, both mentally and financially.
Good relationships need to be maintained, and long-term marriages need to be evenly matched.