The accountant said that once parents gave their children their houses, or lent them cash as collateral, and they were finally abandoned by their children, penniless and had to go to court with their children. The previous generation always thought of children, and children could only hate being born in the wrong place. There is no such rich father and rich mother. This may be a complaint of many people. Sister Zhao has neither a rich father nor a rich mother. She is now working hard with her husband to buy a house for herself. But I really have very lucky friends. My parents' new houses are all ready, and they can own a 1 set of gold houses with a value of more than/0 million in Taipei with no effort.
Indeed, China people have always had the idea that children should inherit their father's career. Family businesses and assets are handed down from generation to generation. If they are not left to their children, who should the money be left to? It is difficult to get married and raise the next generation, but even after retirement, they still help their children take care of their grandchildren. Some of them may be raised by different generations because of single-parent families, and they can only see more and more grandmothers waiting for their children at the school gate.
I always feel that the old people in Taiwan Province Province are very unhappy, and they can't feel at ease when they are old. Their children have no money to buy a house and come to their parents for help. When the baby is born, no one takes care of it, and the nanny fee is too expensive, and parents also need help. The old man was exhausted by illness. Finally, no one thanked him, and no one even visited him. When Obasan gets together, they either scold the old people at home or scold their sons and daughters-in-law, complaining that their children and daughters-in-law are unfilial and have a hard time.
In the same situation, when Zhao Jie moved to Europe and America, she met a young foreign friend, a European, with a good family. Her parents are three teachers, who have a house and a car, but they let him earn college tuition, so she took her luggage and went abroad to work to earn money to learn Chinese, but her parents ignored him at all. After graduating from college, I went to work in America. Before I was 30, I decided to get married. Now I live in new york with my wife and rent a house. I asked him, what do your parents do? Will my parents' house be left to you in the future? The young man replied that my parents went to travel around the world after retirement, and they felt that their children should be independent as soon as possible. Because I went to work and study in China and Taiwan Province Province, I lived for several years, studied Chinese hard, gained more language advantages, and found a job smoothly.
Parents also let him decide whether to get married or have children. As for the parents' house, the money earned is theirs. They have been supporting themselves since 10 years old. If you have thought about buying a house, you also want to rely on your own ability, and you have never thought about relying on your parents. Sister Zhao didn't know this young friend's parents, so she kicked her children out of the house early and started her own business. She doesn't have to worry about that woman, let alone take her grandson. The two old people have some money on them and often arrange trips abroad. I really want to ask them if they are willing to do so.
I don't know if these stories are about you. Or your parents' in-laws? Also, many old people are strong, as happy as grandchildren and as happy as grandchildren. But in the future, when our children grow up, we will use foreigners' money concept to tell them that the house we buy and the money we earn will be left for us to use after retirement, and our children and grandchildren will have their own blessings instead of giving them the whole bowl. The old people will be happier wherever they are.