A friend hit the nail on the head: divorce is not a bad thing. It's better to get rid of it than to entangle it.
? I don't know how I will live without marriage, but I don't have the courage to say the word divorce. I hope he gets better and gives up gambling again and again. I called him late at night and refused to answer, so I turned off my phone. I feel desperate in my heart.
I can't recognize the true face of Lushan Mountain because I am there. He cheated on me again and again, and I was still studying his kindness. I was so reluctant to part with this small family. At that time, he was so poor that all his money was blocked. I went out on a poor trip and only had a few thousand dollars on me, so I chose to come to Guilin with a friend.
? I traveled to Guilin for the first time in my life to make room for my marriage. I want to watch my marriage quietly in the distance. Only seven days, and the distance made me see everything clearly. What is the significance of this marriage?
? He was surprised when I filed for divorce. I didn't expect such a cowardly person to file for divorce. He thinks our marriage is deeply rooted, and I won't have any thoughts after having a son.
? After a year of stalemate, he agreed to divorce and his son stayed with him for the time being. In this year, I left Beijing and came to Guilin to start my own life.
When I first arrived in a new city, I was at a loss. I don't know where to go, but I must grit my teeth and stick to it. I don't want to eat. In the first year, I was even brought into pyramid schemes. In the first year or two, I ran around like a headless fly, and there was not much left except paying rent every year. I've always wanted to take my child with me, and at this rate, it won't happen. I don't know how many nights I tossed and turned and saw my son's QQ space write a sentence that he missed his mother. I immediately burst into tears, and my heart was serrated.
? I began to look at the road I have traveled in the past two years and suddenly cleared my mind. The main thing I want to do is to stand firm and keep my feet on the ground. It is said that living and working in peace and contentment, peace of mind when you have a house. Suddenly I had the idea of buying a house. At that time, the rent for renting a house was 1000 yuan per month. I remember that the landlord's house was for sale. Seeing that I live here alone, Sister Chen takes good care of me. I sold my house, afraid I couldn't find it, so I found a friend to drive me to rent it myself. This friend's words strengthened my determination to buy a house. He told me that if the municipal government wants to move this area, there is room for appreciation, and the cost of renting a house is enough to repay the mortgage. Finally, the house is yours. Otherwise, you have been renting a house and finally working for the landlord!
? To put it bluntly, I must buy a house. But where did the money come from? Only loans, parents absolutely support buying a house. The down payment is 55,000. Borrowed it from home and booked a house with great interest. Monthly payment 1 300 is stressful, but the motivation in my heart exceeds the pressure when I think of having my own home.
At that time, the house price was 2200. He was surprised when he went back to Beijing to see his son and talked with a friend in Beijing. He always said it was too cheap and wanted to invest.
? Back in Guilin, I went to the building where I bought a house and asked the manager, if I take clients, can I get commission? She readily agreed and told me that she could give the customer a group purchase price, and she would give me the corresponding hard work fee after the transaction.
This incident opened my eyes. I can be a real estate agent. At that time, many people bought houses in Hainan for the winter, and Guilin was also a paradise for life!
? Suddenly, I found my way. Many northerners came to the south and struggled to find their way. I can be a bridge builder, help buyers, help me and find customers for real estate.
In this way, I began the experience of selling houses, and occasionally met like-minded friends on the Internet to sing and read aloud together. At that time, my favorite article was: I miss you quietly tonight. Is there a butterfly on your shoulder?
? At that time, many people rejected surfing the Internet, but the Internet brought me resources. I made an e-commerce through a netizen, just like the current WeChat business, and I also made a small profit at that time. Many netizens came to Guilin to play, and I warmly received them. I didn't expect them to become my clients later. I was told to be careful of liars, and I'm not afraid. I believe in one sentence: whoever is close to Zhu Zhechi is close to Mexico. Many netizens have become my friends in my later years.
? After living in a new house, I took my son to Guilin and went to high school in Guilin. I worked hard for my son. My son comes back from school once a week, and I will buy ribs to cook on Saturday and Sunday. At that time, ribs were a luxury for me. I won't buy it until my son comes. Even if I really want to eat them, I will restrain myself. With the arrival of my son, my heart is more firmly rooted in the small town of Guilin.
20 15, registered a real estate agent, officially cooperated with the real estate company to sell the house, and bought a second suite in life. After listening to a friend's investment philosophy, he took Beijing as an example. He said that if you only have one suite in Beijing, it has nothing to do with you. If you sell it, you will have no room. If you have two sets, you can sell one set to make money.
This sentence inspired me, and with the experience of buying a house for the first time, I started soon. Although I bought a house with a loan, I have hope, which is also my fixed asset.
Guilin is a tourist city, and suddenly I had the idea of opening a family hotel. A customer from Shanxi came. I said my idea at first, but I didn't know how to publicize it. He told me that I could go to Ctrip, and then I knew that Ctrip could book a hotel.
? In this way, I received a clean water room, carefully decorated and opened it. I will never forget the ecstasy of receiving the first order, so that I was excited all night. The next day, I rode my bike to the station to meet this guest, a young girl. I signed her up for a day trip. As I left early, I brought two apples and biscuits to the girl.
The girl stayed for two days and came back from the scenic spot and gave me a shawl. On the message wall of my inn, her first message was written: Miaopin Inn is great!
? I am very grateful to this girl for choosing to stay in my inn when she was not well received, which gave me great confidence and hope at that time.
Guests check in one after another and get favorable comments. A house was not enough, so I put my own house in the inn, and later added the client's house to the inn. The scale of Miaopin Inn is getting bigger and bigger. Many guests who live in the inn also buy houses to join the inn because they live comfortably.
Spent a lot of effort and decoration. Riding a bicycle to and from the construction site in the hot sun, my skin is tanned. I went out early and returned to the snack bar at noon. Often tired, I don't even have the strength to take a shower at home.
Life is fair. As the saying goes, if you suffer, life will repay you in another way.
20 17 I bought my neighbor's house at one time. For the small garden upstairs, I see flowers and plants upstairs every day. I bought a car for the inn and never went in or out of the inn again.
? 20 19 miaopin inn has four branches, each of which is well received. My son also grew up to be a barman in the army. My parents also received me. I have also grown from a weak woman who has no opinion to a woman who has an opinion and is independent in this situation.
Thank you for your poverty and suffering. Thank you for trusting me and supporting my friends when I was in trouble.