I am a door-to-door son-in-law, and I have a serious contradiction with my wife. What should I do?

Know that she hates me for ignoring them for two years, and you will know the problem. In fact, people's hearts are long. After all, the baby is yours. The important thing is that the feelings are still there. Why not fight for them? After reading what you wrote, I personally feel that it is your fault first. As a woman, if you ignore them for two years, everyone will be angry. Adults are angry anyway, children are right, you are cruel. What you did was all wet. What you can do now is to let your family know your fault with actions, and you should make up for it as much as you can. I didn't win in the end, and I worked hard for my family. Nothing is impossible, it depends on whether you do something with your heart. Maybe it's how much you love and hate, which proves that your wife still loves you very much. If you have no feelings, why doesn't she remarry? 2 years, thinking of a person is really slow! Seize the moment! And what you said about money can be discussed. If your wife is frugal, she still won't understand her. Everything she does is for your children. Everyone has different ideas. People need to communicate, and no one knows what you are thinking. If she asks you to look after the children, you will have a chance. Good things will accumulate bit by bit, and hatred will accumulate bit by bit, so you should take action.