As it happens, Younger of the law department is also preparing, lamenting the hardships in the circle of friends every day and shouting that it is difficult to take the exam.
I took the lead for the two of them, and suddenly I reacted and asked Chen Rehan, why did you take the exam?
Chen Rehan replied airily, I am in a hurry not to take the exam.
Poof ~ ~ ~ I almost didn't spit out a mouthful of salt soda.
Didn't you just get the qualification certificate of psychological counselor in the first half of the year and the qualification certificate of human resources teacher last year? What are you doing with so many certificates?
The tone of Chen Rehan is also helpless. Yes, I have taken various exams in recent years. I was admitted as a postdoctoral student last year, and I felt that my life was very empty. Anyway, it won't hurt to have more certificates. I also took a tour guide certificate when I was in graduate school.
Dare to test these certificates, just like collecting stamps when I was a child and playing with local tyrants, has become a hobby!
I was speechless, and then asked her if your certificate was useful.
She cocked her head and thought about it. In addition to the tour guide card, sometimes there are discounts on tickets for scenic spots. I really didn't do anything with these cards. I was very excited and fulfilled during the exam.
Uh ~ ~ ~ What is this, a typical sequela of exam-oriented education, or a pastime of learning hegemony!
Sincere suggestion: Chen Ruohan, your second-class certificate of psychological counselor and qualification certificate of human resources teacher are still quite valuable. Don't leave it there. In this way, one of my brothers opened a psychological counseling studio in memory in the eastern suburbs. It seems that he needs an assistant now. Do you want to help at the weekend? It is also a question of applying what you have learned.
So, this guy passed fart Dian fart.
As for me, I also belong to a person who is not very strict. I thought that the matchmaker would naturally climb over the wall when the newcomer was brought into the house.
Introduce each other's situation in place, it seems that they are satisfied with each other and should be able to cooperate happily. My brother is also a loyal and sincere person. Chen Ruohan is a little cute and has a strong IQ.
So, I think, I have nothing to do with it. I turned to do my own thing and didn't care much.
A few days ago, I accidentally brushed my circle of friends and saw a sentence from my brother's circle of friends: "The most destructive person in the world is never a person who does bad things, but a person who helps with kindness."
This looks familiar, and it took me a long time to react. In my previous article.
So, my brother WeChat joked about copyright fees.
As a result, my big brother poured out bitter water all afternoon and said he was my friend. What's in his head is like an ink bottle, but he can't pour it out when he has goods in his stomach. It looks great, but he is not in the state at all when actually operating various situations.
The qualification certificate of psychological counselor and human resource division is true. It is really from reading, but it can't be used. When it comes to practical application, it will be mechanically applied. You can talk about her, but this is a dead duck with a hard mouth. That's what the storyteller said.
The first case she helped me with was mild bipolar disorder. She insisted that she was a schizophrenic and had to be sent to a mental hospital. The counselor almost didn't hit her. Later, she followed another consultant in our studio, and the helper was very depressed. She told people that if you don't take medicine, it will be over. It's true, but did you say it directly? Increasing the psychological burden of counselors makes people more depressed.
We really can't take this bookish attitude of "looking for a tiger according to the picture", and it's even more boring for her to take the human resources exam. What HR is not from actual combat? Indirect knowledge in these books really must be transformed into direct experience through practice.
Uh ~ ~ ~ I can't even answer the phone. This matchmaker is really difficult to do. Whether the couple is sweet or not is none of your business. If there is a contradiction, you will be incompetent as a matchmaker.
I had to explain at once that Chen Ruohan is very smart and learns things quickly. I didn't expect to get you into trouble. I'm sorry!
My elder brother said, I really don't blame her. She is a good person, but she doesn't know how to digest things. She turned herself into a bad cat.
Many people have the misconception that they can be qualified for this job after taking the exam, but it's really not like that. Textual research is just a threshold. You originally had a license to engage in this technology industry, but your actual operational ability, your recognition in this professional market, the popularity of communication with peers in this major, etc. can determine the depth of your involvement in this industry.
Textual research is just the beginning, or not the beginning. The real beginning lies in your understanding of the industry and your contact with the practical significance of the future.
Chen Ruohan is very diligent and hardworking. She has no fewer than five or six cards in her hand. In fact, she is nothing. I once knew that a friend took more than a dozen certificates, all of which were recognized by the state as vocational skills certificates, not just those produced by so-called pheasant training courses.
But what's the use? What really matters is your depth and research level in this industry.
The so-called "more evidence than weight" is just "more than one can chew", "a little taste is enough" and "swallowing blindly", just like pig Bajie eating ginseng fruit, but eating nothing.
Now when I meet my younger brothers and sisters who haven't graduated, I often sigh "Adventure Island". It's getting harder and harder to find a job, and there's no point in studying. College students don't earn as much as migrant workers.
There is an old saying called "arachis duranensis". People who are truly skilled and capable are indispensable talents for employers at any time. Even if the employment rate is 99%, if there is no real talent and learning, you are 1%.
Constant research, or doing something that looks hard but has no practical significance, can only explain ~ ~
"In fact, you are afraid of competition in the real world and don't want to face trivial things that don't have immediate returns in reality. Long-term exam-oriented education makes you feel that things with results and achievements are worth doing, right? "
When I met Chen Rehan face to face, I asked her like this. This conversation is really direct. However, Chen Ruohan is different. She has been my friend for many years, and we both know each other's temper. As we all know, it is a waste of time to pretend to care and be considerate around the mountain.
What's more, with Chen Rehan's good IQ, people who can read good books are not bad at understanding, but they all know the truth. Whether they can do it or not is another matter.
Therefore, the ancients had a saying: "It is better not to read a dead book!"
There are many scholars in this world. Some people think they are lofty and ignore the world. They are proud of digesting and understanding the knowledge of their predecessors in books all their lives. The world is full of knowledge, and no one can glimpse it. If they are completely self-centered and have other people or family members to provide materials and take care of their lives, this life is worth living for themselves.
Just how many people can have such material conditions? After all, consciousness and matter, mainstream materialism has always stressed: "matter is the basis of consciousness."
Indulge in books, learn more knowledge, get more certificates, and become a bottle full of ink. It's no use having goods in your stomach. No matter how strong it is, there is no social recognition. It is close to a strange state of self-expansion, and it is easy to get possessed.
In Maslow's values, the realization of self-worth is the highest level, so people will find that their satisfaction is the strongest when they are needed and recognized.
Confucius said, "Quality is better than literature, literature is better than history, gentle, and then a gentleman." The Analects of Confucius yongye
These two sentences are the teaching experience of Confucius' reading and learning. The former sentence will be memorized in middle school, which means that knowledge acquisition and independent thinking must complement each other and be indispensable.
The last sentence means that if you are too simple and lack literary talent, you will appear rude and vulgar, while paying too much attention to literary talent (in today's world, it means academic qualifications and culture) will become hypocritical and exaggerated.
"Apply what you have learned", people are different from some creatures that rely on parthenogenesis in the biological world, and are also different from those living alone in the animal and plant world. The reason why human beings have wisdom comes from the inheritance and exchange of knowledge, which inspires inspiration and understanding.
Therefore, people are social animals and social animals, and knowledge should have practical uses, which is wisdom.
Otherwise, no amount of certificates, no amount of books, and no amount of books are just books that can walk upright.
What can be replaced is worthless, let alone the realization of self-worth.
Without the embodiment of self-worth and the sense of existence in society, people will feel empty.
If you don't understand the reasons for these emptiness, some people will feel that they don't have enough knowledge. Just like Chen Ruohan, they will study hard and take various certificates to prove that they are valuable and different.
And some people are empty, they will feel that they are not beautiful enough and rich enough, so they will try their best to make money and have plastic surgery, thinking that with more money and a more beautiful face, they will be confident and valuable.
In this way, you will fall into a vicious circle of boredom, whether it is research, plastic surgery or endless material money acquisition. Just like addiction, drug addicts have no sense of self-existence and don't know how to realize their self-worth.
Simply put, you should be useful to others, society and the world, otherwise, no matter how much wealth and honor you have, emptiness will always follow you.
Why keeping pets makes many people feel happy and satisfied is the most direct demand. Your existence is at least useful to your pet.
Trying to do something useful to others, instead of just focusing on your own feelings, will make life much more interesting.
Just try it. How do you know until you try? It doesn't matter at all anyway. For example, helping me forward the article is valuable to you and me. Ha ha!