Lenin said: "Planned saving is the greatest saving". Similarly, "the success of the plan is the greatest success". Of course, the plan here refers to planning.
If you want to plan yourself well, you must first have a clear understanding of yourself. One is your personality, and the other is your talent.
What is your personality: extroverted or introverted? Confidence or inferiority? Brave or timid? Extreme or peaceful? Optimism or pessimism? What is your gift: a good memory? IQ? How creative is it? Strong thinking ability in images or logical thinking ability? Do you have any special skills: for example, a good voice, like sports, strong sense of music, like dancing, painting, good at acting and so on.
With an accurate understanding of yourself, it is not difficult to make plans.
Let's talk about school first. If you have a high IQ, you also like to study. At this time, you should make use of your own advantages and try to get a high degree. If you have a high IQ but don't like school life very much, then you don't have to force yourself to study hard there. Why don't you join the society as early as Bill and give full play to your intelligence? Like gates.
If your academic performance is not good, but you have some specialties, you might as well do some professional training in your spare time, which may still be promising. If your academic performance is average, but you have some personality strengths, such as good eloquence, good eloquence, good communication and good manipulation. Then you don't have to struggle on the single-plank bridge of learning. It seems that few outstanding politicians, diplomats and entrepreneurs have received higher education.
To some extent, learning is only a means, and career is the purpose. Want to study hard, but also for career success. But career and study are completely different. Occupation involves not only your business ability, but also many jobs involve interpersonal problems. In other words, if you can't handle interpersonal relationships well, maybe you won't be so successful at work. It is common for people with poor abilities to be promoted than those with good abilities. It can be seen that personality accounts for a greater proportion in a person's career than in his studies.
In addition, whether a person's career is successful depends more on whether he chooses the right major. If a person's IQ is high, he is naturally smart and full of research spirit, and if he studies science and engineering, he may achieve a lot, but he has chosen a popular major-economic management. Management works with people, but he is introverted and shy, which is not suitable for management at all, and his career is naturally not easy to succeed. On the contrary, what can an active person do while sitting in his study doing academic research? The key to choosing a major is to follow your own interests, not follow the trend to choose a popular major.
The third layer of life is marriage. Nietzsche said: "Matching is the most difficult thing. I haven't found a woman who I want her to have a baby for me. " . Although Nietzsche said a little more, many people know that a happy marriage is hard to find. Therefore, to have a happy marriage, we must be cautious.