Where does a long-distance relationship settle down?
I can see that you are willing to move in with him, but he is unwilling to come to Shenyang for you. From this point of view, you love him more than he loves you, so consider it carefully ~
If you haven't reached the point of talking about marriage, don't think too much ~ just keep the status quo. If you dilute your feelings because of distance, it only means that he is not your right husband ~