My wife doesn't work and has no income. My monthly salary is 50,000, but I lost a lot after my divorce. Why?

After graduating from Xiao Lei University, relying on his own technical ability, his career gradually improved. At first, he and his wife met because of their working relationship, and his wife Xiao Yang's confidence deeply attracted Xiao Lei.

After two years of dating, Xiao Lei proposed to Xiao Yang. After the marriage, Xiao Lei felt relieved. With the support of his wife at home, he can concentrate on his career.

Xiao Lei is a little introverted. He has a bad relationship with his parents. Every conversation goes away. But since Xiao Yang got married, this situation has greatly improved. She can not only help her husband take care of the family, but also help him deal with all kinds of interpersonal relationships in the family.

Xiao Lei's career is developing well, mainly because he doesn't have to worry about things at home.

My mother-in-law has high blood pressure, so she lives directly in the hospital to take care of her mother-in-law. The problems to be dealt with before and after are all done by his wife Xiao Yang.

She not only takes care of the children, but also watches her mother-in-law take medicine on time and cook delicious meals for them. She is really a filial daughter-in-law.

Xiao Lei encountered some problems in the previous stage of work. Although Xiao Yang can't work, she has always helped her husband to establish a good relationship and invited her husband's clients to dinner at home from time to time.

It is safe to say that without Xiao Yang's help, Xiao Lei's career would not be so smooth.

However, in Xiao Lei's mind, what his wife did was not so important. He always thinks that all the harvest is done by himself.

Xiao Yang also began to feel that her husband didn't respect herself, and she could bear it. But I didn't expect her husband to violate his bottom line.

On one occasion, Xiao Lei went home early, but after a while he answered the phone. He lied to Xiao Yang that the company had something to go out. Xiao Yang stayed up almost all night. She waited on the balcony and thought, when will my husband come back?

As a result, she saw her husband and a woman downstairs.

When this happens, she doesn't show weakness, but calmly talks to Xiao Lei: "Husband, if you think I'm not doing well enough, you can scold me, but I hope you can be loyal to your marriage.

But if you can't do it, I forgive you once. If you don't want to change, then we will divorce. "

Xiao Lei feels that he is earning 50,000 yuan a month now, and he still lets his wife live in such a nice house without working, and he still dares to put on airs with himself. So Xiao Lei said angrily, "You don't have a job. Why control me? " I want to get a divorce tomorrow. "

Xiao Yang didn't panic about her husband's attitude, but asked him to get his property back as much as possible. Only in this way can she ensure that her life after divorce will not be worse than before, and only in this way can she give her children a guarantee.

After the divorce, Xiao Yang soon started a new life. After Xiao Lei left Xiao Yang, his relationship with his parents became very bad. There is no one to take care of at home, which is a mess. He has encountered many difficulties in his career, and customers who have been cooperating with him often can't stand his strong personality and are no longer willing to cooperate with him.

Only then did Xiao Lei realize that his wife's position in the whole family was not measured by how much money she could earn a month.

Now he wants to save this marriage and hopes that his ex-wife can give him another chance. If he could go back in time, he would try his best to compensate his wife. But he didn't expect that no matter what he said, Xiao Yang couldn't forgive him because his harm to his wife had penetrated into the bone marrow.

After the divorce, Xiao Lei finally realized that he was wrong. He wants to remind more men not to think that after his wife resigns, she is a worthless and incompetent woman.

After marriage, she will help your family and deal with complicated interpersonal relationships. This is because the family is warm enough for you to work hard outside.

So, when your career and life are getting better and better, don't be too self-righteous. Be sure to thank your wife and give her more love, so that you won't regret it like Xiao Lei.

A grateful person, no matter how much he has achieved, will not only flatter himself, nor will they disrespect his wife. On the contrary, he is willing to put down his body and let his wife live a happier life.