0 1 lived together for four years, but they ended up breaking up.
Xiao Xiao and Chen Ming began to fall in love when they were in college. After graduating from college, they went to Xiamen to work together and lived together for four years. Two people began to fall in love because of college, so life is still sweet. As an only child, Chen Ming has never suffered anything since he was a child, and his family dotes on him very much. So after graduating from college, I worked as a salesman for a while. I resigned in less than half a year because I worked too hard. Later, I changed one job after another. Finally, I entered a unit under the arrangement of my parents, but Chen Ming disliked the low salary of the institution and transferred to a real estate company.
Chen Ming has been changing jobs in these four years, but his girlfriend Xiao Xiao has a stable job. Mix found an educational institution as a tutor, and her salary was only average, but she was not particularly fond of spending money herself, so she also saved some money. I will definitely come back every day to cook for Chen Ming and take good care of Chen Ming's diet and daily life. After living together for four years, they are like a real couple.
Since they lived together, Chen Ming's mother has often come to help. Chen Ming's mother likes Mix very much, because she can see from Mix's eyes that she must like her son very much and will take good care of him.
Chen Ming's mother saw that they lived well and reached the age of marriage, so she urged them to get married. Mix likes Chen Ming very much, so she hopes to get married early, mainly depending on what Chen Ming thinks.
Chen Ming is not as happy as Mix imagined, perhaps because we have been together for too long, and Chen Ming gradually feels that their love life is as dull as water and has no freshness. Xiao Xiao is always like that, unchanging. In addition, Chen Ming has done a good job in the real estate company recently, and has a lot of entertainment every day, so he wants to concentrate on his work.
But because of their relationship with Mix for many years and the satisfaction of their parents, they got engaged. After the engagement, Mix devoted himself to Chen Ming. However, Chen Ming is not what he used to be. Every time Mix carefully prepares meals, Chen Ming often doesn't eat or eat two bites. Mix's birthday, two people agreed to spend together, but Chen Ming forgot. When Mix called him, Chen Ming was still drinking with some friends. Mix stopped him angrily and asked, "Why don't you come back so late? Have you forgotten anything? " I thought I received an apology from Chen Ming, but who knows that Chen Ming actually said, "We are not married yet. You are too tolerant. If we get married, you can't take care of me every day. "
Hearing this, Mix was very sad. She thinks Chen Ming has changed. When she first began to fall in love, Chen Ming was a very romantic person, and she often surprised Mix. But since living together, his attitude towards himself has gradually become cold, as if the original she no longer exists. Mix was disappointed and broke up with Chen Ming.
Mom's words woke Chen Ming up.
After breaking up with Mix, Jennifer really felt that life was much easier. Go out drinking with so-called friends every day, and the house is in a mess. Later, Chen Ming's mother knew that after the two broke up, she quickly came to Chen Ming to ask why. Unexpectedly, what I heard was my son saying, "We are not suitable, and our feelings have long since faded. And anyway, we have lived together for four years, and it must be Mix who suffers, and I have nothing to lose. "
Mother flew into a rage when she heard her son's words, but she didn't lose her temper. On the contrary, she said to her son, "You broke up after living together for four years. It was definitely not Mix who suffered, but you. You've lived together for so long. Mix is devoted to you and keeps your home in good order. If you missed Mix, you wouldn't have met a girl who treated you so well like Mix. Can you really live well without Mix? Look at where you live now. It's no different from a pigsty. After breaking up, I will never feel excited again. You are young and frivolous only once. People you meet in the future will think more about reality. " Hearing her mother's words, Chen Ming suddenly fell silent, recalled her life in recent years, and took the initiative to call Mix to make up. After Chen Ming's sincere apology, Mix forgave him.
After living together, it is the boys who suffer.
Why do many couples break up easily after living together? The reason is that we are too familiar with it, and this feeling has lost its freshness. Men no longer care so much about the feelings of two people, and even think that even if I break up, I will not suffer as a boy. But after the real breakup, it is really the boys who suffer. Men are used to girls taking care of their own lives. Maybe they feel nothing at first, but after a long time, they will feel lonely. When a man regrets and wants to find a girl, the person you love may not be waiting for you in the same place. Some people miss their whole lives, and you will never meet such a good girl again. At this time, it is the boys who suffer.