I don't know why the composition 1 with respect became sentimental in the first day of junior high school. "When people talk, they always turn to sadness. Clap your hands and laugh at Sha Ou, all worried. " There are many such sentences in my heart, and I really feel very sad. I really want to talk to someone, but I can't find the source that makes me sad. Alas! I don't know. Who should I appeal to in such a troubled and uneasy mood? No one can say it, and there is no way to make it clear. I thought of keeping a diary and recording my childish anguish with a pen.
I bought a diary with the pattern "My Baby" printed on it with my pocket money. I want to write my messy and vague feelings into intermittent sentences and tell them to "my baby". I know that only it can understand and understand my heart: withered chrysanthemums are yellow, leaves are fluttering, and my eyes are confused. The cold wind roared and smoked, and it was sad in vain to see this bleak scene. ...
One night, when I was talking to my baby, my mother leaned over and told me to go to bed early. I promised and closed the bedroom door. I thought my mother didn't notice that I kept a diary, so she put it on the table to sleep.
In the middle of the night, I got up to go to the toilet. When I came back, I saw the light still on in my mother's bedroom. I walked straight in, and a familiar cartoon image came into view-"My Baby"! Mom didn't seem to notice, but she also looked at the diary with relish!
I rushed to the top of my head with anger, shouted and rushed over, grabbed my diary in a rage, turned back to my room and cried sadly.
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At this point, my mood is very complicated. I know some of my classmates also have mothers peeking at their children's diaries. Such things not only make children sad, but also alienate their families. I have always been glad that I have a good mother who won't peek at my diary. Unexpectedly, she is also vulgar!
Get up in the morning and walk out of the bedroom. My mother greeted me.
"Good morning, baby!"
I just smiled and passed my mother by.
At dinner, my mother said to me, "What happened last night was all my fault ... You, can you forgive my mother?" I didn't say a word, just gave a wry smile. I thought it was impossible. That's great. Is it over with a "I'm sorry"? Unwilling to forgive my mother, but at the same time afraid of the end of the cold war, we both lose, but I just can't stop being wronged and losing face. Alas, my heart is really sad!
In the afternoon, when I came back from a walk, I saw a brand-new password lock diary on my desk. Open the title page
One for my favorite daughter.
Daughter, I'm sorry that my mother went through your diary without your permission. Now, I will give you a diary with a password. From now on, this secret belongs only to you. You should keep the good habit of keeping a diary, improve the quality of the diary, don't just remember some boring things, cultivate your own sentiment, improve your ideological understanding and exercise your writing ability by keeping a diary.
Mom gave it to me!
I looked at my mother stupidly and didn't know what to say at the moment! "Girl, what's on your mind in the future, you can tell your mother. Don't lock yourself up! " My mother stroked my head and said seriously, "Mom peeked at your diary. Mom knows it's wrong, but she does it because she cares about you. Please forgive me.
I smiled, but this time it was especially sweet!
No one can live alone in the sea like an island. Everyone is like a small piece of soil, connecting the whole land. If a piece of soil is washed away by the sea, there will be a corner in Europe, which is like a canyon, as well as your friends and yourself. "This poem tells us that no one can live alone and everyone needs to get along with others. In the process of getting along, if you want to be welcomed by others, you must care about and respect others.
Respect is like a clear spring, which nourishes a dry heart and breeds flowers of love.
A very kind rich man specially designed a big roof when building a house, so that those homeless people could shelter from the wind and rain below. After the house was built, people did come to his house to shelter from the wind and rain, but it was noisy and brought some inconvenience to his house, so there were some quarrels and it was very unpleasant.
One winter, an old man froze to death under his eaves, and all those people were talking about it. The rich man thought he had done a good deed, but he was reviled by everyone. Later, he learned his lesson. When rebuilding his house, he reduced the area of the house and built a room next to it for the poor. Those people are very grateful to him. Charity should also appear in an appropriate way, so that the recipients can retain their self-esteem, thus benefiting others and letting others accept charity and know how to be grateful.
As heavy as a burning candle, it warms the hearts of others and illuminates their hopes.
In an extremely ordinary family, when winter and spring change seasons, my mother takes out what she left for the whole winter. My daughter's shoes were no longer suitable, so she picked them up and prepared to throw them away. But my mother wouldn't let me say, "Don't be busy." O took the shoes, took out the shoe polish and brush, wiped them carefully and oiled them. The daughter asked inexplicably, "Don't you want to throw it away?" "Yes, but this is a pair of shoes that can still be worn. Garbage collectors or others may wear them. We clean our shoes, which is a respect for the recipients. " Although respect is only a small act, it is enough for you and me, because it means the beauty of life and the harmony of society, which is our goal.
Respect is like a beautiful colorful bridge, which communicates the friendship, affection and love between people. Respect makes the friendship between Bole and Sun Shuai an eternal story; Respect.
Marx and Engels became close friends, and * * * wrote the Song of the Manifesto of the Productive Party; Respect makes couples respect and care for each other.
Respect is mutual and comes from each other. Give someone a rose, and the hand has a lingering fragrance. As long as we respect others, we can also get the respect of others, and respecting others shows our virtue; Being respected by others is the greatest happiness in life.
I saw such a story on the internet that day.
Once upon a time, there was a king who turned to a witch for help in order to defeat the enemy's army. The witch promised to help the king on the condition that she would marry the king's brother, a knight. But the witch is old, ugly, hunchbacked and foul-mouthed, which makes people feel sick. However, the king's brother promised the witch for the benefit of the country. On a sunny day, their wedding was held. The witch's disgusting appearance and ill-bred behavior made all the guests feel uncomfortable ... but the king's brother didn't have any disgust. He said to the witch, "I respect my promise and your habits at the same time." The witch was very happy. ...
At night, knights enter their bedrooms. What did he see ... a gentle and beautiful woman. So this is the prototype of the witch. She said, "Because you respect my feelings, I decided to respect yours. I will have half a day to recover my original shape, but do you want to recover during the day or at night? " The knight was very depressed. He hopes to have such a gentle woman to accompany him during the day, so that all the guests will not feel uncomfortable.
But at night, he wanted to be such a beautiful woman … so he said, "Whenever you choose to change back to your original shape, I will respect your choice."
The witch replied, "In this case, I have decided to face you and others with such a beautiful side from now on, day and night, because you respect my feelings and I will respect yours ..."
This is obviously a fairy tale, but the truth contained in the fairy tale is pure and beautiful. Knights, with their gentlemanly cultivation, know how to respect others and win benefits for the country. After the victory of the war, the people can live a happy and stable life, the subjects obey the king, and the brotherhood is stronger. Moreover, the knight used his respect for the witch to make himself happy. The witch not only turned over a new leaf, but also did something beneficial to herself, the knight and the guests.
Another article also made me feel the great power of knowing respect. At that time, Zhang Xiaoxian's Smile Goodbye and Bow Away was inspired by the story of a girl who was abandoned by her boyfriend and insisted on fighting. After reading this, I admire this girl's insistence on her boyfriend's true love, but I seem to think that her approach is a bit excessive, so it is very contradictory. Then Zhang Xiaoxian's point of view made me suddenly enlightened. She thinks that since her boyfriend doesn't love her anymore, if she really can't give up, she should respect her boyfriend's choice, wish him happiness with a smile, and then bow and leave.
This is not only used in love. When your relatives, friends and others make decisions that differ from your opinion, don't be willful and coquettish, respect them and win their respect for you. Take that girl up. Breaking up with her boyfriend and pestering her will make her feel like an ignorant person. It is too much to keep him, and the original affection for her is likely to disappear. If it is really a smile to say goodbye and bow to leave, not only her boyfriend, but also people around her will respect her, and her heart will be cheerful for her wise choice. Isn't this the best of both worlds?
It is said that with good habits, there is a good start. The basic principle of interpersonal communication is mutual respect, so we must learn to respect others.
I am 1 1 years old, and I still can't understand those philosophical concepts, but I deeply understand this sentence-if you want others to respect you, you must respect others first.
Hehe, it's funny to think about it I always make mistakes before I understand something. I will never forget 10 Children's Day, because it is an important day for me to grow up. On that day, in order to celebrate this festival, the school held a grand cultural performance at Tumen Cinema from 8 am. As early as 1 month ago, we specially arranged wonderful programs, waiting for this day to come! God took special care of us that day. There are no clouds in the sky. We all put on new clothes and lined up neatly to go to the performance site happily.
Wow! The venue was beautifully decorated, and colorful balloons set up a beautiful rainbow bridge. With the sweet voice of the small host, the program officially began! The students are really great. The program is getting better and better, and applause is coming and going. My hands are red, and I don't know what happened to me. An idea popped into my mind: why am I so stupid? I won't have to applaud when my classmates perform, so that my hands will suffer so much. With this idea, I didn't applaud after every program. At this moment, Wang Xiaoyi next to me said softly, "Why don't you clap?" I squinted at him and ignored him. After the next program, he was a little anxious and said in a slightly louder voice, "Why don't you know how to respect others!" " "When I heard this, I was so angry that I widened my eyes and said," Who are you? "Monitor, teacher, students like me, do you care?" After I said this, he threw me a sentence: "Whatever, if you don't respect others, others won't respect you!" " "I said angrily," it's really a dog with a mouse. Just full! "Later, no matter what I said, he didn't refute, just looked at the performance carefully. At the end of each program, I don't know why his applause always sounds so warm to me! I was not in the mood to watch the performance at that time. I always feel something is wrong, but I don't know what it is! Listening to the applause, it seems to be accusing me. At this time, I saw the students rehearsing the program over and over again. I clearly saw the glistening sweat on their foreheads-for a moment, I suddenly felt ashamed. That day, it was not until the last program that I got up the courage to applaud the little actors on the stage. Later, I didn't apologize to Wang Xiaoyi. I let him see my change with practical actions. I also forget when and how we made up. In short, we are inseparable bosom friends now!
From that day on, I had the concept of "respect" in my mind. As I grow older, I am more and more deeply aware of the importance of respecting others. I really want to say: Thank you, Wang Xiaoyi, for letting me know how to respect others and how to win their respect.
Respect is wisdom, virtue and tolerance.
Respect is like a piece of sunshine in winter, which makes people who are poor and sick feel the warmth of the world; Respect is like spring in the desert, which makes people on the verge of despair see the hope of life again; Respect is a ballad floating in the night sky, which gives spiritual comfort to the lonely and helpless. Respect is a kind of wisdom that teaches you to live in harmony with others. There is a river between people. Only by building a bridge of respect and eliminating the gap of distance can we walk into each other's hearts. The ancients said "Take Qi Mei as an example", saying that husband and wife should respect and care for each other to make their families happy. But there are also many violent incidents in which husbands beat their wives. The reason for investigating their domestic violence is that husband and wife don't respect each other enough and don't understand each other enough, so they accidentally hit each other. This kind of blow not only hurts each other, but also hurts the feelings between husband and wife, which leads to the breakup of many families! If couples respect each other and follow the example of the ancients, how many couples will love each other and have a happy family! It can be seen that respect will make people more harmonious and happier.
Respect is a virtue that makes people's hearts better.
Respect for others is the basic morality of being a man. Mencius has a cloud: "People who love others will always love others;" People who respect others will always respect others. As the saying goes, "Give me a peach and repay me with Qiong Yao". Respect others and be respected by others at the same time. Recalling that poor Xiaoyueyue suffered two car runs, only Chen Xianmei, a kind scavenger, was willing to give Xiaoyueyue a hand. Her pull not only pulled Xiao Yueyue from the brink of death, but also pulled out Chen Xianmei's virtue of respecting life. She, a scavenger, has no gorgeous clothes, but a respectable and kind heart. Her kindness is not an earth-shattering heroic feat, but it is enough to make the indifferent soul tremble; Her beauty is the perfection and beauty that no one can reach, unparalleled. Chen Xianmei has the virtue of respect, which makes her heart more beautiful.
Respect is a kind of tolerance, which broadens people's minds.
Anyone who respects others is not only an open-minded person, but also a gentleman who is tolerant, kind and indifferent to fame and fortune. Buddhist Ji Xianlin, a gentleman. He never talks about seniority. Every time a guest comes to visit, he dresses up early and lies at his desk with his head held high, his chin slightly restrained and he sits straight. In his view, sitting up is a respect for the guests. Ji Xianlin's broad mind and extraordinary demeanor reflect his excellent virtue of respecting others. Respect broadens one's mind, perfects defects and deficiencies, and adds luster and perfection.
Respect is not vast and desolate, not self-reliance, but a kind of wisdom, a kind of virtue, a kind of tolerance.
On the topic of respect, some people say that respect is a first-class daughter red, and you can smell its fragrance before drinking its wine; Some people say that respect is a plant in Lan Zhi, which is full of fragrance and infects you, me and him; It is also said that respect is a cup of tea, and only those who really understand it can ignore its indifference and taste its deep enthusiasm; I said, respect is air, and you can't keep losing it.
However, I don't know when the word respect began to disappear from my mind bit by bit until one day:
That day, I walked on the road with several partners, talking and laughing, very happy. We are full of vigor and vitality, and the sun shines on me, warm and a little high. However, at this moment, a sanitation worker came. She looks very young, wearing a cool hat, wearing a slightly muddy orange uniform, wearing a pair of white gloves blackened by dirt, carrying a black plastic bag, looking for something in the grass. I looked at her and said disdainfully to my friends: Hum, it seems that I really need to study hard! If I have to pick up rubbish in the street, I will die of shame. No, if I were you, I'd just hit the wall! Xiaoqiu seems to agree. hahaha. I laughed exaggeratedly.
The sanitation worker's hand paused in the air and soon fell down again. She looked up at me, and the low brim made her eyes deep, as if she could never see through it. I also raised my head slightly and stared at her, not to be outdone. I saw her lips move slightly, trying to say something, but she didn't say anything, just gave me a pie mouth, gave me a meaningful look, and lowered her head to continue looking for garbage. Hum, I smiled, but I didn't like it in my heart. I obviously saw a sharp irony in her eyes.
My friends and I were walking on the road, and the disdainful eyes of the sanitation workers kept emerging in front of us. I suddenly feel foggy in my chest, like a dirty fly buzzing in my chest. I suddenly felt regret. I regret trampling on the dignity of others so arrogantly!
Father said: Don't ridicule others ignorant, and don't discriminate against others superficially. If a person always taunts others, he will eventually lose his dignity. Yes, a person who does not know how to respect others is either ignorant or uneducated. Think about it. Who lost his precious dignity? It's me, naive me.
Mom said: Dignity is a mountain, dignity is water. I have been clamoring for respect and dignity, but I have not found that only respect can be exchanged for respect; Only when you don't laugh at others and others don't laugh at yourself is it called dignity.
Suddenly want to apologize to the sanitation worker. I want to tell her: thank you. Because of you, I understand what respect is.
Respect is mutual. As much as you pay, others will give you, just like air, you inhale and then spit it out.
From that day on, I really learned to respect.
There are seven essays on China. In the long history of 5,000 years, countless literati and heroes have emerged. Some of them are resourceful, some are brilliant, some are loyal to their duties, and some are brave and fearless ... all of them shine with different lights, attracting the attention of future generations and making people respect and admire.
An admiration for noble virtues.
Sima Qian wrote in Historical Records Confucius Family: "There is a saying in the poem that' the mountains stop and the scenery stops'. Although it can't be achieved, it is yearning. " The famous historian expressed his reverence and yearning for Confucius with the poems in The Book of Songs. Confucius paid attention to etiquette, taught people with poems, books, rituals and music, and was regarded as a "saint" by future generations as a teacher. He is optimistic, kind, persistent and strong, but no predatory prince adopts his theory. He traveled for the world, and the world didn't allow him, but he still enjoyed it, wading through mountains and looking for peaches and plums all over the world. Although Confucius had a rough life, his spirit and profound thoughts of "knowing what he can't do" were inherited and carried forward by later generations. Don't you see, Tao Yuanming of Jin doesn't love fame and fortune, but only loves Akiyama; Didn't you see that Li Bai in the Tang Dynasty was free and easy, addicted to mountains and rivers; Don't you see that Su Shi in the Song Dynasty is determined to rise and fall: they all stick to their ideals with the spirit of never giving up, which is respectable.
A minister capable of governing the world, a traitor in troubled times.
"A minister who can rule the world and a traitor in troubled times" is the evaluation of Cao Cao by Xu Shaoju, a celebrity in the late Eastern Han Dynasty. This sentence is really a portrayal of Cao Cao's life. The reason why Cao became a generation of fierce and immortal is closely related to his courage to know people and employ people without doubt and the thought that "the Duke of Zhou vomited food and the world belongs to his heart". In this kind of tolerance, many calculating people are attracted by Cao Cao's intelligence and personality charm, and have devoted themselves to his account and tried their best to help him complete the great cause. The attitude of knowing people and being good at their duties turned Cao Cao from a small commander in the north of Luoyang into a lean man who relied on the emperor to be a vassal. Ziri "does not suffer from people who don't know themselves, but suffers from people who don't know themselves." Do you remember that Zhou Zhiji was a Jiang Ziya, which was even worse? Do you remember that the ginger in the Spring and Autumn Period was Guan Zhong, such as icing on the cake; Do you remember that Li Shimin in the Tang Dynasty made Wei Zhi feel at home? History has proved that knowing how to appreciate others, knowing how to be tolerant and accepting, while achieving others, has also achieved yourself, which is equally respectable.
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Germany has been sincerely apologizing and deeply reflecting on World War II. 1970, when Chancellor Brandt of the Federal Republic of Germany visited Poland, he knelt down in front of the memorial to the Jewish victims in Warsaw and prayed, "God forgive us and may the suffering souls have peace." Brandt told himself to "kneel for all those who have to do it but have not done it", which shocked the world and touched it. On the other hand, Japan committed heinous crimes in World War II. Instead of apologizing, it exaggerated militarism. Tampering with history textbooks, covering up and forging history; Ignore the strong protests of Asian countries such as China and South Korea and insist on paying homage; Now a farce of buying has been staged, which makes the injured people look down upon and angry. Both Germany and Japan are sinners of history, but Germany has faced up to history and corrected its mistakes, which has won the forgiveness and respect of many countries. Japan, on the other hand, is still clinging to the ghost of militarism, and what awaits them will surely be the contempt of peace-loving people all over the world and the punishment of history.
Composition 8 on the topic of respect "Come on, China team! This game must be won. " Ruan Ruan, who was sitting in the audience, shouted excitedly.
This is a weightlifting competition held in Korea. Ruan Ruan and her classmate Yi decided to watch the game and cheer for the China team.
With the appearance of players from China, Ruan Ruan clapped and cheered hard, and stood away with her other hand holding Yi Yi's head. Yi Yi kept a polite smile on her face, burying her face in one hand, revealing a trace of embarrassment. "Ruan Ruan, calm down, the Korean audience is watching you." Said, and pointed to the child sitting next to him with his chin. Yes, the child's eyes were watery and he stared at Ruan Ruan in amazement, his eyebrows were raised one by one, and the North Korean flag was printed on his face. He looked at a small figure of four or five years old. Ruan Ruan glanced at him and said, "What are you looking at? I'll go to your parents. " Yiyi quickly persuaded: "Come on, he is still a child." "What happened to the child? He can't understand it anyway. " As soon as Yi didn't speak, he gently broke Ruan Ruan's hand, thinking, this is also the most basic respect. Ruan Ruan really went too far. At the beginning of the game, China players made a mistake, which caused Ruan Ruan to collapse and sulk on his shoulder. At this moment, she suddenly had a little strength to pull her skirt. She turned around slowly. The little boy said something to Ruan Ruan. Yi Yi, who studied Korean, translated: "He said, Sister, don't be sad, you have two chances. ˇ "Ruan Ruan turned away, triumphant. The little boy smiled at Yi and continued to watch his game. Korean players appeared. Without looking, Ruan murmured, "What kind of person is it?" Suddenly he shouted, "Which weightlifter is as good as China!" The little boy seems to have a strange look in his eyes, looking at Ruan Ruan. One of them said loudly, "Please respect (translation)." Ruan Ruan also shouted back: "You care about me!" The little boy ran out with tears in his eyes.
At halftime, Ruan Ruan disappeared, anxious as a cat on hot bricks. Later, I saw Yiyi come in with a little boy. Ruan Ruan was very angry and was about to have an attack, but was interrupted by Yiyi. "That little boy wants to be a weightlifter." "What?" "His dream is to lift weights, and the players on the stage are his idols." "So?" "Ruan Ruan, I hope you can respect others and their dreams. In the eyes of foreigners, you are China. Is respect a virtue that China people should not have? It is patriotic for you to cheer for China players, but you should also respect Korean players? " Ruan Ruan's face is red and white. She stole a glance at the little boy who touched the tears and apologized.
Respect means that players from other countries keep appreciating when they play; Respect is to give light and encouragement to others' dreams; Respect is a virtue that we must possess and inherit.
Composition 9 on the topic of respect: "People who respect others will always respect others." This is something that must be kept in mind when respecting a person. If you want it, you have to pay, which probably means "care with your heart" There are many examples in this regard: Liu Bei visited the thatched cottage, Cao Cao greeted Yang Xiu barefoot, and Kong Ming captured Meng Huo; There are many people listed, such as Liu Bei and Kong Ming, but Emperor Taizong and Sun Wu are more famous. Even if they only respect one person, it will not prevent their spirit of respect from being respected by us after the Millennium.
However, for a stranger, we can still think of respect, but for our loved ones, we will subconsciously forget. It seems that their efforts are deserved, so we have no special respect for the people around us. What's more, we are indifferent to reason, making our family hot and cold, and our kindness is regarded as a donkey's liver and lung. As a result, the so-called adolescent rebellious mentality has become more and more serious, and some things that could have been avoided have been infinitely magnified at once, and even intensified, which is out of control.
All this seems to be the tolerance of family members, and avoidance has contributed to this phenomenon. But the reason why it can become a phenomenon is inseparable from the social environment. However, after all, the family's endurance is limited. They are also flesh and blood, have feelings and get angry. However, we can still see family members angry, but it is not common to see the earth angry.
The ocean gave birth to us, but what really made us grow is the earth. However, human beings have little respect for the earth. The earth is seldom angry, but it can't touch her bottom line unscrupulously. If you don't get angry, it will be disastrous. For example, Wenchuan earthquake, Tangshan earthquake and Indonesian tsunami; Others are gradually taking shape: El Nino, ozone hole, etc. Some of them can't even be solved. Although they are only chronic, they are scary enough. Therefore, the sages once said that we should always have a heart that respects nature. When can human beings have a mountain-high vision and a sky-wide mind, and truly understand the laws of nature?
Nature always treats all kinds of human beings with an inclusive attitude. She allowed mountains to be leveled, valleys to be filled, forests to be cut down, grasslands to be buried by yellow sand, and rivers, lakes and oceans to be blocked or filled. She never interferes, just like a mother, watching her naughty child fiddle with things at home, just giving her a little punishment as a warning when she breaks a bottle or jar.
Long ago, there were three kinds of hunters with the most perfect evolution on the earth. Now, only one kind survives-the wolf! In strength, speed and vitality, it is not as good as the other two, but it survived precisely because it respects the way of nature, not obedience, but respect. They know how to think like mountains and live like water.
If human beings can do it one day, they will probably continue to reproduce, but complex-minded human beings don't know whether they can return to nature or respect others and nature, and only time can test them.