Marriage is the happiest thing in a woman's life, that is, finding a good husband and marrying a good husband's family. A woman has just married her in-laws, so it's time to test her new wife. Especially when you meet an unreasonable and demanding mother-in-law
No matter what you do, some tricky mothers-in-law just want to treat you as someone else's child, as if you robbed her of her job, or look down on your background, or glare at you, find fault with you, or even make trouble.
Feifei and her boyfriend Xiaofeng fell in love at first sight in college. Feifei is very beautiful, with a height of 170, tall and thin, and outstanding appearance. Feifei's parents are in real estate, and Feifei is the only daughter in the family. Since childhood, Feifei has grown up like a little princess, carefree.
After going to college, Xiaofeng took great care of Feifei since she fell in love with her, especially cherishing her feelings with Feifei and taking care of her. Every bit of life is a memory of their love.
After graduating from college, Xiaofeng and Feifei went home for the New Year. Xiaofeng is sensible and generous, and is deeply loved by Feifei's parents. When Feifei's parents asked him about Xiaofeng's plans for graduating from college, Xiaofeng answered smoothly and naturally. Feifei's parents felt that Xiaofeng was a talented person, so they were relieved to give their daughter to Xiaofeng.
Half a year after graduating from college, Xiaofeng's mother has been urging Xiaofeng to bring his girlfriend back. 10/day, Xiaofeng brought Feifei back to her hometown. When her mother saw that Xiao Fei was dressed in fashion, she said to Xiaofeng, "Such a daughter-in-law is no good, tacky and impractical." Xiaofeng said to her mother, "Feifei is a good girl. She is very kind to herself." Xiaofeng's mother added, "If you look at her, you won't do housework. Xiaofeng said to her mother, "Mom, what age is it now? Forget it. "
When Feifei first met her mother-in-law, she brought her many things, such as ginseng, bird's nest, clothes, cosmetics and many precious supplements. My mother-in-law saw Feifei and said no, but she had these things in her hand. He smiled and said, "Come as soon as you come, and don't spend any money." Feifei looks at her future mother-in-law, although she is only in her early 50s. Probably because I have lived in the countryside for a long time, my skin is chapped and dark, and I have no glory of modern women at all.
They stayed in their hometown for three days, and they can go back in three days. On the plane, Feifei asked Xiaofeng, what is your mother's impression of me? Xiaofeng had to put in a good word for her mother and said, "My mother likes you very much and says that you are not only beautiful, but also very sensible. She is particularly satisfied with you. " Feifei was flattered after hearing this. Xiaofeng and I talked and laughed all the way, so happy.
On this day, Feifei accidentally found herself pregnant. Xiaofeng anxiously said to Feifei, "Don't worry about my wife, I'll take care of it. When we get married, believe me, I can take good care of you and your children. " Feifei was deeply moved by her confession.
After that, Xiaofeng asked for leave to discuss marriage with her mother. As soon as her mother heard that Feifei was pregnant, she said to Xiaofeng, "You see, I told you that such a girl could not marry. Not long after she was together, she became pregnant. " Xiaofeng explained: "Feifei and I have been together for several years. Now that she is pregnant, I will definitely marry her.
Feifei also went back to discuss with her parents, and finally the two families got together to discuss marriage. Xiaofeng's mother knew that Feifei's family was rich when she met her mother. There was a satisfied smile on his face. In the end, the two families agreed to get married at 5438+05 in June next month, with a bride price of100000. Xiaofeng's mother promised a bride price of 654.38+ 10,000 yuan because of the large dowry of Feifei. She thinks it's not a loss.
Next month is coming, and the two held a wedding at Feifei's house. A few days later, they went back to Xiaofeng's hometown for a wedding. The day after the wedding, the newlywed wife will offer tea to her mother-in-law. When Feifei got up early that day to offer tea to her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law actually asked Feifei to kneel down and toast herself. Seeing that Feifei was indifferent, she said, "Daughter-in-law, it cost 65,438+10,000 to marry you.
When Feifei heard her mother-in-law's words, she was so angry that she finally stood up and poured her tea, but she gave herself a duel. Growing up, she has never been so wronged. Feifei said, "Not too much." Feifei took out a bank card from her bag and said to her mother-in-law, "There are 200,000 in this card. Since you love money so much, how about giving you 200 thousand as my slave? " My mother-in-law blushed after hearing this.
In my opinion, marriage is a promise made by two people to each other. Promise to stay together for life, take care of each other, lead an ordinary life, take care of each other when you are sick, comfort each other when you are in pain, and treat each other sincerely forever. If a happy marriage is blocked by my mother-in-law, it really makes me hate and angry. In life, there are not a few mother-in-law who are ignorant of women and children like Feifei.
My feeling is that if my mother-in-law deliberately finds fault with you in her marriage, I can't give her a good face or reason with her. The more you talk, outsiders will only say that you are ignorant and unfilial. The only way for this mother-in-law is to be more unruly than her. It's just that the method is reasonable and you can't let yourself be wronged.
I don't think you can be too polite to such a bullying mother-in-law. It is proper to honor parents, but it should be based on mutual respect and impartiality. It's not good for you if you just tolerate it. After a long time, she will think you are easy to bully, which will be even more troublesome.