But since my buddy asked, I still keep my opinion and won't teach you how to do it. But I can share my experience with my girlfriend and give you some advice. You can analyze it yourself and find your own way.
You said you had told her, but it didn't work, brother. This is normal, because you have to understand the current situation of society. Which girl do you think will accept your confession? No, because girls are more reserved, even if they like you, they won't say anything. So you should first adjust your mentality, which is probably the decisive factor for your love success. If you are confused and tangled, your feelings will be confused, and you will not be able to think normally and associate with her normally. So you should adjust yourself according to your own psychology and stabilize yourself! Peace can seek development! I can tell you responsibly that my current girlfriend turned me down dozens of times when I was chasing her. How's it going? Is it bad enough? And for the same reason as you, there are more reasons to say that she is not allowed to fall in love at home, and the situation is similar to yours. After confession, she only chats on QQ. Seeing you is sadder than you, and she never talks. When we met, she just smiled at me and refused to come out with me. However, I tried and persisted. What now? Yes, my girlfriend and I are very happy. Psychologically speaking, QQ is empty, in fact, meeting is the most affordable! Progress and understanding each other is the fastest, and the temperature is also the fastest, so I suggest you ask her out, don't keep a steady mind and get to know each other slowly, and don't fall in love directly to avoid this sensitive topic, as long as you know each other well and get to know each other slowly. Since you are very enthusiastic to chat with her in QQ, I can guarantee that that girl must be interested in you, only shy and reserved, but you are buddies. These are all based on my own experience, because my previous situation is similar to yours, so you can look at it, extract the useful parts and go your own way.
Let me summarize it for you. If it were me, my method would be like this:
1, you must adjust your mentality, for the reasons mentioned above.
2. What should I do: Of course, I will continue to work hard. If I fail after my efforts, I will feel bad, but I won't regret it, because the biggest sorrow is not failure, but that I didn't do anything, which will become a regret forever! I think I'll try to ask her out, and it doesn't matter if she is rejected. I'll ask her out again later People's hearts are long, and she will certainly be soft-hearted But, brother, it depends on your patience and confidence, and you should be able to accept the reality of failure. Nothing can be 100% successful If she is really not suitable for you, or this time will affect your development, then you decide, because why is there love? what is love ? In life, love supports and progresses with each other.
At present, she doesn't dislike you, and even likes you, because if she doesn't feel anything for you, she will never talk to you again, so you still have great hope.
4. Buddies must control their behavior, and don't be too conflicted or too excited, because you are like a boatman now, she is on the opposite side, and you go to pick her up. If the boat is carrying her staggeringly, then one of you will definitely fall. Is it easy to understand this explanation?
In my experience, the process is hard, but what I think is the sweetness of the future. To tell the truth, you should also have the ability to resist blows, because the road to love may also fail!
That's all I have to say, most of which are my own experiences. Brother, if you find it useful, please extract some good ones and adopt them! Because my brother's emotional situation is similar to mine!
Finally, I wish you a rainbow after the storm!
For the record, I typed this word for word, not copied it. I hope friends and relatives don't copy! I also hope that the landlord will have a look and hope it will be useful to you. )