Take care of your health at home, don't let them worry about themselves. For a man, they always value two things, one is family and the other is career. Long-distance love is already very bitter. We are both thinking about each other. In fact, if we want them to live a more comfortable life, what we can do is to take care of ourselves, let them not worry about our affairs, and let them do what they should do with peace of mind. That's all we can do.
If you can, visit him regularly and let him know that you still love him. Everyone knows that long-distance love is very hard, because often two people can't know what the other person thinks of them, and they are often worried that the other person will be tempted by some around them, which will lead to their change of heart. Therefore, for military love in different places, if conditions permit, we will try to visit them regularly. Because of their special status, it is not convenient to come out, so only we will find them. The reason why I asked you to go to him is to let him know that you still love him and how you are thinking, because only in this way will he not be paranoid there and they will live more comfortably.
It is not easy to learn to understand them. Your tolerance now is the capital of future happiness. Everyone will encounter many things in life. Everyone's life is not easy, but for a soldier, their life is often more difficult. Although we are girls, we should learn to tolerate each other. We must learn to understand the difficulties in their lives. Because of their special status, they won't come to you when you are unhappy, like others. If you don't understand him, it will only increase the unhappiness between the two of you, but if you can learn to understand their difficulties and tolerate them, then everything you are doing now is paving the way for your future happiness, because you will always remember your kindness to them.