In China society, child labor is not allowed, so many times children can't really achieve economic independence. Therefore, in some consumption, whether to listen to children's inner thoughts or parents' consumption views has caused great controversy.
In fact, as the saying goes, eating people has a short mouth and is soft on people. We rely on our parents' hard-earned money, so we should listen to their views on consumption!
Communication is often the best way to solve the different consumption views. You know, communication is really one of the most gentle and effective means to solve problems.
When you have different consumption views and you really want something, you can try to communicate with your parents and tell them why you want it. At this time, parents often tell you why you don't agree. Under the gentle communication with each other, they often finally adopt a negotiation result that is satisfactory to both sides.
In addition, when you really want an item, but it doesn't conform to your parents' consumption concept, you can often take the practice of working for your parents. For example, how much money can you earn by helping your parents do housework, and how much money can you earn by making progress in exams, so you can save money slowly to get what you want! This is achieved through our own efforts, and we can naturally listen to our own consumption concept.
Therefore, for children who are financially dependent, they should still listen to their parents' suggestions!