Our reality is that many people take "I am weak, so you should tolerate me everywhere and don't hurt my self-esteem." On the playground. It seems that "weakness" is right, always saying that you are weak, arguing with others and overprotecting your self-esteem.
But is it really useful? The truth is, "for the time being, most people will stay away from you."
My friend works as an assistant in an interior design company, and he is busy every day, but he still can't finish it. It is her daily habit to take time off from work.
At noon that day, she was in charge of following up a client. The other party said they wanted to see the house. In an emergency, she left her unfinished work and went to pick up the client with the designer. After the telephone conversation, the customer asked them to drive to a place.
It's true that customers are God, but it doesn't mean that all customers deserve to be treated like this.
After receiving the customer.
Customer said: I want to go to the surrounding supermarket to buy some milk powder for my children. Everyone in the car quickly stopped to wait for her. An hour later, with their children in their arms, milk powder came out sweating.
A busload of busy people are waiting for an idle person. Anxiety. The customer doesn't feel guilty at all. Say sarcastically: Ah, you are still here, I thought you had left.
After the milk powder was decided, the designer thought it was finally possible to measure the room. However, it's not that fast. The customer asked the company driver to turn left and right, and then got off. Before getting off the bus, he said, well, my home is here. Let's measure it another day! You guys go home.
Come on, you called, and a car full of people followed you for so long, so you were stood up?
The next day, I called the customer yesterday and asked when I could go further.
The customer refused in one breath. What happened? If you drive your car, you must design the house. If there is no house for you to design, you can't take it down.
My friend was very angry, but he held back his temper and said, then your communication on the phone is in place. Why didn't you tell me your situation in advance?
The customer's answer is still incredible. ? She said why I called you, because your company has a good car, and it is safe for you to take me and my children home. If I don't tell you, will you come again? Besides, use your head. It's not easy for me to divorce and raise a big child alone. Can I afford a house?
Always take your weakness and helplessness to heart. Whenever someone is better than you or better than you, you will show your helplessness and let others pity you.
If you have time to be sentimental and weak, you might as well put down all your efforts to make money and make yourself strong.
It's not that you can't be weak, you can be weak, but you shouldn't be weak, and it's annoying. You can do it once or twice, but it's a little deliberate every time.
? After receiving this message, it was already nine o'clock in the evening, and I vaguely saw the WeChat message not far away. I know it's from my mother.
My mother is basically fine. Whenever something happens, she just talks to me. Today's news is that an old man in his hometown, childless and weak, hit Lao Li next door.
What we can't predict is a sudden attack. The reason for being attacked is that we are the right side and the other side is the opposite side.
The old man is 70 years old and has no children. Every day, most moths happen when they steal other people's vegetables, and when they are caught, they argue with others with confidence.
That afternoon, as usual, I led the old man of the whole family to steal onions from next door. I was caught and scolded, but I didn't expect to bring out the old man. The wicked complain first, cry to death, and then call the village head.
Everyone in the village knows that they are unwilling to give up. Later, when the village chief came, he couldn't stand it, so he brought people from his own village to help.
Afterwards, I thought it was all over. At about 7 pm, the sky gradually darkened, and the old man hit each other on the leg with a shovel. Beat and scold, question, you have a son and a daughter, why don't you let me steal some onions? You are a bad person. Maybe Lao Li didn't want to talk to him much, so he gave him a hard look and went home.
? When my mother told me this, I didn't seem to pity the onion thief, but pity his cowardice and confidence. Because this kind of thing happened to him too much. Every time there is crying and beating, there is no doubt that it must be him.
Some people say that he is poor, but he is really not. I think he is hateful. According to the older generation, when he was young, he was too lazy to beg from house to house for a year. When you are old and have no physical strength to work, you cheat food and goods in this way.
Weakness is really not someone else's fault, it is your own fault. Think about why you are weak. All the causes and effects are your own making. Why didn't you work hard when you were young?
We might as well look at some "weak people" around us who are not lazy. Only lazy people who don't work hard, make progress and change in that circle will be called weakness.
What is weakness? The definition of weakness is not measured by money. It depends on your strength in the circle of your own life and the evaluation of others.
For example, you are an ordinary student, so are your friends, but they are the best in the class. They always say you are weak. Why? Because you don't work as hard as them, you are lazy, you are addicted, and you always say that you don't have enough time. In fact, the best way to overcome anxiety is to look at it directly.
You can try to learn from them, and you can learn from their attitude towards learning. Over time, you may not be as strong as them, but if they find that you have made a little progress, will they still call you weak?
In order to get rid of the "disadvantaged" groups, we must always work hard and live up to expectations. Weakness is not a derogatory term, but it depends on how you use it. You should regard it as an enemy and want to defeat it. Of course you can. But if you treat it as a friend, be friendly to it, talk about it all the time, and use it to prevaricate others, then you are finished and can only be a vulnerable group all your life.