This is the scene in the movie. It is said that fairy tales are all lies, and so are movies. At least I have never experienced such love. What I saw was the realistic version of "love" in those years.
For some people, those years are those youthful years, but for us, the highlight is hadron.
Hadron is my college roommate. He is the kind of person who divides books in his studies (I mean the kind who plays mobile phones in class, cheats in exams and usually plays games). Of course, there is another biggest benefit-the blow to girls. If the university is six years or longer, then his "love" can really be written as a biography.
Hadron is from Shandong, yes, he is short and fat (180 is tall and has a handsome face). In short, he is the type most girls like. During my four years in college with him (don't think too much, they are roommates), I know that there are six girls (let's call them ABCDEF for the time being, in no particular order, there is no other meaning-don't think too much) who have had sex with him (F is just graduated 1 month).
Hadron is the person with the richest emotional life I have ever met. His "love" can be said to be a model of our time. If you put it in a movie, it is restless youth.
A
A is Hadron's high school classmate. I only met her once (I passed her in my junior year, and judging from her dress, she is a pretty good girl, that is, the kind of college student with a pure heart). I know that when A was a freshman (sleeping with a party in the dormitory)-one of our most interested topics was "What is your ideal girl like?" In today's words, it is the so-called "ideal love"-dug out of Hadron's mouth).
When I was in college, A sent several letters (that is, love letters) to Hadron, but Hadron didn't seem to respond (that is, she was not interested).
A is a girl who accompanied Hadron through high school, but A is definitely not a girl who accompanied Hadron through the university campus (to be honest, Hadron doesn't need a girl to accompany him through the university campus, which I summarized from these girls. Of these six girls, only A is a student and the only one who has not been admitted as a girlfriend by Hadron.
It is estimated that A has intermittent connection with Hadron, because A appeared in junior year, which was quite sudden for several roommates, because the last time we heard from Hadron was two years ago.
A is the kind we see in movies, waiting for someone silently. A came to Hadron from far away (like studying at Shandong Agricultural University), either to impress Hadron or to make a final effort (I hope this love is actually a secret love).
B, C
The reason why I put B and C together is because I seldom hear their stories, which are all about love.
B is a girl who dated in the dormitory when Hadron was a sophomore (we knew each other before, but I don't know anything else). At that time, we had no idea about the word "about". Later, on the way back from vacation, Hadron made an appointment with B. At that time, the hotel was very noisy, and people living in the next room were knocking at the door (they said this paragraph was related to pornography, so they stopped writing it).
C is Hadron's other girlfriend. I don't know the origin, except that we talked in our hometown (in fact, I don't even want to use the word "talk" for fear of contaminating other people's love).
Once on C's birthday, Hadron gave her a gift-Durex (yes, you read it right, I typed it right), which was given by a classic bridge in the movie, and the details behind it can't be described. Finally, I broke up with C because Hadron thought C was too material, so let's not talk about anything else.
Why do I admire Hadron now? It's because after he popularized the knowledge of men and women with the actual stories of B and C (you know, at that time, we were all hungry single diaosi men in Men's Show), it can be used for a long time. . .
D
When I was about to graduate, Qiangzi met a local girl (where our school is located) (very tall and particularly beautiful, a girl who has nothing to do in society, and seems to be the front desk of a company, I can't remember), and her parents are driving a taxi at home.
I met D twice, once Hadron asked everyone to have dinner together (at that time, I realized that the red mark on a man's neck was similar to plum blossom, which was really not what I thought-mosquito bite), and once Hadron took her around the campus. Later, the "love crystallization" between them occurred when Hadron visited her home with a bunch of flowers (of course, there was no one else at home at that time).
D means more to Hadron than just a girlfriend. More importantly, he hinted at the fact that my brother is very capable and can hook up with any girl (no matter how beautiful she is), which is also a deep abuse for us.
England and France
I can say that I wrote E and F together because I found it quite long to finish this article. Do you want to finish it quickly? In fact, the real reason is that both E and F are social people, and both are "I am serious this time" repeatedly emphasized by Hadron (indeed, Hadron has considered how to face his parents).
When I was a junior, Hadron "met" many girls online, and one of them was E (from the northeast, I only saw photos, but now I can't remember what she looks like, but she is beautiful anyway-Hadron's girlfriends are all beautiful).
Later, they met. The impression should be a stopover on Hadron's way home (that was the scene where Hadron "met" many girls). It can be seen that their love is vigorous, and finally Hadron broke up under the pressure of family (the reason is unclear).
Hadron may have been a big boy before he met F. Before that, from A to E, compared with F, it can only be regarded as a past event of Hadron.
F is a girl that Hadron "knew" about a month after graduation (I just reported to work in the company for a month, and Hadron called me specially to talk about F, and in words, I have plans to get married). F is the sister of Qingdao, and she is a standard white girl (Hadron also told me on the phone that F has been working outside since 18 years old, and engaged in the livestock feed industry in summer.
At first, I also thought that Hadron's love long-distance running (of course, there was more than one girl running with him halfway, but two girls) could finally have a satisfactory result, and all aspects of F could meet the requirements of Hadron's family. However, nature can only be passers-by in each other's lives. Because F can't have children (I don't know why, Hadron didn't elaborate), Hadron's family attaches great importance to this (Hadron has three sisters, and he is the only child, the youngest).
Only after Hadron learned that F was infertile, the news was a bolt from the blue for Hadron, and all previous thoughts about him and F became fantasies. I didn't expect this relationship to end like this, which Hadron had never met in his "relationship".
Then Hadron called me again. He was very upset on the phone. I can feel that he is really excited this time. On the phone, he talked about the struggle history of F and F, and how F was squeezed out by his mother (referring to F's own mother) and uncle (F grew up in a single-parent family). . . It was the first time in four years that I felt that Hadron was depressed and unforgettable.
Later, Hadron reported to work in the unit and was assigned to the project department of Hubei (China Railway 14th Bureau). Hadron and F can only speak their minds on the phone (most of the time they quarrel, because they can't surpass all kinds of obstacles in this world, which inevitably leads to contradictions).
Hadron once borrowed 1000 from me (their project department failed to pay in time) and flew to Qingdao to visit F (F broke his arm because of a conflict with Hadron). This is the only love story I have ever seen.
Later, on my phone call with Hadron, F was gradually diluted by Hadron (I won't ask any more questions). Two years later, Hadron suddenly said he was getting married. Suddenly (our impression of him is still "I'm serious this time"), and finally Hadron disappeared with those years.
Perhaps many years later, Hadron will think of ABCDEF, those years, those stories of youth. Anyway, it was H who accompanied him to the end. This is "love" and this is our realistic version of youth in those years.