It was my junior high school political teacher who said this. At that time, she was about fifty years old, with gray hair, wavy hair and black-rimmed glasses. A chubby face always wears a gentle smile.
I like her very much.
When I was at school, many parents paid little attention to their children's education. Many of my classmates have three or four brothers and sisters at home, but their parents don't necessarily have dual jobs and their lives are not rich. So it is very important to work early to make money and help the family.
So many students are impetuous, and their hearts are not in reading. I am about to graduate, and I don't know where to go between my distant dream and making money right away.
Until one day, the earnest words of the political teacher strengthened my determination and made me stop hesitating.
She said: classmate, you will graduate from junior high school soon, but I hope you can read more and study more. Students who have the ability try to apply for high school. The completion of nine-year compulsory education does not mean the end of learning, but the beginning. Junior high school education is just simple literacy. You can read and communicate ... but your is blind. After graduating from high school, it is the best time for you to start building your dreams. ...
The teacher's words were so enlightening that I found the way forward in confusion, so I will never forget the teacher's kindness.
Girls must be self-loving, self-respecting, self-reliant and self-reliant. Be sure to love yourself, no matter how high or low, with high dignity …
This is what my father said to me, engraved in my heart.
Because of this sentence, I work hard and seriously. I'd rather not sleep when I'm on the night shift, and I'll clean up the messy medicine cabinets that others turn a blind eye to, and put them in the order of first-in and first-out according to the factory date of medicines. I am also a pacesetter in post competition and an expert in skill competition. I have worked in the hospital pharmacy for ten years, and there are no mistakes in dispensing drugs. Before the computer was connected to the Internet, I could blurt out the price of each medicine in the drugstore. ...
This is not how smart I am, but that I am serious and I am stronger. I remember that sentence. It is also implemented in my life journey. Over the years, I have been living with my heart, because I can't learn to cope with life.
I try to make my home look like a dream. There are children's laughter, fireworks and my favorite books ... my best friend is here, and good wine. The child has a holiday and smells like a mother; The lover is back, and a corner belongs to him.
Although trivial, there is love.
If you want to do it, please don't do it with emotion. If you can't control your emotions, please don't do it.
This is what my husband told me.
It was the first time since we got married that we disagreed.
Because Mr. Wang put the slippers in the bathroom in the bedroom, and I was angry when I looked at the water stains extending all the way and had to wipe the floor again. Mr. Wang said quickly, I forgot to change it just now. After all, the room is not big, but I have a pair of slippers in the room, a pair in the kitchen and a pair in the bathroom, which makes me confused. I'll clean them up later. But I was stubborn and quarreled with him. Now think about it: was I free then? !
At last, the good-natured gentleman said the above words, and I suddenly felt very complicated: when did I become my least favorite appearance?
In fact, just try to do it seriously, and don't ask for 100. Sometimes what you can achieve will never be what you expect. We just need to enjoy a little luck in the process.
In daily life, quarreling because of the cleanliness of housework and being unhappy because family members can't meet the so-called requirements are really not worth it. My happiness should come from the mood of doing housework, not from whether one of his actions conforms to my norms.
I should do housework because I want to. In order to get the pleasure after finishing, I am not a big sister who takes housekeeping as a profession. I do housework for a better life, not a competition. Why should I sacrifice the sweetness between my partners? !
Since then, we have never quarreled about housework again. It can be said that I enjoy the sense of accomplishment in doing housework.
There are many noteworthy things in life. We should learn to accept our imperfect selves and learn to tolerate others.
There are many beautiful things in life, so we don't have to stick to cleanliness, just like I am writing on the sofa now, and the dishes at lunch are still thrown in the sink. The key is that I don't have to force myself, have no anxiety and be happy physically and mentally. When I'm finished, I'll go to wash and relax.
Of course, I can also arrange for my child to do it, but I allow her not to meet my standards.
Don't be too stubborn. I know I still have many shortcomings. I will gradually improve and improve. Growth takes time, and maturity requires understanding. This will not happen overnight.
So don't care too much about winning or losing, and don't compare with others ... Let yourself learn to be happy, and you will have the ability to be happy. This is the harvest.
Thank everyone in my life. These words you have brought me are worthy of my lifelong gratitude and memory.