? When consulting visitors, first do the following preliminary data collection:
? Who? Who's the visitor?
? What? What happened?
? Where? Where did it happen?
? When, when did it happen?
? Why? What happened?
? What about those people?
? Why, things just evolved?
Find out the ins and outs of the matter, and who is the most important.
? Consultation goal: it is the goal that visitors strive to achieve through self-exploration and change; The goal of psychological counseling is also the goal of psychological counselors to help the seekers through the theory, methods and skills of psychological counseling, and finally to promote their realization.
? Characteristics of effective counseling goal: 1, which belongs to the category of psychology. Such as cognition, behavior, emotion and personality.
? 2. positive.
? 3. Specific or quantitative. The more specific and quantitative the goal, the easier it is to implement and the more convenient it is to evaluate the consulting effect.
? 4. It is feasible. The goal is within the tolerance of visitors, that is, visitors can do it and achieve it.
? 5. Both sides accept it.
? 6. It can be evaluated. Mainly depends on whether it is effective.
? 7. Multi-level unification. If there are multiple goals, coordinate and unify.
? The above is excerpted from "Three-level Skills of Psychological Counselors".