1, less cynicism, less casual judgment, you have no idea what others have experienced, and you don't even know yourself.
2. Later, you find that the food you used to hate is no longer so bad. The failed relationship is now the capital that Kan Kan talks about. Once you thought you had met the most sad hurdle in life, and later you found that the next one was more sad than the next one. As long as you get through 12 midnight, your daytime experience becomes an experience. Therefore, sometimes you have to have the courage to do one thing and love someone, whether it is good or bad, tomorrow will come.
Only those who don't avoid pain and confusion are qualified to talk about optimism and firmness. Fate will not be kind to anyone, nor will it prepare for you alone.
4. Let nature take its course and don't be willful. The difference between the two is that the rate is really guided by a healthy nature, which conforms to the id and does not care about utilitarianism, customs and public opinion. Self-willed is dominated by wrong emotions, stubborn, unable to listen to the voice of conscience and good advice. On certain occasions, the two are easily confused. The general rule is that in the eyes of others, waywardness is often wayward, and in their own eyes, waywardness is often wayward. week
Perhaps, every woman who looks very independent has moments and people she really wants to rely on, and love is the sweetest dependence. However, life experience has made her know that she should be able to rely on and be independent. Only in this way can she go further, see more and live more wonderfully. Amy Cheung
6. If a person never changes, the same thing will happen to him. Only when he starts to change will there be so-called luck. Only when you can accept yourself well can you meet another person who can accept you well. Only when you become the person you want, will you meet another person like you.
7. Don't write words in high spirits, and don't answer books in anger. Break your word when you are happy, and lose your body when you are angry. Master hongyi
8. In the past, it was simple. Something happened. I can't stand it. If I have a good time, I'll share it right away. If I'm sad, I'll talk about it, too. But the response is often hehe, or indifference, so I slowly learned to be silent.
9. Temperament people are often killed by talented people, not just because the former is kept in the dark. More importantly, people in temperament think that emotions are power, and as long as they are true enough first, they can infect the world; But talented people think that emotions are evil influences, and all emotions should serve the purpose. It doesn't matter whether you are real or not, as long as you can show it and make the world feel that you are real. Tim Le
10, some things, don't say, don't ask, don't mean you don't care.
1 1. Women should have their own sky, not be transformed by other people's joys and sorrows, and not despair because of the failure of love. Stick to it, be serious, live the life you like, and there will always be people who like you.
12. Think about your own mistakes and you will forget others' mistakes.
13, the saddest thing is not that there is no ideal, but that there is nothing but ideal, especially no perseverance and ability.
14, remember, adversity is not the end, but the tip of a better outcome.
15, you have a bad temper and are prone to despair when things happen. You are the king of your own world. You can't learn anything well except bullying and self-study. You are sentimental and passionate in your bones. To put it bluntly, you are impulsive. These shortcomings, big and small, make you hate by some people, but you haven't changed and don't care, because you know that it is because of this true self that you can be left around now.
16, the old man and the book are basically right, and you won't remember until your head is broken.
17, I am willing to be an eternal listener, to comfort your pain and protect you from beginning to end.
18, the more generous people there are, the more generous you will be. The total falls behind others. Why? After a long time, I will become narrow-minded People, changing in the environment, are also their own environment.
19, sometimes, your so-called tolerance may be that he digs bamboo shoots in the rain and you enjoy bamboo in the rain. At this time, he doesn't open an umbrella for you, and you don't mind anymore.
20. Nobody likes loneliness, but they are tired of disappointment.
Classic Quotations: The so-called maturity is just more tolerant of pain.
Classic Quotations: The so-called maturity is just more tolerant of pain.
1, the so-called gains and losses in life often have no practical significance, but irretrievable or bad, or sad or hateful feelings are brought into it, which can also make people lose their feelings and views on the whole life. This kind of gain and loss caused by mood is more fatal than material gain and loss. Seibu's "Harvard EQ Course"
After all the comparisons, weighing and decisions, people will feel exhausted. It is scientifically called choice fatigue. Choosing fatigue is harmful. Willpower is like a battery, which needs to be recharged after a period of time. How to charge? People need to rest, relax and eat. The art of sober action
3, love is just a high fever, and missing is followed by an incurable cough. Jonathan Lee gave himself a song.
4. Don't pretend to be a yogi when things are smooth sailing; Don't become an ordinary person when you encounter setbacks. Sodagi Kampo
5. Being rich and brilliant is Conan's dream. Gains, losses, honors and disgraces are nothing more than hiding flowers.
6. Only when traveling can a person hear his own voice, which will tell you that the world is wider than expected. Miyazaki Hayao's The Witch's Housemaid
7. I really want to trust someone. But everyone is busy in this world, and everyone is so embarrassed. I can't bear to ask for other people's care. If we don't want to be disappointed in people or things, the only way is not to give them any hope. This is not despair, it is the only way to survive, and it is also a prerequisite for happiness. Seven years Viola
8, away from, not give up on you, just can't stand you treat me in a way I don't want to, not appropriate. I don't want to stay in a relationship that is not beautiful at all and doesn't conform to my nature at all. Qiu Memoirs of Montmartre
9. How good people are, how bad people are.
10, happiness is a struggle, and people who don't want to struggle can't be happy. Paper scraps in the wind.
1 1. Some people think too much and do very little, while those who do things wholeheartedly often have simple ideas.
12, the weak, always like to explain the results with reasons. Katsumi
13, the world is always right. What is wrong is the fragility of the soul. We can't avoid the harm in the world, so we will suffer from the disease of the soul for a long time. Qiu Memoirs of Montmartre
14. A confident person feels full and rich with what he has. He may see what others have but he doesn't have, and he will feel envious and admired, and then he will be delighted and admired, but looking back, he is still calm himself. Jiang Xun
15, loyalty is because the chips of betrayal are not big enough, and decency is because there are not enough temptations. Divorce lawyer
16, don't take other people's maps, find your own way. Li Xinpin
17, the real possession is the flowers that bloom in the bottom of my heart forever, not the dead branches that hold hands and refuse to let go. Suhei
18, the so-called maturity, but more tolerant of pain.
19, sometimes, regret itself is an irreparable price. Wei Zhao's Bright Moon in Qin Dynasty
20, the so-called maturity, but is more tolerant of pain.
2 1. The best way to confirm whether some people can be trusted is to trust them. Hemingway
Classic Quotations: Indecision is just stubbornness.
Classic Quotations: Indecision is just stubbornness.
1, no ideal, indecision, is a sad psychology. bacon
Time seems to be long and indecisive, but once it turns its back on you, it is as easy as a stranger turning around, so fast that people will never be able to return to God.
3. Obsession is the beginning of tragedy. Seven students of Yano, the story of the Romans VI
Only by being sincere to others can others be sincere to themselves. Lu Yao's Ordinary World
5, Buddha has people, not the whole people, holding scrolls, listening to Sanskrit, eating marrow and knowing taste, and being empty. Everyone, in the rolling dust waves, is a long-distance ship. The Buddha said that turning back is the shore, but where are you going to dock? The Buddha will definitely say that there is no owner in the world, and the lotus platform is the home of all beings. Is it wrong to tie a boat to Liu 'an on earth? Is it greed and desire to enjoy the autumn moon and spring breeze everywhere? Since each has its own karma, you can meditate on a futon, a lantern, a wooden fish, and several volumes of scriptures, concentrate on practicing and live indifferently. I can also covet fireworks, rich people, a few tile houses, small courtyards in all directions, and watch the fleeting time and be happy and healthy. All the encounters of Bai Lome in the world are reunions after a long separation.
6. Why do you want to live? What I can answer is, live to live. Don't ask, live, and life will give you a fair answer in the future. Sanmao dear Sanmao
7. There is only one thing that makes people tired: vacillation and indecision. Stefan Zweig, when the stars of mankind shine.
8. Indecision will be your last choice at any time. Supersonic "Lolo Adventures"
9. Feelings are timid because of affection. The more you care about it, the more important it is, and the more you will be fascinated by puzzles and do many wrong things. No matter how powerful and bloody the wrist is, it involves a love word, and all steelmaking becomes soft. Indecision leads to loss. Online Games with Light and Dust with Less Money
10, refused to marry Feng Chun, but was misunderstood by the autumn wind for no reason. He Zhu's Walking on the Beach
1 1. Ignoring those stereotypes will only make indecisive people delay building their future lives. Dumas, The Count of Monte Cristo
12. He sincerely mistook his sensibility for romantic love, his indecision for the temperament of an artist, and his laziness for the detachment of a philosopher. His mind is mediocre, but he pursues nobility and refinement diligently, so when he looks out from his eyes, everything is covered with a layer of sentimental golden mist gauze, and the outline is vague, and the result is greater than the actual image. He is lying, but he will never know that he is lying; When others exposed him, he said that the lie was beautiful. He is an idealist. Mao Mu's The Chains of Life
13, a gadfly with willpower can conquer an indecisive cow. Nikos Kazandzakis
14, probably British pottery, the harder it grows, while China pottery, the softer it grows, has been highly respected. Lin Yutang's Prose
15, filtering and considering other people's feelings is a kind of disapproval of yourself. When you think about what others think of everything you do, you are actually giving up on yourself. A person who lives in the eyes of others forever is equal to never having existed. Su Cen
16, indecision makes many people face misfortune, which will make people disappointed in some things and punish themselves. napoleon hill
17, girl, you must do what you promised yourself. When it's time to be cruel to yourself, be cruel. Don't be indecisive and impartial. What a mother gives her daughter.
18, the spring breeze is warm, which often makes evil grass grow; Indecision often allows thieves to run amok. Shakespeare's The Second Part of Henry VI
19, love a person, stubborn; Once you have a dream, it will never come true. Then I admire "I don't understand"
20. The so-called indecision is just stubbornness. Underground culvert
Good morning: Whether it is good or not is one thing, and whether you like it or not is another.
Good morning: being good is one thing, and whether you like it or not is another.
1, every day that you never dance is a disappointment in life.
Everyone will have extremely difficult times, such as the embarrassment of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of study, and the constant fear of love. If you survive, your life will be suddenly enlightened; You won't succeed. Time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don't have to be afraid.
3. Being sophisticated but not sophisticated is the most mature kindness.
The reason why you are unhappy is that you can't stand loneliness and don't like making friends.
5, good-looking, it is said that beauty and ugliness don't matter, the family has money, it is said that money and money don't matter, the figure is very good, it is said that fat and thin don't matter, and the study is not bad. It is said that the countdown to grade doesn't matter. What others don't care about is what they already have, and you seriously believe that what others say is false. When you need to bury your head in farming, you mistakenly enter someone else's orchard, thinking that you have harvested the whole autumn. This is the biggest death.
6. What is shallow predestination, narrow social circle, introverted and talkative, and obsessed with first love? These are just excuses for not finding a partner. The real reason for staying is two words: I don't like you better than you, and I can't handle you weaker than you. If you live too long, you are most likely to be lonely all your life.
7. The only thing in this world that can stand the ravages of time is talent.
8. People will always fall in love with such a person in this life. He may not be so good, but you just happen to like that. His concern makes you give up very sweet words, his frankness makes you give up a lot, and his concern makes you win the world. This is called preference. Because of my preference, I go my own way. There is no reason, just because only he can fill the corner where your soul is missing.
9. People who tie your shoelaces, make you eat fat, give you bangs, touch your head, look at you when you cry, beat him but don't fight back, encourage you when you are tired, giggle at you and sing to you all the time are the people you should cherish.
10, you have to get used to loneliness sooner or later. No one will protect you as a baby. Smile no matter how difficult it is, even if you are pretending. You should learn to be rude to people, roll around and retain them, but also learn to cherish them. There are not many intimate friends. Do you really want to be alone Remember to forget, don't live in the past sadly, don't be so willful and naive; One must live beautifully.
1 1. Boys should not easily say anything related to commitment, and girls should not easily do things that require others' commitment or responsibility. Learn to protect yourself to some extent.
12, I tried to please many people and was busy maintaining a relationship. Finally, I realized that we don't need to please anyone. All we have to do is to make ourselves strong and then attract the people we like to lean over automatically.
13, you often think the world is too good or too bad, you often think people too carefully or too stupid, you don't choose the angle of looking at the world, you don't accurately measure the good or bad of life, everything is not as beautiful as you think, everything is not as unbearable as you think, the wind is gentle, it rains occasionally, and you are too tired.
14, probably because you are too young, and the emotions of good and bad are too deep. It is earth-shattering when you touch it lightly.
15, a person can endure any life if he knows what he is living for. Nietzsche
16, we know better than anyone that every moment will pass, and we know better than anyone that this moment just can't pass. The future may be beautiful, but I'm sorry, that's not the present. So when comforting, don't say it will be fine, please say I'm still here.
17, I believe that in this world, some people have some things and some love. When they met for the first time, they were doomed to be bound for life. They are destined to grow in their hearts like trees and live forever. Miyazaki Hayao
18, he likes drinking boiled water. You happen to be a bottle of Sprite, and you want to be his favorite, so you shake off the carbon dioxide in your body and look at yourself. You are just a bottle of sweet water without breath. You were not loved by him before, and now you are. For those who liked you before, you don't have that taste. When we meet better people, we have exhausted our best selves.
19, I gave you a candy. When you saw that I gave him two, you had a problem with me, but you didn't know that he also gave me two candy, and you never gave me anything.
Whether it's good or not is one thing, and whether you like it or not is another. Some things, really can't be forced.
Good morning words: true love is two parts of loneliness, care and love.
Good morning: True love is two lonely, caring, caressing and happy encounters.
1. Say less vitriolic words and do less impulsive and willful things.
People in dreams should call them when they wake up. Life will be much simpler this way.
I want to be a shining psycho in your mediocre memory.
I finally understand why I can't bear to leave. I would rather love your shortcomings than accept others. In this relationship, there is nothing wrong with you and me, but I forgot to love myself first.
5. Keep your injured hair, keep your weight around 100 kg, take care of your picky stomach, and make a friend who can talk nonsense all the way; Find a gentle dream for your tired life, and then bid farewell to the past sadness completely. This is what you have to do next.
6. About 60% of the unhappiness that may happen every day is due to poor eating and sleeping, and the remaining 40% is due to taking oneself too seriously.
7. I'm over the age of wanting a result. I want to do what I want, and I can be generous to whoever I want. Some time in life is unavoidable and wasted on some people and things.
8. Sometimes, we have to be strong, so in pretending to be strong, we are really getting stronger and stronger.
9. The stronger a person's self-healing ability, the more likely he is to be close to happiness. Be a taciturn person, but there is a sea in my heart, don't hurt others, and be calm and comfortable in indifference.
10, my favorite soda as a child, I finally got it back, but it didn't taste right. The world has changed us, and we have ruthlessly changed the world in our eyes. It is good to keep it in memory.
1 1. Love is when you lose a front tooth, but you can still smile calmly. Because you know that your friends won't stop loving you because of your incompleteness.
12, the so-called understanding is to know the deepest pain in the other person's heart and where it is.
13, there is a kind of person who is very beautiful. He once made you look forward to tomorrow, but he didn't appear in your tomorrow. There is another kind of person who is very practical, and he will give you longer happiness in the years to come, although he has never been to your youth. For the former, we should bless each other; For the latter, we should wait gently.
14, the person who felt the best since childhood was her mother. She is not afraid of the dark, knows everything, cooks well, lives in perfect order, and calls for her when she cries and doesn't know what to do. But I seem to forget that the person I rely on used to be a little girl. She was afraid of the dark and would shed tears, and her clumsy hand would be pricked by a needle. The most beautiful girl, what makes you so powerful, time or love?
15, we are all over the age of listening to love. One day, you will no longer need vigorous love. All you want is someone who won't leave you. When you are cold, he will give you a coat, when your stomach is uncomfortable, he will give you a cup of hot water, and when you are sad, he will give you a hug, so I will always accompany you, not to say how much you love, but to never give up seriously. In the end, the person you love will eventually lose to the person who is good to you.
16, the more people are afraid of losing face, the more they care about other people's opinions. The more you care about other people's opinions, the more you will ignore your own feelings. The more you ignore your feelings, the more you live like a puppet for others to see. The last step is to imprison your true self in the deep darkness. Losing ourselves is the root of our inability to find happiness and happiness, and it is also the root of all psychological problems.
17, the airport witnessed more sincere kisses than the wedding hall, and the walls of the hospital heard more prayers than the church.
18, who is worth marrying, who is worth marrying, how can it be made clear. There is no standard for love, just to see whether you are happy or not. So it's not a question of who is suitable, but a question of whether you are willing or not. If you like, so can a poor child. If you don't want to, I will leave here. Love is not a choice, but an inner firmness.
19, if you are still alone, don't rush into the arms of the next person for the so-called sense of security. The sense of security has always been for yourself. Only those who give themselves a sense of security can meet someone you don't need to please and meet someone with the same frequency as you.
20. True love is when two lonely people care about each other, caress each other and meet happily.