Her name is Lily. Although her legs are disabled, she has helped countless people who have lost their way to stand up.
She is an unfortunate woman. /kloc-at the age of 0/,she suffered from polio, her legs were disabled and she was confined to a wheelchair. Seven years later, she finally stumbled to her feet on crutches. Thirty-two years later, she was in a car accident and had to return to her wheelchair.
She is also an indomitable woman. She has "repeatedly lost and fought", walked out of the bitter sea of fate, propped up her blue sky with crutches, and still firmly grasped the direction of life in a wheelchair.
Physically, she can never stand up, but she is a spiritual giant, rising in suffering, reborn in setbacks, challenging the fragility of life and grasping the throat of fate.
Lili, a smiling woman, wrote a capital standing "person" with her disabled legs. Comrade Mao Zhiyong once affectionately called Li Li "Zhang Haidi of Hunan" and "Helen Keller of China". But she attributed her hard-won achievements to the love and tolerance of her relatives and society.
Our reporter He Yin He Ping reports from Hengyang.
"Five ups and downs" create a sky.
Almost born disabled, endless surgery, sudden layoff, business failure, diseases caused by physical and mental fatigue, car accidents that passed by death ... God seems to test Lili with too much suffering, and Lili chooses to face the wind and rain. In the "five ups and downs" life, she finally started her own career in a wheelchair. "As long as you are alive, anything is possible." She believes.
8 years old: the first step to touch life
Unfortunately, from 1 year old, that year, polio caused Li Li's legs to be severely disabled and her muscles to be weak below the waist. Her legs are like cooked noodles, so she can't sit, let alone stand.
The family had to design a round chair for Lili. A round hole is opened on the armrests on both sides of the surrounding chairs, and a small log passes between the two holes to stop the little Lili on the surrounding chairs and prevent her from falling. Li Li spent her whole childhood in this armchair.
When Lili was 7 years old, her parents made a decision in tears and sighs: take her daughter to Changchun for treatment. Lily, who always thought that she climbed like a "dog", secretly vowed with tears: Send me away, and I can stand up like a "human" and do a lot of housework for you after curing my leg! After more than a year of treatment and multiple knives, with the support of several steel plates, 8-year-old Lili stood up for the first time and took the first step in her life.
20 years old: successful job search with crutches.
With the help of friends, Lili graduated from high school. Li Li was unable to take the college entrance examination because of her physical disability. She adjusted her mind and took the initiative to undertake all the housework at home. At the same time, she began to practice writing poems, essays and essays, and also learned sewing, embroidery, knitting and other needlework.
People can't live like this all their lives! Without telling her parents, Li Li went to apply for a job on crutches and begged the person in charge: "Give me a job! My legs are disabled, but I have a smart brain, a kind heart and dexterous hands. I will repay you with my best work performance. " In, Lili finally worked as a draftsman in the technical department of a car modification factory.
In the unit, Lili won everyone's recognition and respect by virtue of her strength, cleverness and diligence. She has served as a propaganda member of the Youth League branch and a trade union propaganda member. When meeting Li Li, Zhiyong Mao, then secretary of Hunan Provincial Party Committee, praised her as "Zhang Haidi of Hunan".
29-year-old: Laid-off jiaozi lives as a tobacco stall.
At the beginning of the year, the economic benefits of the unit went down, and Li Li was laid off. In desperation, she bought an old mechanical typewriter and started a printing business at home. Staying in front of the typewriter every day, she frames herself as someone else's scenery. But not long after, with the rapid popularization of computers, her old-fashioned typing lost her business, and she had to rely on jiaozi and a tobacco stall to make a living every day. When she was embarrassed, she didn't even have money for soy sauce.
By chance, Li Li saw a mail-order sweater knitting machine, so she spent more than one time coming from the bookstore to learn about books. Because of her ingenuity and novel sweater design, her business is very popular. But it didn't last long. Due to the low output and low profit of handmade sweaters, the business has plummeted under the impact of finished sweaters in Jiangsu and Zhejiang. At this time, she suffered from gastritis, scapulohumeral periarthritis, spinal curvature and other diseases due to the influence of the steel plate left in the body by surgery and fatigue all day. She often suffered from unbearable pain and could not sleep at night. Finally, she had to give up knitting.
38-year-old: the gas station closed down and seven years of hard work went down the drain.
Unwilling to fail, after discussing with her husband, Li Li set up a petrochemical fuel business department with a loan in 2006, and then borrowed 400 thousand yuan in 2006 to upgrade and transform a small gas station that was about to close down in Hengyang suburb, and the business was booming.
It is difficult to start a business. In the summer of 2008, Li Li suffered from insomnia when she was ill. She is worried that drugs will affect her intelligence. She thought of beer. She had never drunk 50 cases that summer.
In, the couple invested 1 10,000 yuan to expand the scale, built a large gas station integrating gas filling, accommodation, catering, shopping malls and parking at the original site, and expanded the enrollment of more than 10 disabled children and laid-off workers.
Just when the business was booming, in the second half of 2008, the state began to carry out macro-control in the fuel field. There is no price difference between the sale and purchase of gas stations, and the benefits are falling all the way. In 2008, the couple's seven years of hard work went down the drain. This failure made Li Li think of ending her life. She came to the Yellow River to throw herself into the muddy waves, but finally she turned around strongly.
39 years old: career in full swing, car accident.
Rise again in adversity. In September 2006, Lili cooperated with a garden in Shenzhen to set up Hengyang Goubuli Green Garden Horticulture Co., Ltd., which had no money, borrowed from relatives and friends, and hired designers from the United States. With honesty and enthusiasm, Li Li gradually became a famous local female entrepreneur.
At the peak of her career, fate played tricks on her again. In May, 2008, Li Li returned to Hengyang from Chenzhou on business, and unfortunately suffered a car accident on the way. A roaring truck crashed head-on, and her body was torn in many places, and she continued to bleed, leaving only two kilograms of blood on her body. Although she survived, the car accident deprived Li Li of the right to walk a few steps with crutches. After the injury, Lili in a wheelchair rushed to the construction site.
42 years old: give up gardening and engage in family education.
In April 2006, Lili went to Hengyang Yannan Prison in a wheelchair to discuss business. Her spirit of self-improvement deeply touched the prison leaders and invited her to give lectures to prisoners. When Li Li finished her life story, all the prisoners were shocked, and then they wrote to Li Li. Knowing that 70% of prisoners who write letters are minors, and most of them go astray because of improper family education, Li Li decided to explore a scientific way to help parents educate their children correctly. In 2000, Li Li set foot on the road of studying in Normal University at her own expense of more than 80,000 yuan.
Studying often, Lili has no time to manage the garden, and some projects are losing money. Lili decided to give up painstaking efforts, become famous in the local area and devote herself to family education. After studying at Beijing Normal University, she founded "Lili Family Education Studio" to help those lost teenagers and their parents and care for those immature hearts in the form of free and appropriate fees. Although she still has six steel plates on her body and is scarred all over, she often has to work until night every day 10, but on the way of spreading love, Lili feels that she has found the direction of life again. Her biggest dream now is to make every family full of love and harmonious notes forever.
Cry, find the strength to grow in tears.
Struggle against the bumpy fate, strive for the value of life, seek in the wind and rain, stumble in the mud, who can see Lili's fragility? But Li Li knows: "I am a woman, and I am sometimes very fragile, although I seldom cry for myself." In the deep memory, Li Li will always remember her two cries. What ordinary people get from crying is only a longer period of depression, but Li Li has found the strength to grow up in life.
Crying that you can't wear high heels
/kloc-when she was 0/4 years old, Li Li went to junior high school and watched all the female students around her dance in beautiful high heels, but even wearing cloth shoes was extravagant. She was very depressed. Careful mother saw it and asked her, "Lili, is it sad that you can't wear high heels?" Li Li's accumulated grievances broke out, and her face was full of tears.
"Can you wear high heels when you cry?" Mother's calm words left Li Li speechless. "Never mind, I'll teach you how to make shoes." Mom went on to say. Next, Lily learns to make shoes from her mother. Soon, she put on beautiful leather shoes "modified" from men's leather shoes sewn by herself, and she also looked proud in front of her classmates.
"Now that I think about it, my mother said that sentence is very good. That sentence tells me: since you can't escape from reality, you must face it bravely. It's no use crying! " Li Li said.
Cry about the hardships of starting a business
In the first month after the gas station collapsed, Lili was in great pain. She locked herself at home, cried when she was drunk, slept when she was tired of crying, woke up and drank again, and finally wanted to end her troubled life.
In order to die in a beautiful way, Li traveled all the way to the Yellow River before dawn. Just as she was about to throw herself into the turbid waves, a red sun broke out in the east, radiant, and Li Li suddenly felt the power of life and decided to make a comeback in the future.
Li Li said with emotion: "At that time, the river was in the sky and the waves were beating on the shore. Looking at the red sun, I feel a throb of life, and my career has failed. But as long as people are here, what can I not do again! "
[Dialogue]
"My strength is my disability"
Xiaoxiang morning herald: What made you stumble all the way but be strong?
Lili: It's love and tolerance. They are my greatest strength to move forward. They brought me to this day.
Xiaoxiang morning herald: Please be more specific.
Lili: Along the way, I got the care and help from my relatives and many people in the society, which filled my heart with the power of love all the time. For example, during my illness, my parents took good care of me; During my school days, nearby students formed a "special escort team" to send me to school and home; I started the petrochemical fuel business in 2000 and was introduced by a friend. I still want to thank God. Although it cripples me and makes me suffer constantly, it still keeps me alive, and always gives me a chance to live when punishing me.
Because of my disability, I have borne a lot of relatives since I was a child and a lot of society when I grew up, but I have never heard any complaints and made many mistakes along the way, especially in the days of starting a business. I have always been very tolerant. In 2008, I was busy with gas station affairs and didn't take care of my sick mother. Finally, my mother's death left me with a great sense of guilt, and my family didn't blame me. I think, with so much love and tolerance, I have no reason to be bad!
Xiaoxiang morning herald: Love and tolerance are your greatest strengths. What are the other advantages?
Lili: I think we should also have our own strength, including pushing ourselves. I often like lying in bed, talking to my heart, thinking about summing up my ups and downs, and encouraging myself to face it bravely.
Although I was almost born with a disability, I always thought that I came to this world with some kind of mission, just like everyone else. I want to work hard for my people, but some people can't stand the test. I have withstood it and played my disability advantage.
Xiaoxiang morning herald: Disability is an advantage? Please specify.
Lili: My strength is my weakness, that is, my disability. Everyone needs to play his own role when he comes to the world, and the role of the disabled is designated by God for me. Although, to some extent, a disabled person may have to work hard all his life to pursue something, and his success is related to life and death, on the other hand, his disability also makes him have no way out in the last fight, and he has to fight for his life. And because of my disability, I have not only been taken care of by my relatives, but also received the help and support from too many good people in the society.
[Quoted from Li Li]
Treat setbacks as bankbooks; Take suffering as enjoyment; Regard failure as wealth; Think of disability as a resource.
What you can't afford to lose in life is money, and what you can't afford to lose is mentality.
If you never give up, you will succeed.
A person's physical disability is not terrible, but his psychological disability is terrible.
Since you can't escape from reality, you must face it bravely.
liu zongyuan
A writer and philosopher in the Tang Dynasty, one of the eight masters in the Tang and Song Dynasties. Word thickness. His ancestral home was Hedong (now Yongji, Shaanxi Province), and later he moved to Chang 'an (now xi 'an, Shaanxi Province), which was called Liuhe East in history. Because of the official to Liuzhou secretariat, also known as Liu Liuzhou. He advocated the ancient prose movement in Tang Dynasty with Han Yu and called it Liu Han.
Liu Zongyuan was born in an official family, with little talent and high aspirations. But he was a scholar in his early years, and his writing was mainly rhetoric. Zhenyuan nine years (1890), a scholar, was admitted to Bohongxue Ci Department in 14 years, and won the orthography of Jixian Hall. He used to be the deputy general of Lantian, then became an official in the DPRK, actively participated in the innovation of Wang Group, and was transferred to Li's foreign minister. In September of Yongzhenyuan, the innovation failed, and Shaozhou was demoted as a secretariat. In November, Sima of Yongzhou (now Lingling, Hunan) was demoted. In the tenth year of Yuanhe (19 1 1 year), he returned to the capital in the spring and served as the secretariat of Liuzhou (now Guangxi) with outstanding achievements. 14 years 1 1 month. During his demotion, southerners demanded him to study and work.
Liu Zongyuan attaches great importance to the content of the article, and advocates that the text should be used and the Tao should benefit the country and the people, which is practical. He attaches importance to the social function of literature and emphasizes that literature should be beneficial to the world. He advocates the perfect combination of ideological content and artistic form, points out that writing must be serious and emphasizes the importance of writers' moral cultivation. He admired the articles of the pre-Qin and Han Dynasties, and proposed to learn from Confucian classics, Zhuangzi, Laozi, Li Sao and Historical Records. And learn from it, thinking that it can be used by me, but don't give up eating because of choking. In poetic theory, he inherited the tradition of Liu Xie advocating Bi Xing and Chen Ziang advocating Ji Xing. It is consistent with Bai Juyi's proposition about satirical poems in the Yuan zaju Jiushu. His theory of poetry and prose represents the progressive tendency of the literary movement at that time.
Liu Zongyuan left many poems in his life, and his achievements were greater than poems. There are nearly a hundred parallel essays, which have not broken away from the habits of parallel prose in the Tang Dynasty, but there are also masterpieces like Yunsuiyang Temple Monument in Antarctica. Ancient prose can be roughly divided into five categories.